I put this on the OTT but I suppose I should put this out here in respect of the attention-whoring Languish tradition. I have a date today. Not much of one. I meeting this girl for lunch. I've never actually met her in person, I met her off the internet. So I don't really know how this will go. The only one who knows about this is Korea (and possibly Hunter). Korea tends to coach me on things like this.
I don't know much on what she looks like (I have one picture of just her head and she looks spaced out or pissed). She's probably pretty if she smiles. She has a better idea how I look. She's 26, unemployed, and goes to school here in Jefferson City. I'll be meeting her at 2:00 central time and I plan to give an AAR. In the meantime, I welcome predictions on this will go along with the typical terrible advice I get from here.
Good luck :)
I think it's going to go better than you think it will.
Good luck!
I have drawn up operational plans.
Weather: 76 degrees, mostly cloudy, 62% humidity, 10% chance of Rain, east north east wind 10MPH.
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I can already see that this is going to go down like a lead balloon. :lol:
How did you meet online? Does she know of your issues?
Please don't kill her in a fit of mad rage. :(
I will be following this. Great staart.
Always have an escape plan!
I bet you will think it went a certain way but she will think it went a totally different way. I love it when that happens. 'Were you on the same date I was?'
Quote from: Caliga on September 15, 2009, 11:57:05 AM
I can already see that this is going to go down like a lead balloon. :lol:
Raz might have beginners luck on his side.
print the plan and show it to her :D
:lol:
Quote from: Syt on September 15, 2009, 11:57:47 AM
How did you meet online? Does she know of your issues?
Please don't kill her in a fit of mad rage. :(
One of those dating sites. No, she doesn't know I'm a democrat.
Oh and to get a good idea of the area I found this video. This what the place looks at ground level on a fairly typical day. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AiIYFELuWYA
Good luck. I hope you survive.
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 11:58:47 AM
Always have an escape plan!
I bet you will think it went a certain way but she will think it went a totally different way. I love it when that happens. 'Were you on the same date I was?'
The last time I tried this I think we were on the same page. I thought it was fucking awkward and she never called back. So I think we were in the same ballpark (in my defense she picked the place to meet. A church during mass.)
So once you escape to the rocket what planet are you going to take off to?
It'll be fine.
A women interest in you goes a long away.
And then you both can raise unemployed children!
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 12:03:57 PM
The last time I tried this I think we were on the same page. I thought it was fucking awkward and she never called back. So I think we were in the same ballpark (in my defense she picked the place to meet. A church during mass.)
Well....at least she was a cheap date.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 12:03:57 PM
(in my defense she picked the place to meet. A church during mass.)
:lmfao:
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 15, 2009, 12:04:30 PM
It'll be fine.
A women interest in you goes a long away.
True but first she has to meet you in order to get interested in you.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 12:05:40 PM
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 15, 2009, 12:04:30 PM
A women interest in you goes a long away.
:yeahright:
A woman's interest is like 3.5% a month. That really adds up.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 12:04:39 PM
And then you both can raise unemployed children!
Everyone is unemployed but us slackers in the USA now, no?
Tell her about your imaginary internet friends, make sure Seedy is the first one. Talk about skin diseases, chicks dig that one. Remember to laugh with a high pitched giggle.
That is all I can think of right now.
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 15, 2009, 12:08:47 PM
Everyone is unemployed but us slackers in the USA now, no?
I don't understand.
To quote Caliga, good luck on your date.
I shall raise a glass in your name tonight...then go away and sob about my own datelessness... :cry:
I recommend not dwelling on your issues, or even volunteering self-deprecating jokes about them. Chicks don't really dig that.
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 12:11:51 PM
Tell her about your imaginary internet friends, make sure Seedy is the first one. Talk about skin diseases, chicks dig that one. Remember to laugh with a high pitched giggle.
That is all I can think of right now.
I can see you'll be a hit at the frat parties this year.
Raz, have fun. No matter what else, you're going out and meeting someone new. Whether she's a potential mate, a potential inmate, or a potential maid, at least you'll have made a new friend. :)
Ask for anal.
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 12:31:43 PM
a potential maid, at least you'll have made a new friend. :)
:lol:
RAZ: I don't see myself dating you or incarcerating you in my basement. You do seem like the type that would be good at cleaning my toilets, though. Whaddya say?
INTERNET GIRL: Sure thing, new friend! :cool:
Well, she is unemployed. It may not be such a bad offer to her. You just won't know until he tries. :)
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 12:40:33 PM
Well, she is unemployed. It may not be such a bad offer to her. You just won't know until he tries. :)
What's he gonna pay her with, his own boogers? :huh:
She's also still in school. I suggest you ask Ed how to get into her pants.
Quote from: Caliga on September 15, 2009, 12:42:04 PM
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 12:40:33 PM
Well, she is unemployed. It may not be such a bad offer to her. You just won't know until he tries. :)
What's he gonna pay her with, his own boogers? :huh:
Raz has some cash.
Quote from: The Brain on September 15, 2009, 12:43:17 PM
She's also still in school. I suggest you ask Ed how to get into her pants.
:lol:
I can't imagine what Raz was talking about when he mentioned receiving terrible advice here. Everything in this thread is spun with silken skeins of pure gold.
Good Luck!
Day time first dates usually aren't a good idea in my experience, they tend to be extra awkward.
Try not to talk about your problems instead try to be positive. Also maybe have a rough idea of things you could ask her about (like hobbies, films, music, etc).
Don't forget the duct tape.
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 12:31:43 PM
at least you'll have made a new friend. :)
Let's be realistic. Many first dates end with no friendships formed.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 01:03:27 PM
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 12:31:43 PM
at least you'll have made a new friend. :)
Let's be realistic. Many first dates end with no friendships formed.
True. I had several in college where neither party attempted any followup contact at all.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 01:03:27 PM
Let's be realistic. Many first dates end with no friendships formed.
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
I tried it with one woman and she got psycho and clingy...yes she rejected me then we started hanging out and she got jealous of my other friends. True story. It was like being in a relationship but without any of the good parts.
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
I tried it with one woman and she got psycho and clingy...yes she rejected me then we started hanging out and she got jealous of my other friends. True story. It was like being in a relationship but without any of the good parts.
:blink: Where do you find these women? :lol:
Quote from: Caliga on September 15, 2009, 01:07:05 PM
:blink: Where do you find these women? :lol:
I usually found them online but this one I found at a party.
A sexy party?
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
I've had one, but that's because it's always been unclear whether we've ever date again.
Otherwise no. -_-
Quote from: The Brain on September 15, 2009, 01:09:47 PM
A sexy party?
Yes. I usually have a sex party every third thursday of the month.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 01:10:36 PM
An arty party.
....
I guess I have told this story before.
Anyway the date of the century is going on as we post.
I hope he doesn't call her a GOPtard. Politics suck as a date conversation.
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 01:03:27 PM
Let's be realistic. Many first dates end with no friendships formed.
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
I tried it with one woman and she got psycho and clingy...yes she rejected me then we started hanging out and she got jealous of my other friends. True story. It was like being in a relationship but without any of the good parts.
And you let her act all warpig around you because...? :huh:
I mean, seriously, the first time was the time that you should have put her to the wall. Either she fucks you, she actively acts as a pivot to get you chicks even hotter than her (which all real girl friends should help their mates for), or she is goodbye.
These kinds of shit bitch behaviors are unacceptable, and you should have put your feet on the ground, like a man.
Besides, women hate being LJBFed even more so than guys do. It drives them nuts that you get to disqualify them, and not vice-versa. The mere fact that you use it on them increases your worth to them a lot (or in some cases, drive literally mad and insane, as you have witnessed). :cool:
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 02:41:01 PM
I hope he doesn't call her a GOPtard. Politics suck as a date conversation.
They also suck as a marriage conversation, trust me. :frusty:
Yeah my wife is a total Democratic partisan. It is best for my health to keep my opinions to myself. :blush:
I am just glad I do not have to endure the anti-Bush crap anymore.
Quote from: Drakken on September 15, 2009, 02:57:44 PM
These kinds of shit bitch behaviors are unacceptable, and you should have put your feet on the ground, like a man.
Yeah see I didn't have time for that crap. I was too busy hanging out with friends who were not psycho and dating women who were...um...sometimes less psycho.
QuoteBesides, women hate being LJBFed even more so than guys do. It drives them nuts that you get to disqualify them, and not vice-versa. The mere fact that you use it on them increases your worth to them a lot. :cool:
LJBFed?
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 03:02:17 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 15, 2009, 02:57:44 PM
These kinds of shit bitch behaviors are unacceptable, and you should have put your feet on the ground, like a man.
Yeah see I didn't have time for that crap. I was too busy hanging out with friends who were not psycho and dating women who were...um...sometimes less psycho.
QuoteBesides, women hate being LJBFed even more so than guys do. It drives them nuts that you get to disqualify them, and not vice-versa. The mere fact that you use it on them increases your worth to them a lot. :cool:
LJBFed?
Agreed on the first part. :P
Let's Just Be Friends.
A common acronym in the "Seduction Community."
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 15, 2009, 03:04:54 PM
A common acronym in the "Seduction Community."
It's used way, way more widespread than in the SC, we used to say it in high school between guys. :rolleyes:
Are the bets still open for Raz getting a no-show at his date? ;)
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 01:03:27 PM
Let's be realistic. Many first dates end with no friendships formed.
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
I tried it with one woman and she got psycho and clingy...yes she rejected me then we started hanging out and she got jealous of my other friends. True story. It was like being in a relationship but without any of the good parts.
My first fiancee. We are much better friends than being married to each other.
Quote from: Drakken on September 15, 2009, 03:08:04 PM
Let's Just Be Friends.
Ah got it.
Well I was never strategic or sneaky enough to use it as a manipulation. Also generally if I was not interested I never wanted to see the woman again. If we had been hanging out for awhile and seemed to have a connection and she um...LJBFed me....I might make an exception but it never went anywhere platonically or otherwise.
Anyway Raz should be back soon.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 03:12:13 PM
My first fiancee. We are much better friends than being married to each other.
Granted.
I do think it is a bit different to be friends with your ex versus just somebody you dated who threw out the 'friends' line, that was more where I was going.
Raz has gotten back. Remarkably it wasn't a disaster. I probably could have gone better but I didn't freak out or freak her out. Also she wasn't bad looking. I think it went well but I won't know until I hear back from her (if I hear back from her).
I will now write an AAR
Did you talk about me?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 03:50:22 PM
Raz has gotten back. Remarkably it wasn't a disaster. I probably could have gone better but I didn't freak out or freak her out. Also she wasn't bad looking. I think it went well but I won't know until I hear back from her (if I hear back from her).
I will now write an AAR
That's pretty much what I expected.
At about 20 after 1 I left the house, There didn't seem to be any large cats outside so I felt safe enough to make a dash for the car. I drove down to a local bank and took 50 bucks out of my account and then headed downtown. Parking is poor downtown so I opted for parking garage on Madison. Took an alley and made it strait to the Capital.
The full paths are below in another chart. Red is her, Blue is me and Purple is us together.
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EDIT: First image was to small.
I leaned up against an old statue of Thomas Jefferson and shot the breeze with Tom while I waited for her. Not long after I arrived I saw a shapely young lady walking toward the capital stopping every few minutes to type something into her cell phone. I watched her with an air of indifference as she made her irregular trek toward the capital steps. When she arrived she seemed some what confused and stood looking around before finally noticing me leaning against old Tom. (for the record Tom thought she was okay, but world have preferred some darker meat). She looked up and asked if I was Brad to which I did a dramatic bow and tip of the hat.
After introduction we walked together up the street to the coffee shop. I don't actually drink coffee so I got a Mr. Pibb and a bagel. She got a chocolate mocca or some damn pagan thing. We talked rather animatedly for a while as we both tried to gauge one another. She talked about how she liked to hang out in bars and I refrained from saying something stupid.
Since the sun was shining I suggested we take a walk and she concurred. She saw something about the prison tours and became excited and I told her the Walls were just a few blocks down. So we made out for the old penitentiary while I made up stories that tended to end in me saying "well that's not entirely true". She asked questions about things like how parking meters worked and expressed a desire to go to Portland (though I'm not clear on the why of that). As we walked I gave her a little local history which I think bored her. She told me about how she likes to go up to KC and Columbia because of the better night life and expressed sadness that the local bars in her area (a little south of Jefferson City) are just places where people meet looking to take someone home with them.
After a while she pointed out she wasn't an outdoorsy type and this 5 block death march was kicking her ass. We got with in one block of the prison where she could see on the towers and then decided we should go back. So we walked back and she was surprised to see that she was back at the parking garage which she had parked as well. I walked her up to her car and told her I enjoyed meeting her. She said the the date was weird but cool and she had fun as well. After that she drove off and I made my way back to my car and drove home.
The whole thing took about 1 hour and 40 minutes. She had gotten there earlier but had gotten lost (and rained on somehow). I met her at about ten minutes before two (which she first thought I was late). Overall It did not go badly. I don't know if it went well but at least it wasn't a disaster. She's pretty (but I did keep staring at some kind of brown sore on her lower lip), and not noticeably stupid. Honestly we didn't have a great deal in common, but then who has a lot in common with me?
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Quote from: DGuller on September 15, 2009, 03:52:47 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 03:50:22 PM
Raz has gotten back. Remarkably it wasn't a disaster. I probably could have gone better but I didn't freak out or freak her out. Also she wasn't bad looking. I think it went well but I won't know until I hear back from her (if I hear back from her).
I will now write an AAR
That's pretty much what I expected.
Okay, Nostradamus what happens next? Really I don't know, I never got this far before.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:30:20 PM
Okay, Nostradamus what happens next? Really I don't know, I never got this far before.
Given additional information, likely nothing much at all. :( I don't get the vibe that the second date is forthcoming, but you never know.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Of course it's a good idea. ;)
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 04:37:09 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Of course it's a good idea. ;)
What's the worst that could happen?
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 04:37:09 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Of course it's a good idea. ;)
I sense a disturbance in the force. Don't do it.
Quote from: Savonarola on September 15, 2009, 04:39:55 PM
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 04:37:09 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Of course it's a good idea. ;)
What's the worst that could happen?
I have yet to gauge the possibilities completely.
Quote from: Savonarola on September 15, 2009, 04:39:55 PM
What's the worst that could happen?
Is that some sort of challenge? :D
Seriously though - whether this date works out or not isn't the most important thing: the most important thing is that you carried it out. Each one will now be easier.
Fact is, you won't "click" with everyone, and it sounds like you didn't click with this one - that's okay, plenty more where she came from, if it doesn't work out.
Wonderfull date Raz.
Next time, take more control. Girls needs direction, just ask Ed for more information.
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 04:51:28 PM
Seriously though - whether this date works out or not isn't the most important thing: the most important thing is that you carried it out. Each one will now be easier.
Fact is, you won't "click" with everyone, and it sounds like you didn't click with this one - that's okay, plenty more where she came from, if it doesn't work out.
Agreed. IMO, a bad date is when you do something stupid and freak out someone who's a good match for you. A date with someone that doesn't click is just par for the course, you won't click with most people.
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
Well, I have a friend like that ("M"). Admittedly, I have not abandoned plans of getting into his pants again. :P
And I'm friends with two more people where noone said that that but I used to fuck them but then both parties kinda lost interest.
One of them is not bad though, so we may end up having a friendly threesome with a mutual friend of ours. :P
I honestly don't know if we clicked or not. Truth be told I wasn't trying to sweep her off her feet. Just meet her the first time and panic. That was accomplished.
QuoteShe talked about how she liked to hang out in bars and I refrained from saying something stupid.
Outstanding. :lol:
You wore a hat?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
She talked about how she liked to hang out in bars and I refrained from saying something stupid.
If you have a second date, go with her to a bar.
Quote from: Cerr on September 15, 2009, 05:45:56 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
She talked about how she liked to hang out in bars and I refrained from saying something stupid.
If you have a second date, go with her to a bar.
I may just do that.
I should probally try and get one of these date things. I've never done that. Sounds amusing...in a horrible painful sort of way.
Why did you take her to a prison anyway? Thats not the usual is it?- was that the point?
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:51:40 PM
I should probally try and get one of these date things. I've never done that. Sounds amusing...in a horrible painful sort of way.
Yeah talking while killing time with a possible romantic interest...sounds like the worst!
Jos's theme song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tL9H3y1xfdM (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tL9H3y1xfdM)
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 05:55:20 PM
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:51:40 PM
I should probally try and get one of these date things. I've never done that. Sounds amusing...in a horrible painful sort of way.
Yeah talking while killing time with a possible romantic interest...sounds like the worst!
Yes.
Its pre-arranged and you're both just...judging each other.
I hate giving presentations- all that preperation comes down to 10 minutes...I always mess up. I can imagine dates being similar.
I've always just took things naturally but a date could be fun for a bit of self-destruction.
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 15, 2009, 05:58:42 PM
Jos's theme song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tL9H3y1xfdM (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tL9H3y1xfdM)
I think that used to be Grallon's song.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 05:24:47 PM
I honestly don't know if we clicked or not. Truth be told I wasn't trying to sweep her off her feet. Just meet her the first time and panic. That was accomplished.
You'd probably have a pretty good idea if you did.
Also, aren't you missing the "not" in front of "panic"?
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:59:20 PM
Yes.
Its pre-arranged and you're both just...judging each other.
Here's a secret, you're always being judged.
Besides, it generally its good to schedule to hangout with someone. That way, you'll know they are available at that time.
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 06:00:05 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 05:24:47 PM
I honestly don't know if we clicked or not. Truth be told I wasn't trying to sweep her off her feet. Just meet her the first time and panic. That was accomplished.
You'd probably have a pretty good idea if you did.
Also, aren't you missing the "not" in front of "panic"?
There is in fact a good chance I wouldn't! What if I don't click with her and she still wants to see me again.
Yeah probably. With my posts it's perfectly acceptable to add and subtract words you don't like.
If she wants to see you again, go for it. By the end of the second date the picture should be pretty clear.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 06:02:56 PM
Quote from: Malthus on September 15, 2009, 06:00:05 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 05:24:47 PM
I honestly don't know if we clicked or not. Truth be told I wasn't trying to sweep her off her feet. Just meet her the first time and panic. That was accomplished.
You'd probably have a pretty good idea if you did.
Also, aren't you missing the "not" in front of "panic"?
There is in fact a good chance I wouldn't! What if I don't click with her and she still wants to see me again.
Yeah probably. With my posts it's perfectly acceptable to add and subtract words you don't like.
Just because you don't click with someone right away doesn't mean that you won't eventually. Maybe there is enough interest on both sides to seek another date.
Put it this way - do *you* want to see *her* again?
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:59:20 PM
Yes.
Its pre-arranged and you're both just...judging each other.
I hate giving presentations- all that preperation comes down to 10 minutes...I always mess up. I can imagine dates being similar.
I've always just took things naturally but a date could be fun for a bit of self-destruction.
I have never gone on a date where the sole purpose was my preparing a powerpoint of my strong points so that I could wow someone. As Garbo said, we always are judging and being judged, but a date is also supposed to be at least somewhat fun. Like, going to a prison or something.
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:08:00 PM
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:59:20 PM
Yes.
Its pre-arranged and you're both just...judging each other.
I hate giving presentations- all that preperation comes down to 10 minutes...I always mess up. I can imagine dates being similar.
I've always just took things naturally but a date could be fun for a bit of self-destruction.
I have never gone on a date where the sole purpose was my preparing a powerpoint of my strong points so that I could wow someone. As Garbo said, we always are judging and being judged, but a date is also supposed to be at least somewhat fun. Like, going to a prison or something.
I brought slides with pie charts.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:08:49 PM
I brought slides with pie charts.
:Embarrass:
I last went on a date before powerpoint, to be honest.
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:08:00 PM
I have never gone on a date where the sole purpose was my preparing a powerpoint of my strong points so that I could wow someone.
:lol:
I have talked about PowerPoint while on a date though...
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
Since the sun was shining I suggested we take a walk and she concurred. She saw something about the prison tours and became excited and I told her the Walls were just a few blocks down. So we made out for the old penitentiary while I made up stories that tended to end in me saying "well that's not entirely true".
I see you went the inmate route then. :frog:
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:10:50 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:08:49 PM
I brought slides with pie charts.
:Embarrass:
I last went on a date before powerpoint, to be honest.
Remember, lots of sounds and flashy graphics.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:12:59 PM
Remember, lots of sounds and flashy graphics.
I will use this kickass picture of the Battle of Chaeronea I found!
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:15:39 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:12:59 PM
Remember, lots of sounds and flashy graphics.
I will use this kickass picture of the Battle of Chaeronea I found!
When you find a woman that thinks that's the coolest thing ever, hold on tight. She'll be a keeper!
Any date you do not end up in jail and no one died is a good date. ;) Well, you almost ended in jail, but good thing she is out of shape. :D
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:15:39 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:12:59 PM
Remember, lots of sounds and flashy graphics.
I will use this kickass picture of the Battle of Chaeronea I found!
Add more Spartans. Gerard Butler's screaming head = panties dropped.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:18:07 PM
Add more Spartans. Gerard Butler's screaming head = panties dropped.
He speaks truth, this one.
Quote from: merithyn on September 15, 2009, 06:19:38 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:18:07 PM
Add more Spartans. Gerard Butler's screaming head = panties dropped.
He speaks truth, this one.
I've got the kryptiea in my pants.
:lmfao:
Great thread. Glad to see everyone made it out alright.
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 06:11:12 PM
Quote from: PDH on September 15, 2009, 06:08:00 PM
I have never gone on a date where the sole purpose was my preparing a powerpoint of my strong points so that I could wow someone.
:lol:
I have talked about PowerPoint while on a date though...
Sorry, I was really excited about some of the new features. They really help illustrate the important actuarial concepts I mentioned earlier that evening.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 15, 2009, 06:08:49 PM
I brought slides with pie charts.
Your secret identity: REVEALED BY ME.
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.chron.com%2Fblogs%2Ftxpotomac%2Fross2.jpg&hash=00d388a19d99bdbcb14a800acafe08555217a4b6)
Only I doubt any such dates ended with a "giant sucking sound". :(
Quote from: DGuller on September 15, 2009, 07:00:35 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 06:11:12 PM
I have talked about PowerPoint while on a date though...
Sorry, I was really excited about some of the new features. They really help illustrate the important actuarial concepts I mentioned earlier that evening.
:D
Quote from: DGuller on September 15, 2009, 07:00:35 PM
Sorry, I was really excited about some of the new features. They really help illustrate the important actuarial concepts I mentioned earlier that evening.
There's one thing I've been wondering for a while, Kobe. Will you please inform me as to how my ass tastes?
Fun story Raz. I'm not sure that bar girl is your best match, but the prison was a great first date idea. :lol:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 04:28:27 PM
At about 20 after 1 I left the house, There didn't seem to be any large cats outside so I felt safe enough to make a dash for the car. I drove down to a local bank and took 50 bucks out of my account and then headed downtown. Parking is poor downtown so I opted for parking garage on Madison. Took an alley and made it strait to the Capital.
The full paths are below in another chart. Red is her, Blue is me and Purple is us together.
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EDIT: First image was to small.
I leaned up against an old statue of Thomas Jefferson and shot the breeze with Tom while I waited for her. Not long after I arrived I saw a shapely young lady walking toward the capital stopping every few minutes to type something into her cell phone. I watched her with an air of indifference as she made her irregular trek toward the capital steps. When she arrived she seemed some what confused and stood looking around before finally noticing me leaning against old Tom. (for the record Tom thought she was okay, but world have preferred some darker meat). She looked up and asked if I was Brad to which I did a dramatic bow and tip of the hat.
After introduction we walked together up the street to the coffee shop. I don't actually drink coffee so I got a Mr. Pibb and a bagel. She got a chocolate mocca or some damn pagan thing. We talked rather animatedly for a while as we both tried to gauge one another. She talked about how she liked to hang out in bars and I refrained from saying something stupid.
Since the sun was shining I suggested we take a walk and she concurred. She saw something about the prison tours and became excited and I told her the Walls were just a few blocks down. So we made out for the old penitentiary while I made up stories that tended to end in me saying "well that's not entirely true". She asked questions about things like how parking meters worked and expressed a desire to go to Portland (though I'm not clear on the why of that). As we walked I gave her a little local history which I think bored her. She told me about how she likes to go up to KC and Columbia because of the better night life and expressed sadness that the local bars in her area (a little south of Jefferson City) are just places where people meet looking to take someone home with them.
After a while she pointed out she wasn't an outdoorsy type and this 5 block death march was kicking her ass. We got with in one block of the prison where she could see on the towers and then decided we should go back. So we walked back and she was surprised to see that she was back at the parking garage which she had parked as well. I walked her up to her car and told her I enjoyed meeting her. She said the the date was weird but cool and she had fun as well. After that she drove off and I made my way back to my car and drove home.
The whole thing took about 1 hour and 40 minutes. She had gotten there earlier but had gotten lost (and rained on somehow). I met her at about ten minutes before two (which she first thought I was late). Overall It did not go badly. I don't know if it went well but at least it wasn't a disaster. She's pretty (but I did keep staring at some kind of brown sore on her lower lip), and not noticeably stupid. Honestly we didn't have a great deal in common, but then who has a lot in common with me?
I have a picture of her and I'm debating weather it's a good idea to post it. Truth be told the photo doesn't do her justice.
Don't.
Dating is overrated and a waste of time.
Well done Raz. Your AAR reads like a Nick Hornby book. Get a few more back to back and you have a bestseller on your hands! In fact, tell us about the church date one now...
Quote from: Syt on September 15, 2009, 11:01:51 PM
Dating is overrated and a waste of time.
Sour like a lemon. ^_^
Quote from: Valmy on September 15, 2009, 01:06:10 PM
Has anybody actually become friends with somebody they dated who said 'lets just be friends'?
Yup. In fact just last week I went for a drink with an ex-date friend and brought along another ex-date friend who I thought would have a lot in common with him. They got on like a house on fire and are now Facebook contacts. My current squeeze has met a couple too.
Proviso 1: Probably best not applied to ex spouses.
Proviso 2: For sanity's sake, it's best not to think, "Hey, I've slept with X people in this room..."
I think she wanted you to get her drunk
Quote from: Jaron on September 16, 2009, 04:20:41 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 15, 2009, 11:01:51 PM
Dating is overrated and a waste of time.
Sour like a lemon. ^_^
No. Rather I've found that my attempts at relationships/dating in recent years have led me to the conclusion that regular sex with a partner is not worth having to spend all the required extra time with them that I'd much rather have at my personal, indpendent disposal.
You really want to be CDM in 10 years?
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 04:33:41 AM
Quote from: Jaron on September 16, 2009, 04:20:41 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 15, 2009, 11:01:51 PM
Dating is overrated and a waste of time.
Sour like a lemon. ^_^
No. Rather I've found that my attempts at relationships/dating in recent years have led me to the conclusion that regular sex with a partner is not worth having to spend all the required extra time with them that I'd much rather have at my personal, indpendent disposal.
Ah, great, that really explains that you're not at all bitter :D
I would agree that "dating" in the American sense, new to Europe, sucks sweaty syphilitic donkey balls. But "going out with someone" works, and that implies having mutually favourable ammounts of time together and to do your own stuff.
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 16, 2009, 04:36:12 AM
You really want to be CDM in 10 years?
I don't like cats. But my writing efforts are certainly on par with his. :P
Quote from: Brazen on September 16, 2009, 04:39:23 AM
But "going out with someone" works, and that implies having mutually favourable ammounts of time together and to do your own stuff.
Well, I spent some time last year with an IT chick who was nice and caring, sex was great, we had a lot of common interests, but enough diversity to do stuff by ourselves, and generally agreed that we'd both need time for ourselves now and then. However, even under those rather ideal conditions I preferred to return to singlehood, because unlike her I had no trouble talking to her only via email for two weeks before seeing each other again.
Of course I should have picked up my DVDs from her place first, because as it happens she seems to have disappeared off the face of the earth.
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 05:25:53 AM
Quote from: Brazen on September 16, 2009, 04:39:23 AM
But "going out with someone" works, and that implies having mutually favourable ammounts of time together and to do your own stuff.
Well, I spent some time last year with an IT chick who was nice and caring, sex was great, we had a lot of common interests, but enough diversity to do stuff by ourselves, and generally agreed that we'd both need time for ourselves now and then. However, even under those rather ideal conditions I preferred to return to singlehood, because unlike her I had no trouble talking to her only via email for two weeks before seeing each other again.
Of course I should have picked up my DVDs from her place first, because as it happens she seems to have disappeared off the face of the earth.
You didn't eat her, did you.. ?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 15, 2009, 11:32:06 AM
Korea tends to coach me on things like this.
And you saw what kind of luck she has. :P
Quote from: garbon on September 15, 2009, 06:01:10 PM
Quote from: Tyr on September 15, 2009, 05:59:20 PM
Yes.
Its pre-arranged and you're both just...judging each other.
Here's a secret, you're always being judged.
Maybe.
But then I'd rather again it happen naturally and over a decent length of time so people can judge me 'right' rather than just going off a hour long meeting where I'm unusually talkative/quiet/drunk/whatever.
Quote from: Brazen on September 16, 2009, 04:39:23 AM
I would agree that "dating" in the American sense, new to Europe, sucks sweaty syphilitic donkey balls. But "going out with someone" works, and that implies having mutually favourable ammounts of time together and to do your own stuff.
:rolleyes: X 1000
The European method of sitting in my basement waiting for people to knock on the door asking to have sex with me just wasn't cutting it.
Quote from: Tyr on September 16, 2009, 06:23:14 AM
But then I'd rather again it happen naturally and over a decent length of time so people can judge me 'right' rather than just going off a hour long meeting where I'm unusually talkative/quiet/drunk/whatever.
...So um how is doing something with somebody and talking to them unnatural? Am I supposed to do it from a few villages over?
Seriously I just don't get it. I am glad I am not European it sounds like I would never get to meet people. It seems talking to people of the preferred sex and doing things with them is unnatural somehow.
Europeans have no concept of formality anymore. It's really quite sad :weep:
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 07:51:34 AM
Quote from: Brazen on September 16, 2009, 04:39:23 AM
I would agree that "dating" in the American sense, new to Europe, sucks sweaty syphilitic donkey balls. But "going out with someone" works, and that implies having mutually favourable ammounts of time together and to do your own stuff.
:rolleyes: X 1000
The European method of sitting in my basement waiting for people to knock on the door asking to have sex with me just wasn't cutting it.
Tell me about it.
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 07:51:34 AM
:rolleyes: X 1000
The European method of sitting in my basement waiting for people to knock on the door asking to have sex with me just wasn't cutting it.
I'm sorry, you seem to have overlooked the European method of stumbling drunk into somone in a pub and giving them a call if it still seems like a good idea the next day.
Quote from: Brazen on September 16, 2009, 07:56:57 AM
I'm sorry, you seem to have overlooked the European method of stumbling drunk into somone in a pub and giving them a call if it still seems like a good idea the next day.
....um right that is what "American" dating is all about. You meet somebody at a party or a bar or whatever and you call them and then you get together and do things. Now with the internet you can also get together with people you meet there and do things.
So what do you call them for in Europe if going out and doing things is sucking syphilitic donkey balls?
Quote from: Jaron on September 16, 2009, 05:27:55 AM
You didn't eat her, did you.. ?
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
Damn I thought I was provoking a trans-Atlantic flame war. I know Jaron, I have posted with Jaron but I am no Jaron :(
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
Yet you talk to us everyday. You: love us :hug:
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
I feel the same way, and it also frustrates people. The good news is that it makes certain lucrative jobs a perfect fit for guys like us, like being a contract killer.
"I know what I do isn't... moral, per se..."
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 09:08:34 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
Yet you talk to us everyday. You: love us :hug:
Love would be exaggerated. Easily available with little effort from my side when I feel like it is more like it.
Quote from: DGuller on September 16, 2009, 01:27:44 PM
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
I feel the same way, and it also frustrates people. The good news is that it makes certain lucrative jobs a perfect fit for guys like us, like being a contract killer.
:zipped:
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 08:00:11 AM
....um right that is what "American" dating is all about. You meet somebody at a party or a bar or whatever and you call them and then you get together and do things. Now with the internet you can also get together with people you meet there and do things.
Umm, in American dating, you are given a feedback form at the end of the date that tells you how well the date went. That's what the Sims taught me.
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
Quote from: garbon on September 16, 2009, 01:56:41 PM
Umm, in American dating, you are given a feedback form at the end of the date that tells you how well the date went. That's what the Sims taught me.
You can go on dates in The Sims? :blink:
Quote from: Caliga on September 16, 2009, 01:59:09 PM
You can go on dates in The Sims? :blink:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/index.html?curid=2120193
Made its debut as an expansion for Sims 1.
Quote from: DGuller on September 16, 2009, 01:27:44 PM
I feel the same way, and it also frustrates people. The good news is that it makes certain lucrative jobs a perfect fit for guys like us, like being a contract killer.
Or, less glamourously, an actuary. :D
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Quote from: Jaron on September 16, 2009, 05:27:55 AM
You didn't eat her, did you.. ?
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
A bit Schizoid, aren't we? :cool:
Quote from: Drakken on September 16, 2009, 02:48:49 PM
A bit Schizoid, aren't we? :cool:
Possibly. I'm too lazy/cheap to see a therapist.
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 02:51:46 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 16, 2009, 02:48:49 PM
A bit Schizoid, aren't we? :cool:
Possibly. I'm too lazy/cheap to see a therapist.
Well, it is a personality disorder only if these traits hamper your well-being or the well-being of others in a significant, uncontrollable way. If it doesn't and you are fine with having these traits, no need to go see one. ;)
Quote from: Drakken on September 16, 2009, 02:55:38 PM
Well, it is a personality disorder only if these traits hamper your well-being or the well-being of others in a significant, uncontrollable way. If it doesn't and you are fine with having these traits, no need to go see one. ;)
Of course, the individual with a disorder might not always have the best perspective.
Quote from: Drakken on September 16, 2009, 02:48:49 PM
Quote from: Syt on September 16, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
Quote from: Jaron on September 16, 2009, 05:27:55 AM
You didn't eat her, did you.. ?
Not in that way.
I think my exploits in the field generally also stem from an inherent inability to relate to other people or feel much towards them. I have friends that I like meeting, but if for whatever reasons we don't see each other for weeks or months I have not much of a problem with it. In fact that's something that frustrates my old friends in Germany, and my family ever since I moved to Austria. In fact, even when they call I often can't be bothered to talk to them because I find it extremely hard to care about them.
A bit Schizoid, aren't we? :cool:
:cool:
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 08:00:11 AM
....um right that is what "American" dating is all about. You meet somebody at a party or a bar or whatever and you call them and then you get together and do things. Now with the internet you can also get together with people you meet there and do things.
So what do you call them for in Europe if going out and doing things is sucking syphilitic donkey balls?
I'm interested in the answer to this question as well.
I think the problem is that Yuros think an "American style date" is like going to the senior prom.
American style dating starts with hoping you can read the last, smudged number in the phone number of that really hot chick you met last night (and whom you hope is still as hot now). At least that is the first step...
Well I did talk to her tonight. So I've gotten further with this internet dating then I have ever before.
I declare yesterday an unmitigated success. :D
Bravo! :cheers:
Now invite her to a bar. :beer: :contract:
Actually, find out what music she likes. If she likes Jazz at all, go to a jazz bar.
Also, don't take my suggestions too seriously. I'm not exactly the best person for dating advice. :lol:
Quote from: Admiral Yi on September 16, 2009, 04:38:25 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 08:00:11 AM
....um right that is what "American" dating is all about. You meet somebody at a party or a bar or whatever and you call them and then you get together and do things. Now with the internet you can also get together with people you meet there and do things.
So what do you call them for in Europe if going out and doing things is sucking syphilitic donkey balls?
I'm interested in the answer to this question as well.
I think the problem is that Yuros think an "American style date" is like going to the senior prom.
The impression I got was that in mating season, European women will go into heat and present themselves to nearby men. The European men then compete with each other to determine who will mount the female and pass on his genes.
At least according to that National Geographic special I saw.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 16, 2009, 08:00:15 PM
Well I did talk to her tonight. So I've gotten further with this internet dating then I have ever before.
You must not have been using craig's list
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
Quote from: HisMajestyBOB on September 16, 2009, 08:18:43 PM
Quote from: Admiral Yi on September 16, 2009, 04:38:25 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 08:00:11 AM
....um right that is what "American" dating is all about. You meet somebody at a party or a bar or whatever and you call them and then you get together and do things. Now with the internet you can also get together with people you meet there and do things.
So what do you call them for in Europe if going out and doing things is sucking syphilitic donkey balls?
I'm interested in the answer to this question as well.
I think the problem is that Yuros think an "American style date" is like going to the senior prom.
The impression I got was that in mating season, European women will go into heat and present themselves to nearby men. The European men then compete with each other to determine who will mount the female and pass on his genes.
At least according to that National Geographic special I saw.
Bollocks, competing is so... so... well, so
American!!! We yuros use class and style to determine those things.When two gentlemen aspire to the favors of the same lady all we need is to compare the cut of our jackets. Bespoke tailoring beats prêt-à-porter and Savile Row rules the waves, so to speak.
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Quote from: Valmy on September 16, 2009, 07:54:04 AM
...So um how is doing something with somebody and talking to them unnatural? Am I supposed to do it from a few villages over?
Relationships don't work that way.
You don't suddenly meet someone then decide "Alright then, I'll have feelings for you".
It builds over time.
Quote from: Tyr on September 17, 2009, 08:31:35 AM
Relationships don't work that way.
They don't work what way?
QuoteYou don't suddenly meet someone then decide "Alright then, I'll have feelings for you".
It builds over time.
True. But WTF does that have to do with anything?
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Judging by present evidence, merely by being in the same state. ;)
Quote from: Malthus on September 17, 2009, 08:34:55 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Judging by present evidence, merely by being in the same state. ;)
I'm going to be in South Carolina next month. :lol:
I wish I still had my copy of The Sims. I'd enjoy walling them up again.
Nicely done Raz.
Quote from: Berkut on September 17, 2009, 08:46:14 AM
Nicely done Raz.
Thank you Berkut. That means alot coming from you. :)
:huh: Raz, I don't think anyone here actually dislikes you, if that's what you were thinking. You sometimes say goofy shit, but so do most of the prolific posters here, including me. :cool:
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 17, 2009, 11:15:31 AM
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
Good. :machiavelli: :menace:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 17, 2009, 11:15:31 AM
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
Are you suspicious of Jaron?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 17, 2009, 11:15:31 AM
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
You would make a good accountant in our company.
Quote from: Valmy on September 17, 2009, 11:40:37 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 17, 2009, 11:15:31 AM
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
Are you suspicious of Jaron?
Jaron is hard to gauge. Dude can change attitude towards you mid sentence.
He does it all the time in WoW.
I love Raz and I love Jaron.
Yeah, nice work Raz - both going on the date and having it go well and writing up the AAR :cheers:
and for having planned an escape route.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Our child(ren) would never get into private school. :weep:
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:35:52 AM
Quote from: Malthus on September 17, 2009, 08:34:55 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Judging by present evidence, merely by being in the same state. ;)
I'm going to be in South Carolina next month. :lol:
:lol:
Oh god.
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:34:16 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Our child(ren) would never get into private school. :weep:
I'd make sure they did. At least Catholic school.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:35:20 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:34:16 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Our child(ren) would never get into private school. :weep:
I'd make sure they did. At least Catholic school.
Ew. No way. I hate Catholics.
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:37:11 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:35:20 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:34:16 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Our child(ren) would never get into private school. :weep:
I'd make sure they did. At least Catholic school.
Ew. No way. I hate Catholics.
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:35:10 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:35:52 AM
Quote from: Malthus on September 17, 2009, 08:34:55 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Judging by present evidence, merely by being in the same state. ;)
I'm going to be in South Carolina next month. :lol:
:lol:
Oh god.
I'll give you a heads up so you can wear foil in your panties that week.
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 17, 2009, 11:53:55 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 17, 2009, 11:40:37 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 17, 2009, 11:15:31 AM
I am suspicious of everyone. :shifty:
Are you suspicious of Jaron?
Jaron is hard to gauge. Dude can change attitude towards you mid sentence.
He does it all the time in WoW.
He stabbed me in the back in the Crypts of Battledale. He'll never be trustworthy.
He DID get banned there, indeed.
Monster!
I didn't stab Wags in the back and I was ** NOT ** banned on Battledale.
All I did to Wags, if memory serves, is locked him in the crypts. However, as he had numerous zombies chasing him, it was necessary to protect Pilgrim's Rest from being overrun.
Quote from: Jaron on September 17, 2009, 03:46:01 PM
I didn't stab Wags in the back and I was ** NOT ** banned on Battledale.
All I did to Wags, if memory serves, is locked him in the crypts. However, as he had numerous zombies chasing him, it was necessary to protect Pilgrim's Rest from being overrun.
HAH! You attacked me. Went batshit crazy and starated firing off magic missiles and ice storms all over the place.
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 17, 2009, 03:46:46 PM
Quote from: DGuller on September 17, 2009, 03:33:55 PM
They have "Catholics" in Spain.
Yep.
Most definitely yep (better don´t get me started on those Totally Tridentine Talibans and their shenanigans)
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:38:52 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:35:10 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:35:52 AM
Quote from: Malthus on September 17, 2009, 08:34:55 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 08:25:22 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 01:01:32 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 16, 2009, 01:57:37 PM
The Sims taught me to trap people in hedge mazes.
'
The Sims taught be I'd be an unfit mother. :(
I'd knock you up.
Judging by present evidence, merely by being in the same state. ;)
I'm going to be in South Carolina next month. :lol:
:lol:
Oh god.
I'll give you a heads up so you can wear foil in your panties that week.
:lol:
Quote from: Alatriste on September 17, 2009, 03:29:30 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 02:37:11 PM
Ew. No way. I hate Catholics.
:Embarrass:
Just kidding. I went to a Catholic mass when I was a kid and thought the singing was really pretty. :)
Quote from: Darth Wagtaros on September 17, 2009, 03:51:09 PM
Quote from: Jaron on September 17, 2009, 03:46:01 PM
I didn't stab Wags in the back and I was ** NOT ** banned on Battledale.
All I did to Wags, if memory serves, is locked him in the crypts. However, as he had numerous zombies chasing him, it was necessary to protect Pilgrim's Rest from being overrun.
HAH! You attacked me. Went batshit crazy and starated firing off magic missiles and ice storms all over the place.
My lawyer has told me I should inform you I have no recollection of the incident you mention.
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 04:06:05 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
My brother-in-law is stationed at NWS Charleston and I'm taking my wife to see her brother.
And I want the coconut cake from the Peninsula Grill.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 04:41:41 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 04:06:05 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
My brother-in-law is stationed at NWS Charleston and I'm taking my wife to see her brother.
And I want the coconut cake from the Peninsula Grill.
Have you ever been to Charleston before? Ide's sis lives there. I will: stalk you now. :shifty:
Quote from: Korea on September 18, 2009, 12:34:22 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 04:41:41 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 04:06:05 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
My brother-in-law is stationed at NWS Charleston and I'm taking my wife to see her brother.
And I want the coconut cake from the Peninsula Grill.
Have you ever been to Charleston before? Ide's sis lives there. I will: stalk you now. :shifty:
Bunny boiler. :shifty:
Quote from: Korea on September 18, 2009, 12:34:22 AM
Ide's sis lives there.
Wouldn't it be funny if she was married to MB's brother in law?
Quote from: Korea on September 18, 2009, 12:34:22 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 04:41:41 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 04:06:05 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
My brother-in-law is stationed at NWS Charleston and I'm taking my wife to see her brother.
And I want the coconut cake from the Peninsula Grill.
Have you ever been to Charleston before? Ide's sis lives there. I will: stalk you now. :shifty:
Yes, I love the city.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 04:41:41 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 17, 2009, 04:06:05 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 17, 2009, 02:37:59 PM
I don't think you are suited to mother my bastard children.
Neither does the Sims. :weep:
On a serious note: What are you doing in the South?!
My brother-in-law is stationed at NWS Charleston and I'm taking my wife to see her brother.
And I want the coconut cake from the Peninsula Grill.
Other places that are winners: 82nd queen, hymans (never been there but highly recommended, everytime I've tried to go needed reservation or ridiculous wait), tristan (for lunch only). A great city to eat.
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
Think you can manage to keep from saying anything stupid again?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
Don't rush the sex question. The flower will open when it is ready.
Quote from: Jaron on September 17, 2009, 04:09:44 PM
Quote from: Darth Wagtaros on September 17, 2009, 03:51:09 PM
Quote from: Jaron on September 17, 2009, 03:46:01 PM
I didn't stab Wags in the back and I was ** NOT ** banned on Battledale.
All I did to Wags, if memory serves, is locked him in the crypts. However, as he had numerous zombies chasing him, it was necessary to protect Pilgrim's Rest from being overrun.
HAH! You attacked me. Went batshit crazy and starated firing off magic missiles and ice storms all over the place.
My lawyer has told me I should inform you I have no recollection of the incident you mention.
You've been talking to a lawyer other than me? :cry:
That's not the advice I'd give you... :(
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
:thumbsup:
Do you want to see her again?
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
Hooray!
:hug:
Remember, she is at a troubled age, the mid-20s, where the blush of maidenhood has worn off, but the clock of the biological is not yet ticking so loud she would sleep with any man in the world (well, not Tim).
Your best bet is to treat her right, do what she likes, put her on a pedestal...at least high enough to look up her dress.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
It's the hat. ;)
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Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
That's not weird. You're a great guy.
Be nice and play it cool. You'll be fine. :)
Nice job Raz! :frog:
Quote from: merithyn on September 18, 2009, 10:10:38 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
That's not weird. You're a great guy.
Be nice and play it cool. You'll be fine. :)
Am I a great guy..
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 18, 2009, 06:48:32 PM
Think you can manage to keep from saying anything stupid again?
That's pretty tough.
She's been kinda busy lately with finishing a paper for school and her finials so I'm waiting a bit till she has some free time.
Quote from: Barrister on September 18, 2009, 06:52:43 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
:thumbsup:
Do you want to see her again?
Yes, I believe I do. I did enjoy our last outing. I didn't even feel to awkward around her.
Hope she doesn't end up stuffed behind a wall after you eventually snap. :(
Quote from: citizen k on September 19, 2009, 01:05:29 AM
Hope she doesn't end up stuffed behind a wall after you eventually snap. :(
Dude, I snapped a long time ago.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 19, 2009, 12:14:47 AM
Quote from: Barrister on September 18, 2009, 06:52:43 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
:thumbsup:
Do you want to see her again?
Yes, I believe I do. I did enjoy our last outing. I didn't even feel to awkward around her.
Well then the path forward is clear. :cool:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 19, 2009, 01:10:38 AM
Quote from: citizen k on September 19, 2009, 01:05:29 AM
Hope she doesn't end up stuffed behind a wall after you eventually snap. :(
Dude, I snapped a long time ago.
When is the socially acceptable time to tell your partner about your problems, generally?
Maybe she got a chance to read the med bracelet already? Chicks dig dangerous dudes.
Tell her you like to give chicks facials. It worked for me!
The more I learn about Korea the more I like her. :)
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
There goes my prediction record. :(
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 11:58:38 PM
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 18, 2009, 06:48:32 PM
Think you can manage to keep from saying anything stupid again?
That's pretty tough.
She's been kinda busy lately with finishing a paper for school and her finials so I'm waiting a bit till she has some free time.
Big mistake. Don't wait on her like a puppy to give her attention to you. Plan ahead for her and make her fetch your attention.
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Otherwise, either she is not that attracted or she might also be shit-testing you to see what you will do. Excuses like these are a marked sign that her interest level might be somewhere between low and medium, so she might be hesitating, testing, or holding you away hoping you "get the message".
In all figures, you must see for yourself where she is at. Arrange another date with a time and place that you decide and invite her in affirmative, certain terms. (No question, no asking if she would be available. Just say "hey, let's go bowling this friday evening after the week is gone, that would put your hard week behind". Then, listen to her response. If she replies that she can't but is vague and evasive, either next her or tell her, "Allright, I'll go see Melissa (or any sexy-sounding name you can find) and play some pool with her. No biggie.". Of course, it is perfectly false, but you say that to evoke that you can see other girls than her, which might elicit her to change her mind and agree to the date. If she still unresponsive, you can pass up to the next without hesitation and move on.
If she offers an alternative date and place, then you can safely negociate with her with the feeling that she still wants to see you. It's a second date. :cool:
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
:lol: Is it just me, or is he way overcompensating with the way he refers to women all the time?
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
Hey, just offering my point of view. Like I said, I don't know she put it exactly, and she might be as interested as he is.
I just don't agree that waiting for her to decide would score points. In fact, it could weight and sink down his chances.
Quote from: DGuller on September 21, 2009, 12:15:35 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
:lol: Is it just me, or is he way overcompensating with the way he refers to women all the time?
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Bitches leave. :lol:
In case you wonder, I kid. ;)
Quote from: DGuller on September 21, 2009, 08:44:05 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
There goes my prediction record. :(
It's okay, she'll wise up and be disgusted with me eventually.
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:16:21 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
Hey, just offering my point of view. Like I said, I don't know she put it exactly, and she might be as interested as he is.
I just don't agree that waiting for her to decide would score points. In fact, it could weight and sink down his chances.
Actually I concluded she was busy. She mentioned finials so I decided to hold back a bit.
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:06:46 PM
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Btw, I do actually use this rule. If I or he consistently can't make time when busy, one of us isn't interested.
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 01:40:01 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:06:46 PM
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Btw, I do actually use this rule. If I or he consistently can't make time when busy, one of us isn't interested.
I'll remember that if I ever go fishing for dudes.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 21, 2009, 02:20:53 PM
I'll remember that if I ever go fishing for dudes.
:thumbsup:
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
If he brings up the 'seduction community', I'm going to punch him in the nuts.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 21, 2009, 03:53:32 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
If he brings up the 'seduction community', I'm going to punch him in the nuts.
He already did, reading that advice is like reading 'the game'
Good luck Raz! Lurking intensively :blush:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 21, 2009, 02:20:53 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 01:40:01 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:06:46 PM
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Btw, I do actually use this rule. If I or he consistently can't make time when busy, one of us isn't interested.
I'll remember that if I ever go fishing for dudes.
:lmfao:
Quote from: Seen on September 21, 2009, 05:19:02 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 21, 2009, 03:53:32 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
If he brings up the 'seduction community', I'm going to punch him in the nuts.
He already did, reading that advice is like reading 'the game'
Crap. I owe Drak a punch to the nuts.
That requires meeting him in person. :contract:
Stalkers are good at hide & seek...
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 01:40:01 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:06:46 PM
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Btw, I do actually use this rule. If I or he consistently can't make time when busy, one of us isn't interested.
:yes:
Quote from: Syt on September 18, 2009, 02:42:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 18, 2009, 12:34:22 AM
Ide's sis lives there.
Wouldn't it be funny if she was married to MB's brother in law?
:D Especially considering she's a lesbian.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 18, 2009, 11:30:36 AM
Yes, I love the city.
I've never been there before but I'd like to go. I like the Charleston accent. :blush:
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 06:46:29 PM
It's the weirdest thing. The chick actually wants to see me again.
:w00t:
Quote from: Ideologue on September 19, 2009, 12:20:51 PM
Tell her you like to give chicks facials. It worked for me!
I was young and inexperienced. I thought I was going to get a spa treatment. :weep:
Quote from: Caliga on September 19, 2009, 12:44:40 PM
The more I learn about Korea the more I like her. :)
:thumbsup:
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:55:32 AM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 19, 2009, 12:20:51 PM
Tell her you like to give chicks facials. It worked for me!
I was young and inexperienced. I thought I was going to get a spa treatment. :weep:
Well, at certain
specialized spas ... ;)
Quote from: Drakken on September 21, 2009, 12:06:46 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 18, 2009, 11:58:38 PM
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 18, 2009, 06:48:32 PM
Think you can manage to keep from saying anything stupid again?
That's pretty tough.
She's been kinda busy lately with finishing a paper for school and her finials so I'm waiting a bit till she has some free time.
Big mistake. Don't wait on her like a puppy to give her attention to you. Plan ahead for her and make her fetch your attention.
When a chick wants to be with someone, she will find some time for him in her schedule, even if she is very busy. I don't know how she has formulated it since I wasn't there, but did she offer any alternate time of availability or activity (like 'I am busy this week, but this weekend we can get together)?
Otherwise, either she is not that attracted or she might also be shit-testing you to see what you will do. Excuses like these are a marked sign that her interest level might be somewhere between low and medium, so she might be hesitating, testing, or holding you away hoping you "get the message".
In all figures, you must see for yourself where she is at. Arrange another date with a time and place that you decide and invite her in affirmative, certain terms. (No question, no asking if she would be available. Just say "hey, let's go bowling this friday evening after the week is gone, that would put your hard week behind". Then, listen to her response. If she replies that she can't but is vague and evasive, either next her or tell her, "Allright, I'll go see Melissa (or any sexy-sounding name you can find) and play some pool with her. No biggie.". Of course, it is perfectly false, but you say that to evoke that you can see other girls than her, which might elicit her to change her mind and agree to the date. If she still unresponsive, you can pass up to the next without hesitation and move on.
If she offers an alternative date and place, then you can safely negociate with her with the feeling that she still wants to see you. It's a second date. :cool:
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 21, 2009, 03:53:32 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
If he brings up the 'seduction community', I'm going to punch him in the nuts.
:blink: That's real?
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Nah it is really quite simple. Or at least it would be if it didn't bring up all those damn emotions and shit.
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 11:01:19 AM
:blink: That's real?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Heh, when I was actually going out, I never thought of any of that stuff. :D
Quote from: Malthus on September 22, 2009, 11:17:01 AM
Heh, when I was actually going out, I never thought of any of that stuff. :D
That is because you were successful. As a miserable failure for years I had to adjust things all the time. Eventually I basically changed dramatically how I interacted with people...I think it was largely for the better. I did it mostly myself though trial and error.
I think the main trick is simply to do it alot and not be so emotionally attached to the outcome if you are struggling. For those of you who do it well naturally well you suck.
I only date every 20 years or so...oh wait! Look at the year!
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:22:57 AM
Quote from: Malthus on September 22, 2009, 11:17:01 AM
Heh, when I was actually going out, I never thought of any of that stuff. :D
That is because you were successful. As a miserable failure for years I had to adjust things all the time. Eventually I basically changed dramatically how I interacted with people...I think it was largely for the better. I did it mostly myself though trial and error.
I think the main trick is simply to do it alot and not be so emotionally attached to the outcome if you are struggling. For those of you who do it well naturally well you suck.
I wasn't particularly successful quantity-wise, just lucky quality-wise.
Anyway, I take no credit for it, my wife asked me out - I was clueless. ;)
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Why, because women don't put manipulative mind fucks when they date? :lol:
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 21, 2009, 05:44:24 PM
Quote from: Seen on September 21, 2009, 05:19:02 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 21, 2009, 03:53:32 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 21, 2009, 12:13:02 PM
Taking dating advice from Drakken. This will end well.
If he brings up the 'seduction community', I'm going to punch him in the nuts.
He already did, reading that advice is like reading 'the game'
Crap. I owe Drak a punch to the nuts.
"Catch me when you can, Mishter Lusk!" :P
If we ever meet, I'll bring in a bag of nuts and an album of "The Nutcracker". :perv:
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:03:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 11:01:19 AM
:blink: That's real?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
Have fun having a read, Korea. :lol:
http://www.fastseduction.com/
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:36:59 AM
Why, because women don't put manipulative mind fucks when they date? :lol:
I can honestly say I never felt that manipulated while dating, actually in relationships is another matter. Mostly the fucked up parts happened because the ladies are generally terrible at saying things directly and I am horrible at taking subtle hints.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:48:41 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:36:59 AM
Why, because women don't put manipulative mind fucks when they date? :lol:
I can honestly say I never felt that manipulated while dating, actually in relationships is another matter. Mostly the fucked up parts happened because the ladies are generally terrible at saying things directly and I am horrible at taking subtle hints.
Absolutely that dating involves manipulation. EVERY social interaction involves some level of manipulation and deceit. Everyone lies (mostly small innocent lies), everyone taints the truth for their benefit (mostly just little tweaks), and everyone attempts to boost themselves as having higher value.
Ever got to a party with the best clothes you had, teeth brushed, and combed because you expected girls to be there? That's manipulation, man. Went to a job interview in a suit and tie you wear only this one time, and tweaked the content of your resume to convince your future boss you had a higher level of ability and competence than the competition? Manipulation. It's part of the social world. And it's allright that way.
The difference lies in intent and the means used to do it. There is a huge difference between using one's leverage to seek to attract someone and make him or her do things he or she would consent to do in the right setting or mood, and which involves no harm (like, say, seducing a woman with some legit tricks to highten her mood and have consensual sex with you) and forcing someone to do something against his or her will or cross his or her heart (like getting her drunk and passed out, or threaten to fire her if she doesn't give you extra).
I think quite a few people confuse manipulation with coercion, which involve forcing someone to do things by violence, threats, trickery, and mind control. Well, as far as I know, no woman I have ever picked up, even when using what some people here consider as deceitful and base strategies, has denounced me as having forced them to be picked up and have intercourse, even when things got awry in the relationship later on for various reasons. I approached them, did my things, they got attracted, and we hooked up freely as consenting adults. Isn't it what seduction is all about?
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:02:42 PM
Ever got to a party with the best clothes you had, teeth brushed, and combed because you expected girls to be there? That's manipulation, man. Went to a job interview in a suit and tie you wear only this one time, and tweaked the content of your resume to convince your future boss you had a higher level of ability and competence? Manipulation. It's part of the social world. And it's allright that way.
Yeah but that sort of manipulation is normal and expected and in fact I would be upset if I was NOT manipulated that way. Heck half the fun of dating is seeing the women dressed up all nice for you. No matter how much they love you later on they will probably never again work so hard just to look nice with just you around. Likewise so are little white lies to avoid confrontation and trying to put your best foot forward and so forth. That is just being manipulated to look better than you actually are but everybody expects and demands you manipulate them in this way.
Things that are not expected, like you making up a woman to get your date's competitive juices up, are a bit different since they generally require a plan and are designed to steer the interaction a certain way using tactics that are outside the general social pattern. If a woman used tactics like these I would be annoyed and feel a bit like tool since I would not normally expect to be manipulated in that sort of fashion.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:43:36 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:03:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 11:01:19 AM
:blink: That's real?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
Have fun having a read, Korea. :lol:
http://www.fastseduction.com/
I'm actually in a game of
Here I Stand with Nick Savoy at the moment.
Don't be seduced plz. :Embarrass:
I will try to avoid his wily charms.
Besides, I've met him in person. His wife is hott. Caliga-approved, too.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:02:42 PM
Absolutely that dating involves manipulation. EVERY social interaction involves some level of manipulation and deceit. Everyone lies (mostly small innocent lies), everyone taints the truth for their benefit (mostly just little tweaks), and everyone attempts to boost themselves as having higher value.
What a depressing way to look at the world.
I'm glad I don't see the world, or social interaction, that way. :)
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 12:29:03 PM
Things that are not expected, like you making up a woman to get your date's competitive juices up, are a bit different since they generally require a plan and are designed to steer the interaction a certain way using tactics that are outside the general social pattern. If a woman used tactics like these I would be annoyed and feel a bit like tool since I would not normally expect to be manipulated in that sort of fashion.
First, only a fool would admit to a date that she made a woman up to get her. I'd just say that I stopped seeing her.
Second, girls use tactics, and plentiful of them, to weed out the guys that are not that interesting or have undesirable traits. These are called tests.
Third, a woman who is not interested would not take the bait, she'd say something neutral and impersonal like "okey, have fun!". If she changes her gears it was because she can be nexted and lose a potential mate, which happens all the time due to indecision and bad communication. She already had interest anyway, just that she was pushed to a decision, so it is fair game. Just like salespeople who argue they have a customer ready to buy it, that he comes back in an hour, so you need to take the decision now.
Quote from: Barrister on September 22, 2009, 12:52:40 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:02:42 PM
Absolutely that dating involves manipulation. EVERY social interaction involves some level of manipulation and deceit. Everyone lies (mostly small innocent lies), everyone taints the truth for their benefit (mostly just little tweaks), and everyone attempts to boost themselves as having higher value.
What a depressing way to look at the world.
I'm glad I don't see the world, or social interaction, that way. :)
It is not depressing to see the world as it is, and refuse to sugarcoat it with illusions of candeur or carebear-land just to hide what our cognitive dissonance refuses to accept.
As lawyer and prosecutor, you should know how easy and tempting it is to use deceit (and I use this word in its larger sense) to simplify interactions or gain an advantage. Even a law-abiding witness can be tempted to use it to save the butt of someone he or she cares about, even if it means only to twist facts a little bit or give them another spin without going all the way to perjury.
Convincing juries is rarely based on facts alone, except when a smoking gun is presented or an ironclad witness is present, but on how both counsels spin this circumstancial information and present their synthesis of what has happened (or could have happened) as a workable, probable scenario.
It doesn't mean it is always done with bad or illicit intentions. In fact, most of the time it is done with good, innocent, or noble ones, justly because it is an intricate part of interaction between people.
Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 12:32:15 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:43:36 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:03:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 11:01:19 AM
:blink: That's real?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
Have fun having a read, Korea. :lol:
http://www.fastseduction.com/
I'm actually in a game of Here I Stand with Nick Savoy at the moment.
Punch.Him.In.The.Nuts.
Oh Drakkan, you're buying into that whole "the seduction community" crap with all its techniques and bullshit pseudo philosophy? I guess it's an amusing way to play around for a few years, but if you take it seriously and try to defend it as a legitimate world view you're getting on deep water.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 22, 2009, 01:06:59 PM
Punch.Him.In.The.Nuts.
He's a pretty nice guy, actually--funny, too. Curiously, I think his techniques must actually work. He has the worst geek-loser voice in the world.
Quote from: Jacob on September 22, 2009, 01:07:41 PM
Oh Drakkan, you're buying into that whole "the seduction community" crap with all its techniques and bullshit pseudo philosophy? I guess it's an amusing way to play around for a few years, but if you take it seriously and try to defend it as a legitimate world view you're getting on deep water.
Whatever rocks your boat, and what rocks mine. Free will, remember? Each our own paths.
Like I need to justify myself, anyway. I don't have to justify anything. I find things there interesting and worth my interest to play around and explore, as you say, and make judgements on my own. And what I have read until now and experimented does work from my poor, anodectical and unscientific experiences. If things don't work, I don't use them.
However, I don't buy in NLP or these kinds of woo-woo mind control bullshit. ;)
And you know I have a materialistic, realistic worldview, and that I abhor idealistic crock values that make people bellyfeel better about themselves than they really are. Might be depressing, but surprisingly I am very comfortable with this idea.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:54:37 PM
First, only a fool would admit to a date that she made a woman up to get her. I'd just say that I stopped seeing her.
Naturally.
QuoteSecond, girls use tactics, and plentiful of them, to weed out the guys that are not that interesting or have undesirable traits. These are called tests.
They probably do but the difference is they do them intuitively. There is no test community out there to train girls how to properly test their mates. But considering the sorts of men alot of women end up with maybe there should be :P
QuoteThird, a woman who is not interested would not take the bait, she'd say something neutral and impersonal like "okey, have fun!". If she changes her gears it was because she can be nexted and lose a potential mate, which happens all the time due to indecision and bad communication. She already had interest anyway, just that she was pushed to a decision, so it is fair game. Just like salespeople who argue they have a customer ready to buy it, that he comes back in an hour, so you need to take the decision now.
I am not disagreed with the fundamental gamesmanship here. I am simply saying it is taking manipulation to a whole new level, one that is not generally expected in this sort of scenario. There is nothing inherently wrong with this so long as, you know, you don't get caught.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:24:50 PMThere is no test community out there to train girls how to properly test their mates.
It's called the magazine rack at the grocery store checkout aisle.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:24:50 PM
They probably do but the difference is they do them intuitively. There is no test community out there to train girls how to properly test their mates. But considering the sorts of men alot of women end up with maybe there should be :P
Some women do start to lighten-up to pick up on these tactics, and there are workshops by women to learn how to spot and fend off tactics used by PUAs. But surprisingly, a few women do strive to become female pick-upers as well. :o
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:22:01 PM
And you know I have a materialistic, realistic worldview, and that I abhor idealistic crock values that make people bellyfeel better about themselves than they really are.
I don't know I usually have values because they are things I actually see value in.
QuoteMight be depressing, but surprisingly I am very comfortable with this idea.
There is nothing depressing about it. Life is inherently meaningless IMO and it is up to individual to find his or her own meaning. If this is the one you like then go for it. But it no more or less bullshit than anybody else's.
Quote from: DisturbedPervert on September 22, 2009, 01:26:56 PM
It's called the magazine rack at the grocery store checkout aisle.
Yeah I am sure those 'how to blow his mind' articles are really practically useful :P
The seduction community stuff probably does work though, if for no other reason it gets you out there taking actions and thinking about what you do and say. There is simply no substitute for putting in the effort and the time.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:27:40 PM
Some women do start to lighten-up to pick up on these tactics, and there are workshops by women to learn how to spot and fend off tactics used by PUAs. But surprisingly, a few women do strive to become female pick-upers as well. :o
What does that have to do with learning how to run tests?
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:28:21 PM
I don't know I usually have values because they are things I actually see value in.
So do I, but these are values we choose personally, not values imposed by hysterical moralists and bleeding hearts around us.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:28:21 PM
There is nothing depressing about it. Life is inherently meaningless IMO and it is up to individual to find his or her own meaning. If this is the one you like then go for it. But it no more or less bullshit than anybody else's.
Totally agree with ya on that, pal. Good or bad, we all end up in the dump. :hug:
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:29:53 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:27:40 PM
Some women do start to lighten-up to pick up on these tactics, and there are workshops by women to learn how to spot and fend off tactics used by PUAs. But surprisingly, a few women do strive to become female pick-upers as well. :o
What does that have to do with learning how to run tests?
As they are the ones who end up choosing and validating their mate, they don't have to learn it, they just dos it to see if the potential mate corresponds to their ideals and values.
Instincts. :P
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:31:22 PM
As they are the ones who end up choosing and validating their mate, they don't have to learn it, they just dos it to see if the potential mate corresponds to their ideals and values.
Instincts. :P
Is it not therefore logical than in the situations where it is we who are choosing and validating that we do something similar without conciously realizing it? You know to make sure she is not psycho and so forth.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:56:03 PM
As lawyer and prosecutor, you should know how easy and tempting it is to use deceit (and I use this word in its larger sense) to simplify interactions or gain an advantage. Even a law-abiding witness can be tempted to use it to save the butt of someone he or she cares about, even if it means only to twist facts a little bit or give them another spin without going all the way to perjury.
Convincing juries is rarely based on facts alone, except when a smoking gun is presented or an ironclad witness is present, but on how both counsels spin this circumstancial information and present their synthesis of what has happened (or could have happened) as a workable, probable scenario.
You don't have a lot of experience in dealing with juries, do you.
The first and last thing I stress with my witnesses is to "tell the truth". If a jury gets a hint that you are trying to be evasive, or stretch the truth even slightly, that witness's credibility is over. The best witness is the one that is open and honest about their shortcomings.
A person can pull a fast one in court. It's happened to me. But it generally only happens once. Once I know you to be a liar I treat you accordingly in future. There's even defence lawyers where if one lawyer says "I need an adjournment - my client's grandma is sick" I'll say "no problem", whereas others I'll say "I'm going to need a hospital note".
I'm sure little BS mind tricks can work initially, but it's no way to build a long-lasting relationship. And it's a hell of a depressing way to look at the world.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:33:41 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:31:22 PM
As they are the ones who end up choosing and validating their mate, they don't have to learn it, they just dos it to see if the potential mate corresponds to their ideals and values.
Instincts. :P
Is it not therefore logical than in the situations where it is we who are choosing and validating that we do something similar without conciously realizing it? You know to make sure she is not psycho and so forth.
I think that males do test instintively as well their potential mates. We just judge women on different qualities as a whole because our criterias of attraction are different.
However, it is undeniable that it has become harder for guys to play the game nowadays, even to actually approach women, for various reasons irrelevant to the present questions. Thus the need to develop strategies by trial and error, to strive to make it an easier and more fulfilling experience for males to fulfill their natural needs.
I look at the seduction community crap as nothing more than advanced game playing strategies, and the realization that you are in fact playing a game, therefore you should go about it in as straighforward manner as possible - within the bounds of the game.
BB, call me crazy, but I am guessing you didn't spend a lot of time trying to pick up women in bars anyway, right?
Not that I did either - but I think the seduction community stuff is pretty fascinating anyway. I've never tried it, and am old enough that I don't think I would want to pick up the kind of women it would work on anyway, but it is still pretty interesting from a strictly competitive standpoint,.
Quote from: Barrister on September 22, 2009, 01:36:37 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:56:03 PM
As lawyer and prosecutor, you should know how easy and tempting it is to use deceit (and I use this word in its larger sense) to simplify interactions or gain an advantage. Even a law-abiding witness can be tempted to use it to save the butt of someone he or she cares about, even if it means only to twist facts a little bit or give them another spin without going all the way to perjury.
Convincing juries is rarely based on facts alone, except when a smoking gun is presented or an ironclad witness is present, but on how both counsels spin this circumstancial information and present their synthesis of what has happened (or could have happened) as a workable, probable scenario.
You don't have a lot of experience in dealing with juries, do you.
The first and last thing I stress with my witnesses is to "tell the truth". If a jury gets a hint that you are trying to be evasive, or stretch the truth even slightly, that witness's credibility is over. The best witness is the one that is open and honest about their shortcomings.
A person can pull a fast one in court. It's happened to me. But it generally only happens once. Once I know you to be a liar I treat you accordingly in future. There's even defence lawyers where if one lawyer says "I need an adjournment - my client's grandma is sick" I'll say "no problem", whereas others I'll say "I'm going to need a hospital note".
I'm sure little BS mind tricks can work initially, but it's no way to build a long-lasting relationship. And it's a hell of a depressing way to look at the world.
I'm still waiting for my first jury duty call-up. :weep:
As for my experience, well I often regret not joining law school when I entered university, instead of going to a dead-end formation in Pol. Sci. I wanted to become a prosecutor. <_<
As for witnesses, I am not the one that will teach you that "truth" is a relative word in a world with imperfect information, and thus depends on its spin and the interpretation given to facts. Which is why defence lawyers often use different, even highly improbable spins in an attempt to create reasonable doubt with the same facts and information you have as prosecutor.
Never got a surprise spin or information emerge from counter-interrogatories from the defence, in which the "truth" was not as clear-cut as you thought even when you thought the witness had the best intentions?
One thought I just had about the "tests". If they are supposed to test for certain kinds of guys wouldn't it actually be more worth my time to be rejected by these tests so as to more quickly find a woman who is actually interested in a guy like me? I mean getting through the defense system everytime might mean the relationship would be doomed from the start as she would think I am a different sort of guy than I actually am. I might be counterproductive.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:55:18 PM
One thought I just had about the "tests". If they are supposed to test for certain kinds of guys wouldn't it actually be more worth my time to be rejected by these tests so as to more quickly find a woman who is actually interested in a guy like me? I mean getting through the defense system everytime might mean the relationship would be doomed from the start as she would think I am a different sort of guy than I actually am. I might be counterproductive.
Why would you attempt to be deliberately weeded out? If you approach a girl it is because you are attracted to her in the first place. Don't you want to succeed and score? :huh:
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 01:58:33 PM
Why would you attempt to be deliberately weeded out? If you approach a girl it is because you are attracted to her in the first place. Don't you want to succeed and score? :huh:
True true this more has to do with what my own set of priorities were when I was dating. :blush:
I was always after a serious relationship, I knew that was always what I really wanted and I never had any doubts about that.
Quote from: Berkut on September 22, 2009, 01:43:29 PM
I look at the seduction community crap as nothing more than advanced game playing strategies, and the realization that you are in fact playing a game, therefore you should go about it in as straighforward manner as possible - within the bounds of the game.
BB, call me crazy, but I am guessing you didn't spend a lot of time trying to pick up women in bars anyway, right?
Not that I did either - but I think the seduction community stuff is pretty fascinating anyway. I've never tried it, and am old enough that I don't think I would want to pick up the kind of women it would work on anyway, but it is still pretty interesting from a strictly competitive standpoint,.
err... I was a horny university student at one point. I spent some time at least trying to pick up women in bars. I was almost wholely unsuccessful at it though. :Embarrass: And where I did have any success it was in getting to know a friend of a friend, and not picking up a total stranger.
But when I did discover more success in meeting women was when I used "strategies" both similar to, and the opposite of, the kind of crap Drakken is mentioning. I found you did need to be much more direct (my failing were at trying to play it way, way too cool), and to be very honest and straight-forward.
No question these seduction people are onto something. They have figured out a way to make millions selling books and videos by packaging pop-psych cliches and old sales technique chestnuts to credulous perpetual adolescents. Clever boys.
Quote from: The Minsky Moment on September 22, 2009, 02:35:31 PM
No question these seduction people are onto something. They have figured out a way to make millions selling books and videos by packaging pop-psych cliches and old sales technique chestnuts to credulous perpetual adolescents. Clever boys.
Reminds me of my unwritten book: "Stockpicking the Texas-Hold'em Way: Turn Your Poker Skills Into Stock Market Riches."
Quote from: The Minsky Moment on September 22, 2009, 02:35:31 PM
No question these seduction people are onto something. They have figured out a way to make millions selling books and videos by packaging pop-psych cliches and old sales technique chestnuts to credulous perpetual adolescents. Clever boys.
I'm just mad I didn't think of it first.
Sulla's secrets of wooing women.
a) kill their husbands
b) take their stuff
I have created my own seduction system based on a five step process: Junction, Attraction, Realization, Obtainment, Next challenge. It is based on fundamental, carefully tested and honed principles of pyschology, behavioral dynamics, physico-emotional response, pheromonic biochemistry, hermeneutics, and toaster physics. In order to take advantage of the J.A.R.O.N. system, the initiate will have to commit himself to practice by initiating multiple approaches in different locales for a period of months; however, even the beginner will be able to do so with the confidence that the precepts of the J.A.R.O.N. system are working in his favor. Essential to the system is learning how to process and overcome negative responses and move on to the next approach.
I think the Sulla and J.A.R.O.N. systems would both work very well. ;)
My own favoured approach is the mathematical theory of dating. Simply approach random women and ask "would you like to have sex with me"? Statistically, it would probably get you laid before the night was out. :D
We had a thread on that once. :smoke:
My only seduction system was buying my future husband chocolate cake. I think I was projecting :blush:
Quote from: The Minsky Moment on September 22, 2009, 03:14:30 PM
I have created my own seduction system based on a five step process: Junction, Attraction, Realization, Obtainment, Next challenge. It is based on fundamental, carefully tested and honed principles of pyschology, behavioral dynamics, physico-emotional response, pheromonic biochemistry, hermeneutics, and toaster physics. In order to take advantage of the J.A.R.O.N. system, the initiate will have to commit himself to practice by initiating multiple approaches in different locales for a period of months; however, even the beginner will be able to do so with the confidence that the precepts of the J.A.R.O.N. system are working in his favor. Essential to the system is learning how to process and overcome negative responses and move on to the next approach.
:lol:
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Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 01:21:18 PM
He's a pretty nice guy, actually--funny, too. Curiously, I think his techniques must actually work. He has the worst geek-loser voice in the world.
Not to mention he looks butt ugly in his photos.
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Hi, welcome to Languish. I hope you are displeased with your stay.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Was it ever?
Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 04:11:14 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Was it ever?
In the first post I made it clear I was attention whoring.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:11:48 PM
Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 04:11:14 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Was it ever?
In the first post I made it clear I was attention whoring.
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Post more about yourself then.
I failed chemistry.
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:15:32 PM
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
Sometimes chemistry can overcome the absence of chemistry.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:16:45 PM
I failed chemistry.
There's an uber- pheromone for everyone.
Quote from: garbon on September 22, 2009, 04:04:04 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 22, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
I'm pissed that this thread is not even about me anymore.
Hi, welcome to Languish. I hope you are displeased with your stay.
I admit that would not be a bad website motto. :lol:
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:15:32 PM
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
That is probably the most untrue thing ever uttered...well unless I have chemistry with very very very few people. I suppose that might be true. :blush:
Strangely other guys have chemistry with tons of people.
Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 04:17:23 PM
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:15:32 PM
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
Sometimes chemistry can overcome the absence of chemistry.
Transmutation is
too much hard work!
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 04:24:04 PM
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:15:32 PM
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
That is probably the most untrue thing ever uttered...well unless I have chemistry with very very very few people. I suppose that might be true. :blush:
Strangely other guys have chemistry with tons of people.
You don't need to have chemistry with more than one. And it depends on the circumstances - for example, Vin Diesal is my perfect male in Pitch black, but not in other situations. I fully suspect you present 'platonic' Valmy until
you are sure. I only know one person who has ended up with someone she didn't 'have the tingles for' and there were a number of other factors involved there.
Quote from: Malthus on September 22, 2009, 04:22:31 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 22, 2009, 04:04:04 PM
Hi, welcome to Languish. I hope you are displeased with your stay.
I admit that would not be a bad website motto. :lol:
:P
Absence of chemistry is not chemistry of absence :contract:
Quote from: Habbaku on September 22, 2009, 04:17:23 PM
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:15:32 PM
Good the chemistry worked for you both. No dating technique will overcome absence of chemistry
Sometimes chemistry can overcome the absence of chemistry.
:XD:
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. Haven't got a time or date yet though. So we'll see how that works out. It was her turn to chose.
Good luck, sweetie.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.
:thumbsup:
If she vomits pretend not to notice
Quote from: DisturbedPervert on September 24, 2009, 09:06:00 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.
:thumbsup:
If she vomits pretend not to notice
Hard to do if during sex.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. Haven't got a time or date yet though. So we'll see how that works out. It was her turn to chose.
Remember: get one drink and nurse it and keep the booze flowing for her.
Myohmyohmy.
Boom-Shaka-BOOM
One day we will all say, "Remember that Raz guy? What happened to him?"
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:36:59 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Why, because women don't put manipulative mind fucks when they date? :lol:
I didn't just mean men. :huh:
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 11:43:36 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 11:03:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 11:01:19 AM
:blink: That's real?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
Have fun having a read, Korea. :lol:
http://www.fastseduction.com/
Man, that is one ugly website.
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:14:57 AM
Man, that is one ugly website.
We men prefer function over form. -_-
But yeah what is up with all the ads and the nasty lavender color? It should be something macho.
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:54:37 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 12:29:03 PM
Things that are not expected, like you making up a woman to get your date's competitive juices up, are a bit different since they generally require a plan and are designed to steer the interaction a certain way using tactics that are outside the general social pattern. If a woman used tactics like these I would be annoyed and feel a bit like tool since I would not normally expect to be manipulated in that sort of fashion.
First, only a fool would admit to a date that she made a woman up to get her. I'd just say that I stopped seeing her.
Second, girls use tactics, and plentiful of them, to weed out the guys that are not that interesting or have undesirable traits. These are called tests.
Third, a woman who is not interested would not take the bait, she'd say something neutral and impersonal like "okey, have fun!". If she changes her gears it was because she can be nexted and lose a potential mate, which happens all the time due to indecision and bad communication. She already had interest anyway, just that she was pushed to a decision, so it is fair game. Just like salespeople who argue they have a customer ready to buy it, that he comes back in an hour, so you need to take the decision now.
:bleeding:
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 01:24:50 PM
They probably do but the difference is they do them intuitively. There is no test community out there to train girls how to properly test their mates. But considering the sorts of men alot of women end up with maybe there should be :P
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:20:56 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.
The original seduction theorist:
QuoteThere is also another danger; the fair, when any one praises or magnifies them, are filled with the spirit of pride and vain-glory. Do you not agree with me?
Yes, he said.
And the more vain-glorious they are, the more difficult is the capture of them?
I believe you.
What should you say of a hunter who frightened away his prey, and made the capture of the animals which he is hunting more difficult?
He would be a bad hunter, undoubtedly.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:23:27 AM
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:20:56 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.
I always approve of women violently hitting my nuts.
In fact, you can give her your turn too, if you are so gentlemanly. :perv:
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 22, 2009, 12:54:37 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 22, 2009, 12:29:03 PM
Things that are not expected, like you making up a woman to get your date's competitive juices up, are a bit different since they generally require a plan and are designed to steer the interaction a certain way using tactics that are outside the general social pattern. If a woman used tactics like these I would be annoyed and feel a bit like tool since I would not normally expect to be manipulated in that sort of fashion.
First, only a fool would admit to a date that she made a woman up to get her. I'd just say that I stopped seeing her.
Second, girls use tactics, and plentiful of them, to weed out the guys that are not that interesting or have undesirable traits. These are called tests.
Third, a woman who is not interested would not take the bait, she'd say something neutral and impersonal like "okey, have fun!". If she changes her gears it was because she can be nexted and lose a potential mate, which happens all the time due to indecision and bad communication. She already had interest anyway, just that she was pushed to a decision, so it is fair game. Just like salespeople who argue they have a customer ready to buy it, that he comes back in an hour, so you need to take the decision now.
:bleeding:
:lmfao: :console:
Quote from: swallow on September 22, 2009, 04:30:53 PM
You don't need to have chemistry with more than one. And it depends on the circumstances - for example, Vin Diesal is my perfect male in Pitch black, but not in other situations. I fully suspect you present 'platonic' Valmy until you are sure. I only know one person who has ended up with someone she didn't 'have the tingles for' and there were a number of other factors involved there.
Chemistry was just something I very rarely generated with anybody. I am terrible at fostering that very much in my platonic life and in my romantic life as well. I guess I view it simply as a skill and nothing that really has to do with me like 'oh we just clicked' yeah but chances are he clicks with alot of people. Some people are just good at forming quick connections and others are not. I do not really view it as something that really means a thing about whether or not somebody is a good mate for you.
But anyway my wife says she decided to go for me because when talking she realized I had 'this quality and that one and so forth' she was looking for so she went for it. She never said 'Oh we just clicked' because, you know, I am not really somebody who just clicks with people I warm up over time. Demanding I just click or have chemistry with somebody instantly was like asking me to sprout wings and fly. It was just a constant source of annoyance for me. Fortunately there are a few women out there who are not into instant gratification and have a little patience.
Quote from: The Minsky Moment on September 22, 2009, 03:14:30 PM
I have created my own seduction system based on a five step process: Junction, Attraction, Realization, Obtainment, Next challenge. It is based on fundamental, carefully tested and honed principles of pyschology, behavioral dynamics, physico-emotional response, pheromonic biochemistry, hermeneutics, and toaster physics. In order to take advantage of the J.A.R.O.N. system, the initiate will have to commit himself to practice by initiating multiple approaches in different locales for a period of months; however, even the beginner will be able to do so with the confidence that the precepts of the J.A.R.O.N. system are working in his favor. Essential to the system is learning how to process and overcome negative responses and move on to the next approach.
:lol:
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:27:08 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:23:27 AM
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:20:56 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.
I always approve of women violently hitting my nuts.
In fact, you can give her your turn too, if you are so gentlemanly. :perv:
Sure, she can have my turn. I'll even loan her my slapjack.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. Haven't got a time or date yet though. So we'll see how that works out. It was her turn to chose.
Oh goodness. Are you going to drink?
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Quote from: DisturbedPervert on September 24, 2009, 09:06:00 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.
:thumbsup:
If she vomits pretend not to notice
Or hold her hair for her. That's really sweet. :)
I got a copy of the test:
1) 6x7= ___
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
3) How much wood can a woodchuck chuck?
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:32:24 AM
Quote from: DisturbedPervert on September 24, 2009, 09:06:00 AM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.
:thumbsup:
If she vomits pretend not to notice
Or hold her hair for her. That's really sweet. :)
Then lift her skirt and doggy fuck her.
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:16:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:14:57 AM
Man, that is one ugly website.
We men prefer function over form. -_-
But yeah what is up with all the ads and the nasty lavender color? It should be something macho.
It looks like too much of a clusterfuck.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 24, 2009, 02:26:28 AM
Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. Haven't got a time or date yet though. So we'll see how that works out. It was her turn to chose.
:w00t:
Congratulations! Seems like you are on the highway to love! :thumbsup:
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:33:30 AM
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
I bet almost all of them would say 'Julius Caesar' :weep:
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:27:08 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:23:27 AM
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:20:56 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.
I always approve of women violently hitting my nuts.
In fact, you can give her your turn too, if you are so gentlemanly. :perv:
:blink: :blink: :blink:
You have
that fetish?
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:28:52 AM
But anyway my wife says she decided to go for me because when talking she realized I had 'this quality and that one and so forth' she was looking for so she went for it. She never said 'Oh we just clicked' because, you know, I am not really somebody who just clicks with people I warm up over time. Demanding I just click or have chemistry with somebody instantly was like asking me to sprout wings and fly. It was just a constant source of annoyance for me. Fortunately there are a few women out there who are not into instant gratification and have a little patience.
That's very sweet. There's a lot to be said for chemistry, but there's more to be said for taking time and discovering wonderful qualities about your partner.
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:35:29 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:33:30 AM
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
I bet almost all of them would say 'Julius Caesar' :weep:
Just the "right" answer to that question would lead to a 50 page long thread on Languish...
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:34:28 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:16:35 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:14:57 AM
Man, that is one ugly website.
We men prefer function over form. -_-
But yeah what is up with all the ads and the nasty lavender color? It should be something macho.
It looks like too much of a clusterfuck.
It's probably on purpose to repel women as much as possible so that they don't come to scry them. :D
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:36:29 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:27:08 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:23:27 AM
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:20:56 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:19:00 AM
:bleeding:
You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.
Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.
I always approve of women violently hitting my nuts.
In fact, you can give her your turn too, if you are so gentlemanly. :perv:
:blink: :blink: :blink:
You have that fetish?
No, but I can pretend to for a while. :perv: :P
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:35:29 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:33:30 AM
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
I bet almost all of them would say 'Julius Caesar' :weep:
FAIL. They fail the test and die a virgin. Mystery the seduction community douchebag says so.
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Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
That is not the sort of testing Drakken is talking about I think. It is testing subconciously to see if he is going to be a strong protector and will stand up for himself. To check to see if he is a doormat or if he will not put up with your bullcrap. At least that is the impression I got when I was reading the Seduction stuff.
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
I'm 37, drive a Dodge Challenger and have thinning hair. Wanna fuck?
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:41:25 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
That is not the sort of testing Drakken is talking about I think. It is testing subconciously to see if he is going to be a strong protector and will stand up for himself. To check to see if he is a doormat or if he will not put up with your bullcrap. At least that is the impression I got when I was reading the Seduction stuff.
That's the gist of it, yeah.
It's more like seizing up who your potential mate is and if he is up to what you instinctively want.
Creating situations artificially and on purpose to test out how someone will react is called "shit-testing".
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:40:50 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:35:29 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:33:30 AM
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
I bet almost all of them would say 'Julius Caesar' :weep:
FAIL. They fail the test and die a virgin. Mystery the seduction community douchebag says so.
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.salon.com%2Fmwt%2Ffeature%2F2007%2F08%2F06%2Fmystery_qa%2Fstory.jpg&hash=0ec7b336b8b2a984fc9c8dd6af66adf34a8993ca)
Yeah, some "peacocking" clothings are a very weird and a little creepy. But I can't see myself stroding around in that. :lol:
Great, the seduction community is a bunch of amateur selfish-gene idiots too...
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:44:27 AM
Yeah, "peacocking" is a very weird and creepy behavior. I can't see myself stroding around in that. :lol:
I hate to see anyone stroding.
Quote from: PDH on September 24, 2009, 09:44:44 AM
Great, the seduction community is a bunch of amateur selfish-gene idiots too...
Can I blame them on Dawkins? ;)
Quote from: Malthus on September 24, 2009, 09:45:40 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:44:27 AM
Yeah, "peacocking" is a very weird and creepy behavior. I can't see myself stroding around in that. :lol:
I hate to see anyone stroding.
Stop with the flashing lights dude.
Quote from: Malthus on September 24, 2009, 09:45:40 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:44:27 AM
Yeah, "peacocking" is a very weird and creepy behavior. I can't see myself stroding around in that. :lol:
I hate to see anyone stroding.
Okey, "stride" your grammar Stasi agent. :P
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:35:29 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:33:30 AM
2) The first Emperor of Rome was ____________?
I bet almost all of them would say 'Julius Caesar' :weep:
That's because that's who it was.
Retconners.
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:47:24 AM
Quote from: Malthus on September 24, 2009, 09:45:40 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 24, 2009, 09:44:27 AM
Yeah, "peacocking" is a very weird and creepy behavior. I can't see myself stroding around in that. :lol:
I hate to see anyone stroding.
Okey, "stride" your grammar Stasi agent. :P
;)
For myself, the way I impressed my future wife was by making her a little spider out of crystal, wire, rinestones and fish-bone, and attaching it to a web I installed in her room over her bed when she was out of the room.
She liked that. Still has it somewhere.
She was really impressed. She told us that to explain your kid fascination for spiders.
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 24, 2009, 10:17:48 AM
She was really impressed. She told us that to explain your kids fascination for spiders.
I guess it was unconciously a 'test' on my part - many women would find such a thing gross or excessively wierd, and such would not be the right ones for me. ;)
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:41:53 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
I'm 37, drive a Dodge Challenger and have thinning hair. Wanna fuck?
OH GOD YES!!!! :mmm:
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:10 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:41:53 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
I'm 37, drive a Dodge Challenger and have thinning hair. Wanna fuck?
OH GOD YES!!!! :mmm:
Like anal and like to be choked?
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:43 AM
I think my friend (and she is incredibly hot) has self-esteem issues.
Is this that girl who was on Languish? She was pretty hot.
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 01:32:15 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:43 AM
I think my friend (and she is incredibly hot) has self-esteem issues.
Is this that girl who was on Languish? She was pretty hot.
Now she has a kid.
I'm so embarassed of this board sometimes.
That chick (winglamo) showed up, posted maybe 25 times, and we saw a boob shot. People still talke about her 5 years later.
:rolleyes:
Yeah, you'd think I'd be the one to constantly bring her up... but oddly I'm not. :huh:
Quote from: Barrister on September 24, 2009, 01:57:11 PM
I'm so embarassed of this board sometimes.
That chick (winglamo) showed up, posted maybe 25 times, and we saw a boob shot. People still talke about her 5 years later.
:rolleyes:
In my defense I talked to her several times off the Board.
Quote from: Barrister on September 24, 2009, 01:57:11 PM
I'm so embarassed of this board sometimes.
That chick (winglamo) showed up, posted maybe 25 times, and we saw a boob shot. People still talke about her 5 years later.
:rolleyes:
Says the dude who remembered when she showed up and what her name was :P
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:41:25 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
That is not the sort of testing Drakken is talking about I think. It is testing subconciously to see if he is going to be a strong protector and will stand up for himself. To check to see if he is a doormat or if he will not put up with your bullcrap. At least that is the impression I got when I was reading the Seduction stuff.
Oh, I see. Yeah, you're right I think.
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 12:45:22 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:10 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:41:53 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
I'm 37, drive a Dodge Challenger and have thinning hair. Wanna fuck?
OH GOD YES!!!! :mmm:
Like anal and like to be choked?
You had me at anal. :wub:
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 01:32:15 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:43 AM
I think my friend (and she is incredibly hot) has self-esteem issues.
Is this that girl who was on Languish? She was pretty hot.
Nope. This is someone I would never in a million years introduce to Languish.
I missed the boob shot, people.
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Close up of tank top. I won. :)
Boring
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:21:49 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 01:32:15 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:33:43 AM
I think my friend (and she is incredibly hot) has self-esteem issues.
Is this that girl who was on Languish? She was pretty hot.
Nope. This is someone I would never in a million years introduce to Languish.
Really? You should introduce me.
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 12:10:03 AM
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
You just don't want him to be happy. :cry:
Quote from: Ed Anger on September 24, 2009, 09:41:53 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:38:40 AM
Quote from: Valmy on September 24, 2009, 09:32:10 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Yeah that is what I was getting at. Women do not usually go out seeking men thinking of ways to test them.
Okay, gotcha. I think you're right. I can't think of any women that I know that seek to test their men. Unless you count their men meeting certain standards. Like must be certain age, drive certain car, can't be hotter then me, etc.
I'm 37, drive a Dodge Challenger and have thinning hair. Wanna fuck?
I thought you drive a Saab.
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Right plate number, wrong state.
He just graduated to the Benz:
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Possibly this one.
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Or this.
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Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 12:40:43 AM
Possibly this one.
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F3.bp.blogspot.com%2F_1INH3fOI6pM%2FSZ7L2KayVmI%2FAAAAAAAAAk8%2FW8gAJW_HuU0%2Fs400%2F6969_cropped.jpg&hash=2a7b1c6507749e4d0dc0f98bb1ff5af29dd2d43c)
Or this.
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Ffarm1.static.flickr.com%2F87%2F235104489_69cb555c3d_m.jpg&hash=1477e9ebc832da46d3335f019cf198cc9942eeb3)
:lol: Not sure. I think Ed'd pop a vein if somebody put a Yanks frame on his car, but the second is even from Ohio... :ph34r:
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 12:23:41 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 12:10:03 AM
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
You just don't want him to be happy. :cry:
It's true. She doesn't approve of Bargirl.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 12:10:03 AM
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
What? Raz can handle a woman who loves prisons and bars, he can handle the insecure chick.
Quote from: DontSayBanana on September 25, 2009, 12:43:43 AM
:lol: Not sure. I think Ed'd pop a vein if somebody put a Yanks frame on his car, but the second is even from Ohio... :ph34r:
Yankees aren't evil. Red Sox are.
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 10:21:00 PM
You had me at anal. :wub:
Giggity.
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.budster.net%2Fgifs%2Fquagmire%2Fmidnight_q_quagmire.jpg&hash=2452ab5435bd31104bf70ff180ffdd8574bdfb28)
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 08:10:30 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 12:10:03 AM
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
What? Raz can handle a woman who loves prisons and bars, he can handle the insecure chick.
Maybe I should change that to couldn't put up with her.
Quote from: Barrister on September 24, 2009, 01:57:11 PM
I'm so embarassed of this board sometimes.
That chick (winglamo) showed up, posted maybe 25 times, and we saw a boob shot. People still talke about her 5 years later.
:rolleyes:
There was a boob shot???
How the hell did I miss that?
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
No, these are:
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(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.ehow.com%2Fimages%2FGlobalPhoto%2FArticles%2F2312146%2F25124804-main_Full.jpg&hash=65325672a8b1c8956a0cb2405af1f2bc7c3d24fe)
:vomits:
The ones CCR posted *are* big; those ones are freakish and hopefully photoshopped.
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 10:39:17 AM
No, these are:
Someone get that chick on the right a wheelbarrow
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
It took me awhile to find that pic -- I had stuff all over everywhere, so I just took the couple of minutes to condense all of my Languish-related "teaser" pics into one easy-to-find location...
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:29:32 AM
You should at least let me show why.
Tres intéressant...
The law of diminishing returns applies to boobs too <_<
They'd look alright if they were 9 feet tall
The girl on the right would need to be closer to 15 feet.
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 12:23:41 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 12:10:03 AM
Lulz. No way. You couldn't handle her.
You just don't want him to be happy. :cry:
No, not really. She's not a bad person, but she's way pushy, extremely judgmental, a waffler if not actually bipolar, and a drunk. I don't particularly like her.
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 10:39:17 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
No, these are:
(https://languish.org/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi44.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff34%2FChrisGriffin06%2FGiantTits.jpg&hash=faa44b680304557f7f69f6e46fff43dac3243704)
EEWWWWWW! That looks disgusting and really uncomfortable.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:17:57 AM
EEWWWWWW! That looks disgusting and really uncomfortable.
We all have to have something we are proud of...and for these women it is looking like freaks.
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 10:42:49 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
It took me awhile to find that pic -- I had stuff all over everywhere, so I just took the couple of minutes to condense all of my Languish-related "teaser" pics into one easy-to-find location...
A bit...strange...
Do you have mine?
What I don't understand is how come some women can do that to their bodies. Is it possible that some men actually like those?
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 10:47:06 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:29:32 AM
You should at least let me show why.
Tres intéressant...
If I can get permisson from Raz I will show you all what she said which I think shows she is clearly not interested. Not like I have that much experience in the world of dating but I think anyone would read the same things into it that I did.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:19:44 AM
If I can get permisson from Raz I will show you all what she said which I think shows she is clearly not interested.
Well I will leave it up to Raz's discretion then -_-
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:17:57 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 10:39:17 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
No, these are:
EEWWWWWW! That looks disgusting and really uncomfortable.
Actually, a cowrker with tits the size of the middle chick had to undergo reduction surgery due to back problems.
Awesome CCR. :ccr
Now Korea has to show us an updated version of hers. It's the rules. :contract:
Or CCR's massive database, we have to see the winner, obviously.
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 11:22:23 AM
Actually, a cowrker with tits the size of the middle chick had to undergo reduction surgery due to back problems.
Reduction surgeries make Caliga cry. :(
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 11:22:23 AM
Actually, a cowrker with tits the size of the middle chick had to undergo reduction surgery due to it being disgusting and awful.
FYP
I'd say middle chick's tits are merely unattractive, not quite disgusting.
@Korea- if she's willing to see him again she can't be that uninterested
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 11:37:37 AM
@Korea- if she's willing to see him again she can't be that uninterested
That seems logical but in my experience untrue. Besides they have not actually gotten together again yet.
Well, it didn't sound like Raz was pushing that hard.
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 11:45:32 AM
Well, it didn't sound like Raz was pushing that hard.
Hey I am not saying you are wrong only saying just because she is talking about getting together again doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Word. back in my 20's I dated a lot of women and had many 2nd or 3rd dates even with gals who weren't actually interested in being more than friends (be wary of the Friend Zone(tm) )
Quote from: BuddhaRhubarb on September 25, 2009, 11:55:59 AM
Word. back in my 20's I dated a lot of women and had many 2nd or 3rd dates even with gals who weren't actually interested in being more than friends (be wary of the Friend Zone(tm) )
That being said, if it is the girl who initiates the second date and provides a date and time, it's a very good sign of interest from her part. Women are not stupid, they recognize a first date when they see one. So if she's keen to a second one, excellent news.
It doesn't mean it will succeed and will easily lead to the sack; that the guy's job to do to increase her attraction and make her comfortable with going further with him. But it's a least a token of her wanting to see him again for another fun time together.
As for the friend zone after dates, most of the time it's because the guy either grossly fumbled or played it all "nice guy", didn't make his sexual and attraction clear and didn't escalate. I mean, 3 dates and nothing happens? Of course she'll think you are either intimidated, gutless, gay, or that you really want to remain friends with her (could be also a mix of all those above).
Quote from: Drakken on September 25, 2009, 12:26:12 PM
As for the friend zone after dates, most of the time it's because the guy either grossly fumbled or played it all "nice guy", didn't make his sexual and attraction clear and didn't escalate.
Hehe I have actually have sex a few times and then gotten friend zoned so you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 12:33:20 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 25, 2009, 12:26:12 PM
As for the friend zone after dates, most of the time it's because the guy either grossly fumbled or played it all "nice guy", didn't make his sexual and attraction clear and didn't escalate.
Hehe I have actually have sex a few times and then gotten friend zoned so you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.
Then you weren't in the "friend zone" while you had sex with her. Duh.
Sex doesn't mean she wants a lasting serious relationship. Girls love sex as much as men do, and have a wide series of reasons to have sex with guys, even those he calls her "friends".
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:18:58 AM
A bit...strange...
Do you have mine?
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 25, 2009, 11:27:24 AM
Awesome CCR. :ccr
Now Korea has to show us an updated version of hers. It's the rules. :contract:
Or CCR's massive database, we have to see the winner, obviously.
Yes, along with a few other female Languish denizens. Does this make me :ph34r: or :nerd: ?
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 12:38:50 PM
Yes, along with a few other female Languish denizens. Does this make me :ph34r: or :nerd: ?
It makes you a great American.
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 12:38:50 PM
Yes, along with a few other female Languish denizens. Does this make me :ph34r: or :nerd: ?
Possibly :perv:
Boobs like that should be seen, not heard about.
Quote from: MadImmortalMan on September 25, 2009, 11:34:10 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 11:22:23 AM
Actually, a cowrker with tits the size of the middle chick had to undergo reduction surgery due to it being disgusting and awful.
FYP
You're dead to me, son.
Quote from: Drakken on September 25, 2009, 12:35:29 PM
Then you weren't in the "friend zone" while you had sex with her. Duh.
I guess that's true. If Raz gets that far it will be a glorious thing indeed.
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 12:33:20 PM
Hehe I have actually have sex a few times and then gotten friend zoned so you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.
Princesca tried to friend zone me after I banged her the first time and I was all "OH NO YOU DON'T GIRL" and then she was all "YES MASSA". :cool:
I'd fuck the big-titted chick in the middle.
Quote from: Ideologue on September 25, 2009, 12:50:16 PM
I'd fuck the big-titted chick in the middle.
For your insane vegan comments you are: forgiven. :)
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 12:46:23 PM
I guess that's true. If Raz gets that far it will be a glorious thing indeed.
Would that make Jaron the only virgin left on Languish?
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 11:37:37 AM
I'd say middle chick's tits are merely unattractive, not quite disgusting.
That's because she has horrible implants. It looks like she probably started out as an A cup and stuffed a pair of watermelons in there.
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 12:49:24 PM
Princesca tried to friend zone me after I banged her the first time and I was all "OH NO YOU DON'T GIRL" and then she was all "YES MASSA". :cool:
Speaking of Princesca, my "records" are conspicuously missing a pictoral specimen of her goodies. What would be the most convenient way for us to mutually rectify this deficiency?
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 12:51:27 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 25, 2009, 12:50:16 PM
I'd fuck the big-titted chick in the middle.
For your insane vegan comments you are: forgiven. :)
I don't think it'd be fun to hear her complain about her back for years on end, and in general skinny chicks you'd consider practically titless are my raison d'être, but I'd like to mix it up every now and again.
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 12:53:44 PMSpeaking of Princesca, my "records" are conspicuously missing a pictoral specimen of her goodies. What would be the most convenient way for us to mutually rectify this deficiency?
She has never been especially cooperative in this whole picture-taking department. <_<
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 01:04:32 PM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 12:53:44 PMSpeaking of Princesca, my "records" are conspicuously missing a pictoral specimen of her goodies. What would be the most convenient way for us to mutually rectify this deficiency?
She has never been especially cooperative in this whole picture-taking department. <_<
:console:
Hm, wait a sec... I thought I sent you a pic of her tramp stamp way back when? :huh:
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 01:08:18 PM
Hm, wait a sec... I thought I sent you a pic of her tramp stamp way back when? :huh:
Yes -- I still have that on file. However, all you see in the pic is the tattoo itself. There are no goodies visible (covered or otherwise)...
:P
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 12:49:24 PM
Princesca tried to friend zone me after I banged her the first time and I was all "OH NO YOU DON'T GIRL" and then she was all "YES MASSA". :cool:
You can only get away with saying that since she doesn't read this site anymore.
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 02:01:32 PMYou can only get away with saying that since she doesn't read this site anymore.
:goodboy:
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 11:21:26 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:19:44 AM
If I can get permisson from Raz I will show you all what she said which I think shows she is clearly not interested.
Well I will leave it up to Raz's discretion then -_-
Eh, she's not falling down at my feet. She's playing her womanish games. I don't know where it will go, but I'll play along for a while at least till something better comes along.
Raz, have you ever heard of Densha Otoko?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko
The Japanese words mean "train man". It is an allegedly real story of a hardcore nerd who rescued a beautiful and rich young lady on a train. The nerd posts on the net asking for advice on how to date the girl. The posts were eventually collected and published. There were even a TV drama series and a movie based on the story (which I've watched, at the insistance of my wife).
I can only assume that a large fortune was made in the process by all parties concerned :cool:
Quote from: Monoriu on September 25, 2009, 04:10:37 PM
Raz, have you ever heard of Densha Otoko?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko
The Japanese words mean "train man". It is an allegedly real story of a hardcore nerd who rescued a beautiful and rich young lady on a train. The nerd posts on the net asking for advice on how to date the girl. The posts were eventually collected and published. There were even a TV drama series and a movie based on the story (which I've watched, at the insistance of my wife).
I can only assume that a large fortune was made in the process by all parties concerned :cool:
Heh, a book made of the collected adventures of some dude posting on a chat site? I'd love to see the Languish equivalent. :lol:
Quote from: Malthus on September 25, 2009, 04:38:22 PM
Heh, a book made of the collected adventures of some dude posting on a chat site? I'd love to see the Languish equivalent. :lol:
It's a bit more than that. Imagine the dude going to a restaurant with the girl. He doesn't know what to wear, what to order, what to talk about etc , so he asks for advice before going. The focus of the story is very much on the interaction between the dude and the languish equivalent, and their...unique world view :lol:
Quote from: Monoriu on September 25, 2009, 04:10:37 PM
Raz, have you ever heard of Densha Otoko?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Densha_Otoko
The Japanese words mean "train man". It is an allegedly real story of a hardcore nerd who rescued a beautiful and rich young lady on a train. The nerd posts on the net asking for advice on how to date the girl. The posts were eventually collected and published. There were even a TV drama series and a movie based on the story (which I've watched, at the insistance of my wife).
I can only assume that a large fortune was made in the process by all parties concerned :cool:
The sequel seems more fun
QuoteFollowing its popularity, "Chikan Otoko" was produced, the story of a man who is accused of being a groper on public transport
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 11:22:23 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:17:57 AM
Quote from: Syt on September 25, 2009, 10:39:17 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:30:26 AM
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 07:23:46 AM
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 24, 2009, 10:48:14 PM
I missed the boob shot, people.
Here you go...
Damn those are big.
No, these are:
EEWWWWWW! That looks disgusting and really uncomfortable.
Actually, a cowrker with tits the size of the middle chick had to undergo reduction surgery due to back problems.
Was she also fat? I've seen one girl that was extremely skinny that had at least double d boobs. It was worrisome.
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 25, 2009, 11:27:24 AM
Awesome CCR. :ccr
Now Korea has to show us an updated version of hers. It's the rules. :contract:
Or CCR's massive database, we have to see the winner, obviously.
Mine have gotten bigger! By 2 cups! :w00t:
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 11:37:37 AM
I'd say middle chick's tits are merely unattractive, not quite disgusting.
@Korea- if she's willing to see him again she can't be that uninterested
It was the non committal way she said it though. And the friends stipulation.
Quote from: Drakken on September 25, 2009, 12:26:12 PM
As for the friend zone after dates, most of the time it's because the guy either grossly fumbled or played it all "nice guy", didn't make his sexual and attraction clear and didn't escalate. I mean, 3 dates and nothing happens? Of course she'll think you are either intimidated, gutless, gay, or that you really want to remain friends with her (could be also a mix of all those above).
You're suppose to have sex after the third date?!
Quote from: C.C.R. on September 25, 2009, 12:38:50 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:18:58 AM
A bit...strange...
Do you have mine?
Quote from: Alcibiades on September 25, 2009, 11:27:24 AM
Awesome CCR. :ccr
Now Korea has to show us an updated version of hers. It's the rules. :contract:
Or CCR's massive database, we have to see the winner, obviously.
Yes, along with a few other female Languish denizens. Does this make me :ph34r: or :nerd: ?
Yep. Those are some nice titties. :ccr:
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on September 25, 2009, 12:52:42 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 12:46:23 PM
I guess that's true. If Raz gets that far it will be a glorious thing indeed.
Would that make Jaron the only virgin left on Languish?
Actually Raz has had sex before. :)
Quote from: Ideologue on September 25, 2009, 12:57:01 PM
Quote from: Caliga on September 25, 2009, 12:51:27 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 25, 2009, 12:50:16 PM
I'd fuck the big-titted chick in the middle.
For your insane vegan comments you are: forgiven. :)
I don't think it'd be fun to hear her complain about her back for years on end, and in general skinny chicks you'd consider practically titless are my raison d'être, but I'd like to mix it up every now and again.
<_<
Quote from: Razgovory on September 25, 2009, 04:05:21 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 11:21:26 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:19:44 AM
If I can get permisson from Raz I will show you all what she said which I think shows she is clearly not interested.
Well I will leave it up to Raz's discretion then -_-
Eh, she's not falling down at my feet. She's playing her womanish games. I don't know where it will go, but I'll play along for a while at least till something better comes along.
I really like panda girl.
Make enough posts in a row? :lol:
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:11:09 PM
Quote from: Drakken on September 25, 2009, 12:26:12 PM
As for the friend zone after dates, most of the time it's because the guy either grossly fumbled or played it all "nice guy", didn't make his sexual and attraction clear and didn't escalate. I mean, 3 dates and nothing happens? Of course she'll think you are either intimidated, gutless, gay, or that you really want to remain friends with her (could be also a mix of all those above).
You're suppose to have sex after the third date?!
Not necessarily sex. But three or four dates happening without even a kiss or trying to get one makes it a dead cat, and unless masochistic a waste of time and energy.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:11:09 PM
You're suppose to have sex after the third date?!
Why not? We are talking about adults.
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:16:25 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on September 25, 2009, 04:05:21 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 25, 2009, 11:21:26 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 11:19:44 AM
If I can get permisson from Raz I will show you all what she said which I think shows she is clearly not interested.
Well I will leave it up to Raz's discretion then -_-
Eh, she's not falling down at my feet. She's playing her womanish games. I don't know where it will go, but I'll play along for a while at least till something better comes along.
I really like panda girl.
You read what I sent you? I think she's more my style.
Quote from: Drakken on September 26, 2009, 01:39:45 AM
Not necessarily sex. But three or four dates happening without even a kiss or trying to get one makes it a dead cat, and unless masochistic a waste of time and energy.
Unless you find that you really enjoy one another's company. Surely that counts for something?
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:07:49 PM
Mine have gotten bigger! By 2 cups! :w00t:
[siege] You've gotten fat. [/siege]
Quote from: merithyn on September 26, 2009, 11:03:18 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 26, 2009, 01:39:45 AM
Not necessarily sex. But three or four dates happening without even a kiss or trying to get one makes it a dead cat, and unless masochistic a waste of time and energy.
Unless you find that you really enjoy one another's company. Surely that counts for something?
Two persons of different sex enjoying each other's company and neither wanting sex with the other? What are the odds of that? (speaking of heteros, Marty, don't flip)
Quote from: merithyn on September 26, 2009, 11:03:18 AM
Quote from: Drakken on September 26, 2009, 01:39:45 AM
Not necessarily sex. But three or four dates happening without even a kiss or trying to get one makes it a dead cat, and unless masochistic a waste of time and energy.
Unless you find that you really enjoy one another's company. Surely that counts for something?
Fuck no.
Quote from: Korea on September 22, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?
Some people have a tendency to overthink it.
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Ide is the chick in your relationship: He tested you. When you let him play around in your butt, you passed.
Then again, Ide knows comics and strategic bombers with such an intensity that he couldn't possibly be the chick. Maybe you're just one of those couples that is brought together by coolness rather than trickery, hokey religions and ancient weapons.
Quote from: Razgovory on September 25, 2009, 12:44:41 AM
It's true. She doesn't approve of Bargirl.
I read this as Batgirl.
Quote from: Ideologue on September 25, 2009, 10:24:09 PM
Make enough posts in a row? :lol:
I can't help that I have many wonderful and interesting things to say.
Quote from: garbon on September 26, 2009, 01:46:33 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:11:09 PM
You're suppose to have sex after the third date?!
Why not? We are talking about adults.
So being an adult is the same as being a slut?
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:39:51 PM
Quote from: garbon on September 26, 2009, 01:46:33 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:11:09 PM
You're suppose to have sex after the third date?!
Why not? We are talking about adults.
So being an adult is the same as being a slut?
Better then child sluts. That's weird. Only Grallon wants that.
Quote from: Habbaku on September 26, 2009, 12:04:48 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 25, 2009, 10:07:49 PM
Mine have gotten bigger! By 2 cups! :w00t:
[siege] You've gotten fat. [/siege]
Unfortunately, I did gain weight :( Thank you paxil! But I'm losing it now. :) Just lost 15lbs. But my boobs are still big!
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:39:51 PM
So being an adult is the same as being a slut?
Well we aren't Victorians.
Quote from: garbon on September 26, 2009, 04:53:35 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:39:51 PM
So being an adult is the same as being a slut?
Well we aren't Victorians.
Perhaps, but that's no reason to go around having sex willy-nilly.
Quote from: Neil on September 26, 2009, 04:59:36 PM
Perhaps, but that's no reason to go around having sex willy-nilly.
Are you sure?
Quote from: Habbaku on September 26, 2009, 05:42:22 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:45:44 PM
But my boobs are still big!
pix
Inappropriate. So far as I know, Ide and I have the only nude pics of Korea in existance, and it's going to stay that way.
Quote from: Neil on September 26, 2009, 05:50:54 PM
Quote from: Habbaku on September 26, 2009, 05:42:22 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:45:44 PM
But my boobs are still big!
pix
Inappropriate. So far as I know, Ide and I have the only nude pics of Korea in existance, and it's going to stay that way.
I have no problem with Korea providing us with a clothed pic of her boobs. :)
Quote from: Barrister on September 26, 2009, 08:08:41 PM
Quote from: Neil on September 26, 2009, 05:50:54 PM
Quote from: Habbaku on September 26, 2009, 05:42:22 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 26, 2009, 04:45:44 PM
But my boobs are still big!
pix
Inappropriate. So far as I know, Ide and I have the only nude pics of Korea in existance, and it's going to stay that way.
I have no problem with Korea providing us with a clothed pic of her boobs. :)
I wil when it is daylight.
What about my copious supply of Korean boob shots?
Quote from: Neil on September 26, 2009, 01:58:11 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Ide is the chick in your relationship: He tested you. When you let him play around in your butt, you passed.
Then again, Ide knows comics and strategic bombers with such an intensity that he couldn't possibly be the chick. Maybe you're just one of those couples that is brought together by coolness rather than trickery, hokey religions and ancient weapons.
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
Languish allows us to discuss things in terms we all understand.
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Quote from: Neil on September 26, 2009, 01:58:11 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 24, 2009, 09:22:55 AM
I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there. :huh:
Ide is the chick in your relationship: He tested you. When you let him play around in your butt, you passed.
Then again, Ide knows comics and strategic bombers with such an intensity that he couldn't possibly be the chick. Maybe you're just one of those couples that is brought together by coolness rather than trickery, hokey religions and ancient weapons.
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:25:17 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
I believe he is referring to the non-event of the French offensive into Germany in September 1939. Basically, attack across the border, run into a patrol, stop, scurry back home before it can get serious.
I think it would work as a valid metaphor for various things.
Quote from: Agelastus on September 27, 2009, 05:29:08 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:25:17 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
I believe he is referring to the non-event of the French offensive into Germany in September 1939. Basically, attack across the border, run into a patrol, stop, scurry back home before it can get serious.
I think it would work as a valid metaphor for various things.
Like what?
I was just grousing about how things stalled. I didn't mean anything negative against you, sweetheart. :)
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:29:54 PM
Quote from: Agelastus on September 27, 2009, 05:29:08 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:25:17 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
I believe he is referring to the non-event of the French offensive into Germany in September 1939. Basically, attack across the border, run into a patrol, stop, scurry back home before it can get serious.
I think it would work as a valid metaphor for various things.
Like what?
Things I regrettably have too little experience with to adequately comment on, so I shall, with apologies, bow out of this thread at this point... :(
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:29:54 PM
Quote from: Agelastus on September 27, 2009, 05:29:08 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:25:17 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
I believe he is referring to the non-event of the French offensive into Germany in September 1939. Basically, attack across the border, run into a patrol, stop, scurry back home before it can get serious.
I think it would work as a valid metaphor for various things.
Like what?
Blue balls.
Quote from: Tamas on September 26, 2009, 12:50:20 PM
Two persons of different sex enjoying each other's company and neither wanting sex with the other? What are the odds of that? (speaking of heteros, Marty, don't flip)
It does happen, you know. I have several male friends that I'm not sexually attracted to, and that I'm fairly sure aren't looking at me that way, either.
Quote from: merithyn on September 27, 2009, 05:41:50 PM
It does happen, you know. I have several male friends that I'm not sexually attracted to, and that I'm fairly sure aren't looking at me that way, either.
What's...the point?
Quote from: Agelastus on September 27, 2009, 05:33:37 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:29:54 PM
Quote from: Agelastus on September 27, 2009, 05:29:08 PM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:25:17 PM
Quote from: Ideologue on September 27, 2009, 06:22:37 AM
Tonight reflected the early efforts against the Saar. <_< But thanks all the same. :hug:
I don't get it.
I believe he is referring to the non-event of the French offensive into Germany in September 1939. Basically, attack across the border, run into a patrol, stop, scurry back home before it can get serious.
I think it would work as a valid metaphor for various things.
Like what?
Things I regrettably have too little experience with to adequately comment on, so I shall, with apologies, bow out of this thread at this point... :(
Well, okay. Thanks though. :)
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:29:54 PM
Like what?
Premature ejaculation. Failure to penetrate.
Quote from: merithyn on September 27, 2009, 05:46:20 PM
:unsure:
They're entertaining?
Entertaining friends that you can sleep with...are even more entertaining! :w00t:
Quote from: garbon on September 27, 2009, 05:49:45 PM
Entertaining friends that you can sleep with...are even more entertaining! :w00t:
I'm married. He's the only one I imagine sleeping with now. :goodboy:
Quote from: merithyn on September 27, 2009, 05:52:00 PM
I'm married. He's the only one I imagine sleeping with now. :goodboy:
So we go full circle:
What's...the point?
:P
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:28:42 PM
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Yeah, I'm beginning to lose interest and actually become annoyed with her. DGuller may have been right after all. I don't think we "click". Meh.
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:28:42 PM
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Yeah 'you totally remind me of a this guy I didn't find attractive' is not exactly the language of a woman falling in love.
Quote from: Valmy on September 28, 2009, 01:34:50 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:28:42 PM
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Yeah 'you totally remind me of a this guy I didn't find attractive' is not exactly the language of a woman falling in love.
Well she found the dude ok enough to date him and I'll assume have sex with him. Maybe Raz can at least get her drunk and get his dick wet.
Quote from: DisturbedPervert on September 28, 2009, 01:54:12 AM
Well she found the dude ok enough to date him and I'll assume have sex with him. Maybe Raz can at least get her drunk and get his dick wet.
Not worth it, Raz. That's how crazy starts, and for once we won't be talking about you.
Quote from: merithyn on September 28, 2009, 08:32:44 AM
Not worth it, Raz. That's how crazy starts, and for once we won't be talking about you.
Crazy starts with her not being that into him? :huh:
Crazy starts at home.
Quote from: merithyn on September 28, 2009, 08:32:44 AM
Not worth it, Raz. That's how crazy starts, and for once we won't be talking about you.
WTF are you talking about?
Quote from: Valmy on September 28, 2009, 01:34:50 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:28:42 PM
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Yeah 'you totally remind me of a this guy I didn't find attractive' is not exactly the language of a woman falling in love.
I'd say this is a reasonable assumption.
How about "You remind me of a teacher I had that I had a crush on"?
Quote from: Ideologue on September 28, 2009, 08:17:29 PM
Quote from: Valmy on September 28, 2009, 01:34:50 AM
Quote from: Korea on September 27, 2009, 05:28:42 PM
This chick said that Raz reminded her of her ex. Raz ask why they broke up and she says she wasn't into him.
I'm right when I say this is a dead end, right?
Yeah 'you totally remind me of a this guy I didn't find attractive' is not exactly the language of a woman falling in love.
I'd say this is a reasonable assumption.
How about "You remind me of a teacher I had that I had a crush on"?
Ah, Miss Thompson, 4th grade. :perv: