Raz goes on a date Pre-AAR

[Razgovory]

Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.  Haven't got a time or date yet though.  So we'll see how that works out.  It was her turn to chose.

[charliebear]

Good luck, sweetie. 

[DisturbedPervert]

Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. 

If she vomits pretend not to notice

[Malthus]

Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia. 

If she vomits pretend not to notice

Hard to do if during sex.

[Valmy]

Looks like I got a second date at a bar up in Columbia.  Haven't got a time or date yet though.  So we'll see how that works out.  It was her turn to chose.

Remember: get one drink and nurse it and keep the booze flowing for her.

[charliebear]

Myohmyohmy.

[PDH]

Boom-Shaka-BOOM

One day we will all say, "Remember that Raz guy? What happened to him?"

[Korea]

WTF? Is dating always this manipulative mind fuck?

Why, because women don't put manipulative mind fucks when they date?

I didn't just mean men. 

[Korea]

That's real?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community

Have fun having a read, Korea. 

http://www.fastseduction.com/

Man, that is one ugly website.

[Valmy]

Man, that is one ugly website.

We men prefer function over form.

But yeah what is up with all the ads and the nasty lavender color?  It should be something macho.

[Korea]

Things that are not expected, like you making up a woman to get your date's competitive juices up, are a bit different since they generally require a plan and are designed to steer the interaction a certain way using tactics that are outside the general social pattern.  If a woman used tactics like these I would be annoyed and feel a bit like tool since I would not normally expect to be manipulated in that sort of fashion.

First, only a fool would admit to a date that she made a woman up to get her. I'd just say that I stopped seeing her.

Second, girls use tactics, and plentiful of them, to weed out the guys that are not that interesting or have undesirable traits. These are called tests.

Third, a woman who is not interested would not take the bait, she'd say something neutral and impersonal like "okey, have fun!". If she changes her gears it was because she can be nexted and lose a potential mate, which happens all the time due to indecision and bad communication. She already had interest anyway, just that she was pushed to a decision, so it is fair game. Just like salespeople who argue they have a customer ready to buy it, that he comes back in an hour, so you need to take the decision now.

[PDH]

You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.

[Korea]

They probably do but the difference is they do them intuitively.  There is no test community out there to train girls how to properly test their mates.  But considering the sorts of men alot of women end up with maybe there should be

I don't think that I tested Ide. Or if I did I did it without realizing. I just thought this is fun and then it progressed from there.

[Ed Anger]

You are allowed to kick him in the nuts, Ed will give you his turn.

Ladies first. I am a gentleman after all.

[The Minsky Moment]

The original seduction theorist:

There is also another danger; the fair, when any one praises or magnifies them, are filled with the spirit of pride and vain-glory. Do you not agree with me?

Yes, he said.

And the more vain-glorious they are, the more difficult is the capture of them?

I believe you.

What should you say of a hunter who frightened away his prey, and made the capture of the animals which he is hunting more difficult?

He would be a bad hunter, undoubtedly.