Please explain the fascination with anal

[dps]

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

I've never had the first be painful but definitely the second. Assuming you meant those as two separate things.

I've never found the first painful, either, but I've always held back through self-control.  But there's also the possiblity of holding back with, uhm, mechanical aid which apparantly is usually painful (and therefore, some people are into it).  My understanding is that using mechanical aid for it can lead to permanent physical damage, so even if it wasn't painful, it wouldn't be something I'd care to try--that's an area I really prefer not to suffer any permanent damage.

[Ideologue]

Does this device have a name?  I've never heard of such a thing.  Have folks who use it just tried the "not fucking for a minute" technique?

[garbon]

Clearly you don't understand the point.

[CountDeMoney]

Or the adult sex toys industry.

[Ideologue]

Nope.  Blindspot, I guess.

[Viking]

Does this device have a name?  I've never heard of such a thing.  Have folks who use it just tried the "not fucking for a minute" technique?

or the "think of baseball statistics" technique?

[dps]

Does this device have a name?  I've never heard of such a thing.  Have folks who use it just tried the "not fucking for a minute" technique?

AFAIK, there isn't just one devise;  there are different devises one could use.  Don't know the names of any of them.

[merithyn]

I think merri is one of these people who need a fuck buddy for the most transgressive sex. It's just too embarrassing to do these things with your own husband/boyfriend/life-partner.

I just get the feeling that she's always keeping score in her war with the patriarchy.

@ Marti - Hardly. I don't embarrass easily, especially in the bedroom with my spouse. I'm willing to try just about anyting once - and if I like it, a lot more times.

@ Neil - That's too much work. I'm barely keeping my head above water making life for everyone else better. I am a mom, after all.

[merithyn]

Don't say, I feel like I just told this to my mom.

Yes, well, I appear to be the mom of Languish, so.... make sure you eat your veggies and clean up well after anal sex.

[merithyn]

But the wife is so nervous about the idea, she doesn't even like doggie style because she is afraid it is going to get jammed in there by accident. Which is...well, ridiculous,  of course.

Not totally impossible, actually

Agreed.

[garbon]

I think merri is one of these people who need a fuck buddy for the most transgressive sex. It's just too embarrassing to do these things with your own husband/boyfriend/life-partner.

I just get the feeling that she's always keeping score in her war with the patriarchy.

@ Marti - Hardly. I don't embarrass easily, especially in the bedroom with my spouse. I'm willing to try just about anyting once - and if I like it, a lot more times.

I'm now imagining Meri like Sheila on Shameless.

[CountDeMoney]

I'm now imagining Meri like Sheila on Shameless.

More like Cindy Walsh from 90210 going doggy style.  Woof! 

[garbon]

[CountDeMoney]

Now I have to go and clean all this up.

[merithyn]

I'm now imagining Meri like Sheila on Shameless.

More like Cindy Walsh from 90210 going doggy style.  Woof!

I know neither of these two women...