"Asexual"

[alfred russel]

They will break up in a year or two when he finds out she is cheating on him.

Hopefully for his sake it's with a girl.

When I was in college a friend of mine dated an Indian girl for about 3 years (most of college). She mentioned a few times that the idea of sex was gross but we never thought anything of it because they typically slept together. Then at the end of the relationship it came out that even though they were sleeping together they never did anything of a sexual nature. This is what pissed off my friend and they broke up. We thought she might be gay.

Then about a month later she started dating, and having sex with, an Indian med student (confirmed by her roommates). The whole time she was just treading water until the right partner came along.

[CountDeMoney]

The whole time she was just treading water until the right partner came along.

Yeah, that's odd;  never heard of any women ever doing that.

[alfred russel]

The whole time she was just treading water until the right partner came along.

Yeah, that's odd;  never heard of any women ever doing that.

But three years of usually sleeping in the same bed as a guy--a twin bed mind you--and never letting him get anywhere? That may be worse than waterboarding.

[Ed Anger]

Bitches be trippin'.

[CountDeMoney]

But three years of usually sleeping in the same bed as a guy--a twin bed mind you--and never letting him get anywhere? That may be worse than waterboarding.

All it proves is he's as big an idiot as she is a goofball.

[Drakken]

The important part is, is he happy with the situation? If her lack of sex drive doesn't bother him kudos for him. If it does, however, either it's counseling with a sexologist or him sleeping with other women.

A truly asexual person (and not someone witholding sex for control issues) should allow the person to seek sex somewhere else, within bounds that both agree with, or be willing to let him/her go. Otherwise it is really unfair for the other partner, as sex is an integral part of a relationship and he shouldn't be paying for something that is vital to a viable relationship.

[garbon]

So it's a she-garbon?  Even has the hair right.

My hair was never that involved.

[garbon]

The important part is, is he happy with the situation? If her lack of sex drive doesn't bother him kudos for him. If it does, however, either it's counseling with a sexologist or him sleeping with other women.

A truly asexual person (and not someone witholding sex for control issues) should allow the person to seek sex somewhere else, within bounds that both agree with, or be willing to let him/her go. Otherwise it is really unfair for the other partner, as sex is an integral part of a relationship and he shouldn't be paying for something that is vital to a viable relationship.

Let them go? Are they trapped?

[CountDeMoney]

The important part is, is he happy with the situation? If her lack of sex drive doesn't bother him kudos for him. If it does, however, either it's counseling with a sexologist or him sleeping with other women.

A truly asexual person (and not someone witholding sex for control issues) should allow the person to seek sex somewhere else, within bounds that both agree with, or be willing to let him/her go. Otherwise it is really unfair for the other partner, as sex is an integral part of a relationship and he shouldn't be paying for something that is vital to a viable relationship.

Let them go? Are they trapped?

No shit.  People are making this sound like some sort of contractual obligation.  WTF is wrong with you over-rationalizing fucksticks?  What are you, lawyers?

[garbon]

Bitches be trippin'.

[CountDeMoney]

"In the few times as an agony aunt or in my other work I have had questions about it, people often feel incredibly secretive about it because it's so rare," says Spurr.

And what the fuck kind of fucked-up British term is that, anyway?  What kind of fucked up profession is "agony aunt"?  What the fuck is that?  What kind of slimy little communist shit twinkle-toed cockersucker job is that about?

[garbon]

The important part is, is he happy with the situation? If her lack of sex drive doesn't bother him kudos for him. If it does, however, either it's counseling with a sexologist or him sleeping with other women.

A truly asexual person (and not someone witholding sex for control issues) should allow the person to seek sex somewhere else, within bounds that both agree with, or be willing to let him/her go. Otherwise it is really unfair for the other partner, as sex is an integral part of a relationship and he shouldn't be paying for something that is vital to a viable relationship.

Let them go? Are they trapped?

No shit.  People are making this sound like some sort of contractual obligation.  WTF is wrong with you over-rationalizing fucksticks?  What are you, lawyers?

Apparently you should only enter a relationship if you plan to be together forever.

[garbon]

"In the few times as an agony aunt or in my other work I have had questions about it, people often feel incredibly secretive about it because it's so rare," says Spurr.

And what the fuck kind of fucked-up British term is that, anyway?  What kind of fucked up profession is "agony aunt"?  What the fuck is that?  What kind of slimy little communist shit twinkle-toed cockersucker job is that about?

advice columnist

[CountDeMoney]

"In the few times as an agony aunt or in my other work I have had questions about it, people often feel incredibly secretive about it because it's so rare," says Spurr.

And what the fuck kind of fucked-up British term is that, anyway?  What kind of fucked up profession is "agony aunt"?  What the fuck is that?  What kind of slimy little communist shit twinkle-toed cockersucker job is that about?

advice columnist

Very well, then.  Carry on.

[Ideologue]

You mean to suggest there is more to their "cuddling" and "kissing" then they let on?

I guess their cuddling could be more interactive than the standard definition, especially if they don't want to be overly detailed or graphical in their description of what they do.

If she's not at least sucking dick, she's a bad person.  There, I said it, and I'd say it again if I had to.

You don't have to be into it to do it right.  It's simply technical.  No asked you to like brushing your teeth either.