Question for breeders: why the freak out over cheating?

[Caliga]

I recently saw a movie as well.  It takes place a long, long time ago.  Since there are a lot of history buffs here who know about weaponry, I was wondering - is it really true that a trained guy with a laser sword can deflect bullets from a laser gun?

Yes.

[Ed Anger]

I recently saw a movie as well.  It takes place a long, long time ago.  Since there are a lot of history buffs here who know about weaponry, I was wondering - is it really true that a trained guy with a laser sword can deflect bullets from a laser gun?

Yes.

No. Order 66. The Jedi scum couldn't deflect massed fire. Jedi sympathizer. 

Now that is some nerdy shit.

[Siege]

I realize I cannot speak for everyone, but infidelity is the only unpardonable sin in a relationship I can think of offhand. I would cast out a woman who betrayed my faith in such a way, and so would most people I know, male and female.

Word.

[garbon]

I realize I cannot speak for everyone, but infidelity is the only unpardonable sin in a relationship I can think of offhand. I would cast out a woman who betrayed my faith in such a way, and so would most people I know, male and female.

Word.

I wouldn't bind myself with such silly notions. I wouldn't want to be faithful so why would I expect that of him?

[Siege]

Having some personal experience in this, I didn't cheat, she did; with me  :wink:

You were fucking a woman that went back to his home and fucked another man??
Disgusting.
How many miles do you think she had?
Don't you realize she probably/likely did the same thing to you already?

[dps]

There are things called "emotional bonds".  You wouldn't understand.

Indeed. When one is paying a "lover", one can't really demand exclusivity as said lover pays his bills from the generosity of many.

Foot, meat scrotum. 

meat?

Spam.  Not really meat, exactly, but kinda sorta a replica.

[Siege]

Funny how western men think having a chick cheat on her husband with him is some kind of achievement.

I got news for you: You just picked a whore.

[garbon]

I got news for you: You just picked a whore.

Ain't nothing wrong with that. Presumably she'd have some skills.

[Caliga]

Spam.  Not really meat, exactly, but kinda sorta a replica.

I prefer to think of spam as "meat, meet modernity."

[Neil]

Funny how western men think having a chick cheat on her husband with him is some kind of achievement.

I got news for you: You just picked a whore.

I got news for you:  It isn't the bronze age anymore.  You know that weapon you use?  It means that your belief system is wrong.

[Drakken]

I'd think even Marti would understand the animal instincts of reproduction in breeders : that men freak out about their girl cheating with another man because it instinctively opens the door to rearing children not of their genes. If she did it once, it implies that she might have done it before. Plus, a girl cheating is a girl not respecting you or your manhood.

Also, in literature men that have been cheated often describe being disgusted from having sex with their partner if she has cheated on them. One word used often is "polluted". So in these guys, there a biological reaction that makes them, at first, rebute the idea of sex with her.

Girls freak out about men cheating when they spend money and time on them, in other words, resources not spend on them or their future children. In general women are more forgiving of men having one-night stands, but that doesn't mean that all will go well if she learned that Don Draper-wannabee sleeps with his secretaries. Women love to feel their man can attract other women - as long as he doesn't cross the fence or chase around in her face.

In other words, for women emotional cheating = more bad than sexual cheating alone. For men any cheating is bad, period, unless the guy is into candaulism.

Want a good movie about how men can freak out about adultery? Watch Unfaithful by Adrian Lyne. Richard Gere is powerful in that movie, even if Chabrol's La Femme Adultère was better.

I am waiting for your seduction-community arse jokes, now.

[Siege]

I agree with Dragon boy.

[garbon]

I agree with Dragon boy.

His imputing notions to biology is funny when so much of what he says has a large psychological component.

Oh and then, of course his infantile presentation of women.

[Siege]

[Tonitrus]

I agree with Dragon boy.

His imputing notions to biology is funny when so much of what he says has a large psychological component.

Oh and then, of course his infantile presentation of women.

If you think his presentation of women is infantile, then so is his presentation of men.