Be careful what you post on Facebook

[Caliga]

I just discovered in a rather roundabout way using FB that a friend of mine's fiancee is cheating on him.  No, I will not be sharing his/her name with any of you who are friended to me.

[Grey Fox]

Tease!

Die!

Spit it out, asshole. or you know, is she hot?

[Malthus]

I just discovered in a rather roundabout way using FB that a friend of mine's fiancee is cheating on him.  No, I will not be sharing his/her name with any of you who are friended to me.

Pics? 

[Darth Wagtaros]

Tell him. 

[PRC]

How can you be positive?

[Caliga]

Not intended to be a tease, really.

But here's the method by which discovery occurred: the guy she is cheating with just opened an FB account and posted an album of pics of the two of them.  One of the pics had another girl in it (all three were in this photo) who I happen to be friended to.  Therefore, that photo showed up on my news feed.  With Facebook, if a photo gets dropped onto your news feed then you are also granted rights to view the entire associated album even if you aren't friended to that person.

[Caliga]

Tell him.

Done already.  My loyalty is to him.  She's a nice enough girl but she's been torturing him lately and would give him no reason why... like she made him move out of their house a few months ago without giving him a concrete explanation.

[frunk]

Sounds like it was headed south anyway.

[Martinus]

I think it's less the case of "be careful what you post" (since she didn't post it) but be careful who you are friends with on Facebook.

[Caliga]

Sounds like it was headed south anyway.

Oh, it was, but she was not giving him concrete reasons why, like I said... and he was beating himself up trying to figure out what he'd done and what he could do, if anything, to make things right.

[Barrister]

Tell him.

Done already.  My loyalty is to him.  She's a nice enough girl but she's been torturing him lately and would give him no reason why... like she made him move out of their house a few months ago without giving him a concrete explanation.

When a women forces you to move out the relationship is *over*.  Why does your buddy think they still were in a relationship?

[Caliga]

Dude, I have no idea, but he kept saying "I don't know what's happening", "I don't know what's happening", and so forth.  Well, now he knows.

[Barrister]

Dude, I have no idea, but he kept saying "I don't know what's happening", "I don't know what's happening", and so forth.  Well, now he knows.

He's not very bright I'm guessing.

[Caliga]

He's not very bright I'm guessing.

Actually he is, but some people are blinded by love.

I have to say that, when he first told me about the problems a month or so ago, my first thought was that she was cheating, but of course I had no evidence or anything.

[Caliga]

How can you be positive?

There are multiple pics of them embracing, etc. with comments from his friends like "dude when can I meet her" and stuff.