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Started by Martinus, May 04, 2011, 02:53:05 PM

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Caliga

#30
May 04, 2011, 03:18:43 PM
Can't you just be friends?  Gay dudes can be friends and not have to fuck... or so I've heard. :hmm:
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Valmy

#31
May 04, 2011, 03:19:20 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:15:41 PM
Yeah well. True. However - and this probably have no bearing on my decision, but anyway - how do people here feel about a situation like this? Do most people react like Valmy or is this reaction born out of ignorance? I hear people who live with HIV positive partners and unless you share needles or engage in unprotected anal or oral sex, you can't get it so is there really a fear of contracting HIV from your partner out of these situations?

Frankly I would not want a partner that I could not have unprotected sex with.  But it is a personal preference.  It is not exactly a noble thing but we all cannot be noble all the time.  After all we reject people as sexual partners for far more petty reasons than getting a horrible disease and do not feel bad about it.

That is what this is about right?  Not simply being friends with the guy?
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Slargos

#32
May 04, 2011, 03:19:53 PM
Quote from: Caliga on May 04, 2011, 03:18:43 PM
Can't you just be friends?  Gay dudes can be friends and not have to fuck... or so I've heard. :hmm:

:rolleyes:



Now imagine Sal is a tranny, and there you go.

Valmy

#33
May 04, 2011, 03:20:54 PM
Quote from: Fireblade on May 04, 2011, 03:18:31 PM
Marcin just got his test results back.

IT'S AIDS!

You dick :lol:
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Caliga

#34
May 04, 2011, 03:21:01 PM
"I'll have what the Swedish nazi kitchen salesman is having."
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Fireblade

#35
May 04, 2011, 03:22:26 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:21:12 PM
Quote from: Caliga on May 04, 2011, 03:18:43 PM
Can't you just be friends?  Gay dudes can be friends and not have to fuck... or so I've heard. :hmm:

Yeah, we will still be friends. But then, from experience, if you are into someone and they tell you that you should be just friends, it rarely ends up that way. I was on the receiving end once and told that once to someone - each time, it ended up in resentment.

Aren't you always on the receiving end?

Valmy

#36
May 04, 2011, 03:23:55 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:22:07 PM
I wonder what I would do if I tested HIV positive, to be honest. It's not such a death sentence these days, but it is still shitty.

Well yeah getting herpes is not a death sentence either but I sure am not having sex with somebody who has it.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Slargos

#37
May 04, 2011, 03:25:19 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:22:56 PM
Quote from: Fireblade on May 04, 2011, 03:22:26 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:21:12 PM
Quote from: Caliga on May 04, 2011, 03:18:43 PM
Can't you just be friends?  Gay dudes can be friends and not have to fuck... or so I've heard. :hmm:

Yeah, we will still be friends. But then, from experience, if you are into someone and they tell you that you should be just friends, it rarely ends up that way. I was on the receiving end once and told that once to someone - each time, it ended up in resentment.

Aren't you always on the receiving end?

Nope. Believe it or not but I had guys fall in love with me, and I wasn't into them. :P

He was making teh funneh Catcher comment.  :secret:

garbon

#38
May 04, 2011, 03:25:24 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:19:42 PM
Ok. That's what I was looking for. Could you elaborate? I admit I am quite ignorant and the internet/google is not the best place to look for the information as it can be so contradictory. You probably know more about the issue/are better educated than other people who have posted.

Well I don't suffer from hypochondria. :P  But I guess I figure HIV is pretty prevalent in this community and I always take the precautions that I can.  However, given that many positive individuals don't state that they are positive, it seems odd to me to sleep with the liars but not with the honest ones.  The risk is still there even if not admitted. 

That said though, if a person isn't comfortable with sleeping with people they know to have HIV (/have a relationship with someone with a eventually debilitating disease), they should be free to make that choice as well.  I'd suggest, as has been said on here, simply to let him know the truth. It won't be nice and easy, but it is what it is.
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Habbaku

#39
May 04, 2011, 03:25:57 PM
So, Martinus wants back into TBR, yet still won't apologize?

:lol:
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Valmy

#40
May 04, 2011, 03:28:15 PM
Quote from: Martinus on May 04, 2011, 03:24:59 PM
Considering about 40-60% of the adult populace has herpes, you probably already had. It is the most common cause of cervix cancer (and throat and anus cancer for those of us into these things).

Maybe but I have not had sex with that many people :blush:
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

DGuller

#41
May 04, 2011, 03:28:30 PM
Can I get into TBR if I apologize on behalf of Martinus? :unsure:

MadImmortalMan

#42
May 04, 2011, 03:29:06 PM
Quote from: DGuller on May 04, 2011, 03:28:30 PM
Can I get into TBR if I apologize on behalf of Martinus? :unsure:

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Valmy

#43
May 04, 2011, 03:29:14 PM Last Edit: May 04, 2011, 03:31:09 PM by Valmy
Quote from: DGuller on May 04, 2011, 03:28:30 PM
Can I get into TBR if I apologize on behalf of Martinus? :unsure:

I am not sure if I can tolerate you posting all that Obama porn.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

The Brain

#44
May 04, 2011, 03:30:30 PM
Quote from: DGuller on May 04, 2011, 03:28:30 PM
Can I get into TBR if I apologize on behalf of Martinus? :unsure:

You and me can have a mini-TBR through PMs. It will be like the kids' zoo but instead of little cuddly animals it will have little personal questions and revelations. :)
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