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Started by Korea, March 10, 2009, 06:24:26 AM

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Josquius

In a bar in Tokyo.
The distance has left me observing how out of whack things are in Japan.
The traditional stereotype of it being the land where the ugliest of guys can score with beautiful women is of course a nonsense.
But. There is something to it.
Someone who is a 5 back home might find upon travelling to Asia that they are suddenly a 9. Features like a big nose which give a - 2 at home can give a +1 here. Blue eyes, a neutral at home, is also +1. Ginger hair which is a incel maker in blighty provides "pussy on a plate" as one more vulgar than myself would say.

Equally too a local girl who in Europe would find herself a solid 10 might only be regarded as a 7 here. Their bar for chubbiness is ridiculous (even medically overweight is), the facial features people like are quite different. See the nose thing.
Hence a European 5 and a Japanese 5 will end up together and both will think they're shooting out of their league.

Nonetheless.... I look around and this isn't always so. There are some really pretty terrible looking guys (shorts at night? When out with a girl? Come on. I don't dress well but.... Come on)  with hot girls. And equally some guys who I'd judge to be attractive as best I can with some really rather terrible looking women.

Of course. This is all just shallow surface stuff. There could be an amazing personality match there. Or maybe they're just good friends and not a couple at all.

But really the entire system seems quite upended when it comes to dealing with different races. It's curious. I'd love to see science have a crack at it.
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Jacob


derspiess

Quote from: Tyr on May 15, 2018, 08:21:55 AM
But really the entire system seems quite upended when it comes to dealing with different races. It's curious. I'd love to see science have a crack at it.

Yeah, it's pretty interesting.  I remember a few years ago in the Netherlands listening to my two Argentine brothers in law ripping on Dutch women for being too tall and not having wide enough hips.  I started arguing with them until I realized the awkwardness of my position.
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Jacob

Quote from: Tyr on May 15, 2018, 08:21:55 AM
But really the entire system seems quite upended when it comes to dealing with different races. It's curious. I'd love to see science have a crack at it.

Perhaps the 1-10 system you use is not objective, but rather a subjective abstraction based on a wide range of cultural, social, and personal idiosyncrasies. Different things are fashionable in different parts of the world.

Eddie Teach

I don't think there's any doubt that ratings of people's looks are subjective.
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Habbaku

Indeed. I'm a 9.5, but the cruelty of the world doesn't accept my totally objective system.
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Jacob

Quote from: Eddie Teach on May 16, 2018, 12:49:54 PM
I don't think there's any doubt that ratings of people's looks are subjective.

Yeah I agree. Which makes it pretty un-mysterious why someone who's a 10 in one place may be a 5 in another and vice versa.

Malthus

Not entirely subjective though. Such things as "symmetrical features", "youthful looking" and "unblemished skin" tend to be more or less universally attractive.
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alfred russel

Quote from: Malthus on May 16, 2018, 01:06:48 PM
Not entirely subjective though. Such things as "symmetrical features", "youthful looking" and "unblemished skin" tend to be more or less universally attractive.

I'm universally screwed apparently. Maybe I should have worn sunscreen after all. :(

At least maybe the cancer will come before I get too ugly.
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Admiral Yi

I thought you were quite pretty Fredo.

Habbaku

AR, did you actually end up going through with the hair transplant/replacement thing? How did that go if you did do it?
The medievals were only too right in taking nolo episcopari as the best reason a man could give to others for making him a bishop. Give me a king whose chief interest in life is stamps, railways, or race-horses; and who has the power to sack his Vizier (or whatever you care to call him) if he does not like the cut of his trousers.

Government is an abstract noun meaning the art and process of governing and it should be an offence to write it with a capital G or so as to refer to people.

-J. R. R. Tolkien

alfred russel

Quote from: Admiral Yi on May 16, 2018, 02:50:59 PM
I thought you were quite pretty Fredo.

I guess I blew my chance with the Yister. :(

Habbaku, Yi can fill you in.
They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety.

There's a fine line between salvation and drinking poison in the jungle.

I'm embarrassed. I've been making the mistake of associating with you. It won't happen again. :)
-garbon, February 23, 2014

Admiral Yi

I didn't even think about hair plugs, so resounding success I'd say.