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Title: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:17:39 PM
I'm not overly keen on the pics, but then, I'm not overly keen on the same things with women in them. I prefer less posed portraits of real people, rather than overly posed pictures of very pretty people.

Pics can be found here. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/19/nir-arieli_n_3767849.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular)

QuoteAre you sick of art history's obsession with the gentle beauty of a female muse? Enough of these beautiful women with coy glances, flowing locks and milky soft skin -- we're ready for the men.

Nir Arieli's portrait series "Men" places men in traditionally feminine spaces and postures, illuminating the human characteristics that have, over time, become decidedly feminine traits. The following male muses are making us wish men felt free to explore their feminine sides more often. Behold, 11 reasons men should get in touch with a softer self. Read more about Arieli below.

"In my work I try to expose a component of masculinity that was once oppressed by common social codes," Arieli wrote in an email to The Huffington Post. "Gentleness, uncensored emotion, vulnerability –- all of these became, under the influence of the social evolution, unnatural characteristics when manifested by men."

For his subjects, Arieli selects men who freely exhibit characteristics normally reserved for feminine territory. "They do it unapologetically and shamelessly, almost proclaiming a new forthcomingness," Arieli explained.

It's a large leap from Arieli's initial photography endeavor, serving as a military photographer for an Israeli magazine. With their gentle palettes and soft gazes, Arieli's "Men" emanate a tenderness not normally associated with masculinity. After gushing over this series, we're beginning to question why that is.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Capetan Mihali on August 20, 2013, 06:19:00 PM
 :hmm:  Troll? 

:P
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.

Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: mongers on August 20, 2013, 06:39:57 PM
Arse, I clicked on the link; now I'm gonna have to clear my interwebs cache and the NSA have forever added another tag to my profile.  :(
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.

Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:

That's sexist.  You know better than that.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Grallon on August 20, 2013, 06:46:33 PM
Number 7 - Mike - sweet little thing.




G.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Queequeg on August 20, 2013, 06:48:03 PM
Gay.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: derspiess on August 20, 2013, 06:48:05 PM
Is joke, yes?
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: MadImmortalMan on August 20, 2013, 06:55:53 PM
Most of them don't look particularly feminine to me. They generally have strong, square jawlines, eyes not too far apart, some facial hair etc.


Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Caliga on August 20, 2013, 06:55:56 PM
This thread needs implants.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.

Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:

That's sexist.  You know better than that.

Of course I do. The artist, however, doesn't appear to.

Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: MadImmortalMan on August 20, 2013, 06:59:48 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM

Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

It's like "nigga". Blacks can use it but whites can't.    :P
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Admiral Yi on August 20, 2013, 07:01:53 PM
Quote from: MadImmortalMan on August 20, 2013, 06:55:53 PM
Most of them don't look particularly feminine to me. They generally have strong, square jawlines, eyes not too far apart, some facial hair etc.

Wide-set eyes is a girly thing?
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: derspiess on August 20, 2013, 07:06:47 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Of course I do. The artist, however, doesn't appear to.

Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

Duh.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Phillip V on August 20, 2013, 07:11:21 PM
Meh. Did not find them "gorgeous".
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Ideologue on August 20, 2013, 08:10:40 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.

Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:

That's sexist.  You know better than that.

Of course I do. The artist, however, doesn't appear to.

Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

Yes, because of heteronormativity and shit.

Pictures make me hate my nose.  Thanks.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: garbon on August 20, 2013, 08:44:20 PM
I'm not a fan of the feminine side of masculinity and I'd say that #2 isn't feminine. That's just a man on a floral quilt.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.
Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:
That's sexist.  You know better than that.
No, that's correct.  A real man should never cry, unless they're tears of joy after personally winning the Superbowl.  Even then, it's a bit much.  Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: derspiess on August 20, 2013, 10:56:48 PM
Correct.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Barrister on August 20, 2013, 11:02:31 PM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.
Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:
That's sexist.  You know better than that.
No, that's correct.  A real man should never cry, unless they're tears of joy after personally winning the Superbowl.  Even then, it's a bit much.  Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.

Sure thing Lettow-san.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: PRC on August 20, 2013, 11:12:21 PM
David?
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Neil on August 20, 2013, 11:24:37 PM
Quote from: Barrister on August 20, 2013, 11:02:31 PM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.
Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:
That's sexist.  You know better than that.
No, that's correct.  A real man should never cry, unless they're tears of joy after personally winning the Superbowl.  Even then, it's a bit much.  Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.
Sure thing Lettow-san.
But I didn't say anything about the South or Japan or how much I like the idea of crippled girls?  I just told the people what it is to be a man, just as my father showed me.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Barrister on August 20, 2013, 11:34:39 PM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 11:24:37 PM
Quote from: Barrister on August 20, 2013, 11:02:31 PM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:44:19 PM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:37:46 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 20, 2013, 06:33:14 PM
Why are they all crying?  Gay.
Because it's feminine to cry. :cry:
That's sexist.  You know better than that.
No, that's correct.  A real man should never cry, unless they're tears of joy after personally winning the Superbowl.  Even then, it's a bit much.  Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.
Sure thing Lettow-san.
But I didn't say anything about the South or Japan or how much I like the idea of crippled girls?  I just told the people what it is to be a man, just as my father showed me.

Telling people what is and is not "proper" based on 19th century standards sounds very much like something Lettow would say.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: CountDeMoney on August 21, 2013, 06:01:58 AM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.

I dunno about that; I certainly didn't feel womanly or gay showing my emotions whenever I broke a phone in the office, threw my coffee mug or punched dents in metal filing cabinets.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Legbiter on August 21, 2013, 07:12:06 AM
Gay.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 08:25:33 AM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

Well it depends on the context.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: merithyn on August 21, 2013, 08:29:31 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 08:25:33 AM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

Well it depends on the context.

Explain, please. :)
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 08:43:52 AM
Quote from: merithyn on August 21, 2013, 08:29:31 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 08:25:33 AM
Quote from: merithyn on August 20, 2013, 06:57:29 PM
Okay, so question. Is it an insult to call a man feminine?

Well it depends on the context.

Explain, please. :)

If I was trying to seduce a woman and she said 'you are so feminine, it is like hanging out with the girls' I would not take it as a compliment.

Not that that ever happened or anything.  It was a friend.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: PDH on August 21, 2013, 09:02:09 AM
Quote from: Neil on August 20, 2013, 10:54:57 PM
No, that's correct.  A real man should never cry, unless they're tears of joy after personally winning the Superbowl.  Even then, it's a bit much.  Showing emotion isn't proper, it's the sort of thing that women or gays do.

I don't know.  That final battle scene in Glory brought a tear to my eye.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 09:04:52 AM
Quote from: PDH on August 21, 2013, 09:02:09 AM
I don't know.  That final battle scene in Glory brought a tear to my eye.

Tears because the South won something are ok.
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: CountDeMoney on August 21, 2013, 09:08:53 AM
Quote from: PDH on August 21, 2013, 09:02:09 AM
I don't know.  That final battle scene in Glory brought a tear to my eye.

That's why I don't go to movie theaters that often: [spoiler] the waterworks come too easy when it comes to movies.[/spoiler] :unsure: :ph34r: :unsure:
Title: Re: Gorgeous portraits captures feminine side of masculinity
Post by: Valmy on August 21, 2013, 09:28:34 AM
One of the reasons I love going to sporting events is because the weird psychology of being in a big mob heightens the emotions.  I find myself doing all sorts of things like tears up a bit when the band marches out of the field  :lol:  :blush: