15 Things Gay Men Need To Stop Doing

[garbon]

And of course that leads to the following: can we stop justifying our distaste for other brown bodies with the phrase "it's not racist, it's just a preference"? Because like, if you have to preface what you're saying with "it's not racist" then it is definitely racist!

In an article filled with brilliance, this particular nugget stands out above the rest.

Yeah that bit was a doozie.

[Neil]

I don't think that one would generally turn down a fat person, at say a bar, by rudely commenting that you don't like fat people - so why should it be done online?

Really?  That totally sounds like something you would do, unless maybe the fat guy was really rich.

Well you don't know me that well.

I've read thousands of your posts on Languish.  Cruelty and childishness do seem to be in your wheelhouse, although not so much as Martinus perhaps.

[garbon]

I don't think that one would generally turn down a fat person, at say a bar, by rudely commenting that you don't like fat people - so why should it be done online?

Really?  That totally sounds like something you would do, unless maybe the fat guy was really rich.

Well you don't know me that well.

I've read thousands of your posts on Languish.  Cruelty and childishness do seem to be in your wheelhouse, although not so much as Martinus perhaps.

I think my statement stands if you think I'd do something like that.

[Eddie Teach]

Garbon would probably save the fat gibe for the recounting at the office next day.

[Siege]

I like Jennifer Lawrence and she is fat.

Does this makes me a good guy?

[Neil]

I don't think that one would generally turn down a fat person, at say a bar, by rudely commenting that you don't like fat people - so why should it be done online?

Really?  That totally sounds like something you would do, unless maybe the fat guy was really rich.

Well you don't know me that well.

I've read thousands of your posts on Languish.  Cruelty and childishness do seem to be in your wheelhouse, although not so much as Martinus perhaps.

I think my statement stands if you think I'd do something like that.

People often think of themselves as being better than they actually are.

[Viking]

I like Jennifer Lawrence and she is fat.

Does this makes me a good guy?

No, it just means you can't tell the difference between "Hollywood Fat" (i.e. has natural non-A cup boobs) and "Real World Fat" (i.e. has natural D cup boobs)

[Eddie Teach]

I don't get the hoopla around Jennifer Lawrence. She's ordinary-looking and not just in the chest.

[Valmy]

8) Getting mad or defensive if somebody calls you “girl” or “gurl.” Yes, I know you have a penis and yes I know you are not a girl you party pooping sour puss. Gay men calling each other “girl” is a term of affection, not unlike how all those hot straight white guys roaming free call each other bro.

I hardly think those are comparable.  It would be more like if Lesbians were supposed to tolerate being called 'bro'.  Of course those straight white guys who call each other 'bro' are sorta douchey but that is another issue...

[garbon]

People often think of themselves as being better than they actually are.

Except that isn't what is being discussed here. We are discussing whether or not I would tell someone to their face that I found them unattractive because they are fat. That simply wouldn't happen and I've never done so.

[Neil]

People often think of themselves as being better than they actually are.

Except that isn't what is being discussed here. We are discussing whether or not I would tell someone to their face that I found them unattractive because they are fat. That simply wouldn't happen and I've never done so.

So you're a terrible person on the internet, but a soft touch in real life?

[katmai]

I don't get the hoopla around Jennifer Lawrence. She's ordinary-looking and not just in the chest.

You know how i know you are gay?

[garbon]

People often think of themselves as being better than they actually are.

Except that isn't what is being discussed here. We are discussing whether or not I would tell someone to their face that I found them unattractive because they are fat. That simply wouldn't happen and I've never done so.

So you're a terrible person on the internet, but a soft touch in real life?

No.

[katmai]

I'm sure he's equally terrible in real life.

I mean if Seedy likes him...

[Eddie Teach]

I don't get the hoopla around Jennifer Lawrence. She's ordinary-looking and not just in the chest.

You know how i know you are gay?

Because I like girls who are pretty?