Please explain the fascination with anal

[Martinus]

Why wow just wow?

Pain and humiliation work as powerful sexual triggers for a lot of people. I'm personally more into the latter than the former, but it's a fact.

It's a bit disingenuous to start an unbashed thread about anal sex and then be so judgemental about other people's sexual behaviours.

[Fate]

You're under the false impression that symmetry is required or even desired in these matters.

Penetrative sex by definition is a power imbalance. We've been wired this way since the evolution of the phallus.

[Grey Fox]

The pain can be erotic if you want it to be. A big part of the woman enjoying anal sex is knowing her man is having a blast. If all you're focused on is how uncomfortable it is and hoping it ends as soon as possible, of course you aren't going to have a good time.

Wow. Just.. wow.

And what does a man ever do during sex that's painful simply because he knows that his woman is having a blast?

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

[merithyn]

Why wow just wow?

Pain and humiliation work as powerful sexual triggers for a lot of people. I'm personally more into the latter than the former, but it's a fact.

It's a bit disingenuous to start an unbashed thread about anal sex and then be so judgemental about other people's sexual behaviours.

Fate stated that as if ALL women should be so generous, if they're just willing to put their men before their own pain.

What individuals do in their own house is up to them. I couldn't care less. But he wasn't talking about individuals. He was talking blanket statement that if women were just more giving and less selfish, anal sex would be good for them.

[Fate]

That's pretty much the case. If you really love him you'd relax your sphincter.

[merithyn]

You're under the false impression that symmetry is required or even desired in these matters.

Penetrative sex by definition is a power imbalance. We've been wired this way since the evolution of the phallus.

Of course. Sex is for men. What was I thinking?

[merithyn]

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

Honest question: Is that physically painful? I've heard that it was uncomfortable, but I've never heard painful.

[Grey Fox]

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

Honest question: Is that physically painful? I've heard that it was uncomfortable, but I've never heard painful.

2nd part for me is. It's probably not as bad has kidney stone pain tho.

[Fate]

You're under the false impression that symmetry is required or even desired in these matters.

Penetrative sex by definition is a power imbalance. We've been wired this way since the evolution of the phallus.

Of course. Sex is for men. What was I thinking?

Please, woman. Have you ever been properly dominated? The act of releasing control ain't just pleasurable for the man.

[merithyn]

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

Honest question: Is that physically painful? I've heard that it was uncomfortable, but I've never heard painful.

2nd part for me is. It's probably not as bad has kidney stone pain tho.

That's really good to know. Thanks, GF.

[derspiess]

Pain and/or humiliation never did anything for me, but that probably surprises no one.

[The Brain]

Pain and/or humiliation never did anything for me, but that probably surprises no one.

Why are you on Languish?

[Grey Fox]

Holding back Ejaculation, not stoping after it.

Honest question: Is that physically painful? I've heard that it was uncomfortable, but I've never heard painful.

2nd part for me is. It's probably not as bad has kidney stone pain tho.

That's really good to know. Thanks, GF.

Don't say, I feel like I just told this to my mom.

[Martinus]

Holding back ejaculation can be painful.

[CountDeMoney]

I don't know. 75% of the pain certainly isn't in my head.

It's all well and good to say that there are nerves there that make it worthwhile. That doesn't mean that those nerves negate the pain involved. In fact, I'd argue that they are a major reason for the pain...

You just haven't been trained properly.