Please explain the fascination with anal

Started by merithyn, March 28, 2013, 08:36:31 AM

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The Brain

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garbon

Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:37:59 AM
Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:37:10 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:31:47 AM
Quote from: derspiess on March 28, 2013, 10:17:28 AM
there's really nothing in it for her.

:console:

Well there is that whole bother with the lack of prostate stimulation back there.

tiny cock joke

I know but I was being serious as a large one won't do much either besides causing more pain.
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Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:38:41 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:37:59 AM
Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:37:10 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:31:47 AM
Quote from: derspiess on March 28, 2013, 10:17:28 AM
there's really nothing in it for her.

:console:

Well there is that whole bother with the lack of prostate stimulation back there.

tiny cock joke

I know but I was being serious as a large one won't do much either besides causing more pain.

Whatever, serious garbon.
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Malthus

Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:38:41 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:37:59 AM
Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:37:10 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:31:47 AM
Quote from: derspiess on March 28, 2013, 10:17:28 AM
there's really nothing in it for her.

:console:

Well there is that whole bother with the lack of prostate stimulation back there.

tiny cock joke

I know but I was being serious as a large one won't do much either besides causing more pain.

Hey, it's the Brain you are talking to - the location of the prostate in relation to anal probably varies by species.  :P
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The Brain

Quote from: Malthus on March 28, 2013, 10:46:29 AM
Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:38:41 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:37:59 AM
Quote from: garbon on March 28, 2013, 10:37:10 AM
Quote from: The Brain on March 28, 2013, 10:31:47 AM
Quote from: derspiess on March 28, 2013, 10:17:28 AM
there's really nothing in it for her.

:console:

Well there is that whole bother with the lack of prostate stimulation back there.

tiny cock joke

I know but I was being serious as a large one won't do much either besides causing more pain.

Hey, it's the Brain you are talking to - the location of the prostate in relation to anal probably varies by species.  :P

Anal is for perverts.
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Martinus

Quote from: merithyn on March 28, 2013, 08:36:31 AM
I don't get it. Is it because it's still kind of taboo, so far as anything is taboo anymore? Is it because only a certain percentage of the population allow it that makes it so desireable?

Why is it The Big Thing?

Dunno. I hate it.

On the passive side, it's painful, uncomfortable and makes you feel like you are shitting backwards.

On the acitve side it's gross.

Martinus

#51
Quote from: merithyn on March 28, 2013, 09:11:29 AM
Is there a similar "level of commitment" for guys?

Judging from Shameless, it's anal penetration with a dildo.

Speaking of which, biologically, anal penetration of a guy makes more sense because guys at least have a prostate so there is something to stimulate down there.


Fate

#52
Anal stimulation makes sense regardless of gender. We all have the same somatic innervation via the pudendal nerve.

And the posterior vaginal wall is continuous with the anterior rectal wall.

Martinus

Quote from: Caliga on March 28, 2013, 10:20:33 AM
As Money said, some chicks like it though.

But is this a physical thing or a psychological thing?

I mean, some people like to be peed or shat upon, but it's not like the stimulation is physical, but rather psychological.

Fate

Quote from: Martinus on March 28, 2013, 11:21:58 AM
Quote from: Caliga on March 28, 2013, 10:20:33 AM
As Money said, some chicks like it though.

But is this a physical thing or a psychological thing?

I mean, some people like to be peed or shat upon, but it's not like the stimulation is physical, but rather psychological.

Like with most things sexual its 75% in the head.

CountDeMoney

Quote from: Fate on March 28, 2013, 11:23:22 AM
Quote from: Martinus on March 28, 2013, 11:21:58 AM
Quote from: Caliga on March 28, 2013, 10:20:33 AM
As Money said, some chicks like it though.

But is this a physical thing or a psychological thing?

I mean, some people like to be peed or shat upon, but it's not like the stimulation is physical, but rather psychological.

Like with most things sexual its 75% in the head.

Yup.

merithyn

Quote from: Fate on March 28, 2013, 11:23:22 AM

Like with most things sexual its 75% in the head.

I don't know. 75% of the pain certainly isn't in my head.

It's all well and good to say that there are nerves there that make it worthwhile. That doesn't mean that those nerves negate the pain involved. In fact, I'd argue that they are a major reason for the pain...
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I met a man who wasn't there
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I wish, I wish he'd go away...

Fate

The pain can be erotic if you want it to be. A big part of the woman enjoying anal sex is knowing her man is having a blast. If all you're focused on is how uncomfortable it is and hoping it ends as soon as possible, of course you aren't going to have a good time.

The Brain

Women want me. Men want to be with me.

merithyn

Quote from: Fate on March 28, 2013, 11:41:59 AM
The pain can be erotic if you want it to be. A big part of the woman enjoying anal sex is knowing her man is having a blast. If all you're focused on is how uncomfortable it is and hoping it ends as soon as possible, of course you aren't going to have a good time.

:mellow:

Wow. Just.. wow.

And what does a man ever do during sex that's painful simply because he knows that his woman is having a blast?
Yesterday, upon the stair,
I met a man who wasn't there
He wasn't there again today
I wish, I wish he'd go away...