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Started by Phillip V, April 26, 2009, 11:45:06 PM

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Phillip V

April 26, 2009, 11:45:06 PM
I came back today after a pleasant weekend in Newport, RI. Believe it or not, the Army has "relationship training", and I was paid to spend three days of active duty in Newport; accommodation at the Mariott Hotel, a rental vehicle, meals, gas, etc. were also covered.

The "Strong Bonds" program is run by Army Chaplains. There were under 40 attendees, of which 90% were middle-aged. I found 3 other Soldiers who were 30 or under. I was the youngest. However, I always enjoy listening and interacting with older people, soaking in their wisdom and mistakes. It is why I am happiest when on duty and away from  the bubble of school where drinking, smoking, and hookups are the only way you can have a conversation.

I forget sometimes the power of youth. I was tired and did not put on a fresh face at all times, but the old people in my 7-person group still generated energy and enthusiasm from my presence and declared me their MVP. We did a 3-hour scavenger hunt around Newport. It was nothing to me, but there was this 40-something woman who just had a blast as she said she had not been out in years.

In any case, it was an all-round enjoyable event. I believe very deeply in the need for strong relationships, especially with the stresses of military life. I have deferred relationships since late high school until I have disposable time and income, but life is not worth it unless you have partner to share it with. It is unfortunate so much time and money is thrown into our education system, but there is nary a class on relationships (or personal finance and economics).

Never did I dream that I would be going to the bar/club each night on an Army weekend. Newport closes early, though (1 AM). There was a wedding at the hotel, and I crashed the after-party. The guest were all white, so when asked, I said I was "Bob's adopted son".

At the club (forgot girl on my neck; wanted old man):


A view from the hotel:


Some of my scavenger hunt team:


A "relationship exercise":

Siege

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April 26, 2009, 11:49:11 PM
I think I know you, dude.

What's your MOS? Are you in a SBCT?



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Alcibiades

#2
April 26, 2009, 11:52:13 PM
Huh..... shoulda been a pogue..... :mellow:
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HVC

#3
April 26, 2009, 11:52:58 PM
Quote from: Phillip V on April 26, 2009, 11:45:06 PM

A "relationship exercise":

You met Tiger Woods! :P
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Phillip V

#4
April 26, 2009, 11:54:47 PM
Quote from: Siege on April 26, 2009, 11:49:11 PM
I think I know you, dude.

What's your MOS? Are you in a SBCT?
Doubt it.

25B (Signal). No.
I am a weekend warrior (for now).

Phillip V

#5
April 26, 2009, 11:56:06 PM
Quote from: Alcibiades on April 26, 2009, 11:52:13 PM
Huh..... shoulda been a pogue..... :mellow:
We all do our part. :)

Ed Anger

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April 27, 2009, 06:36:40 AM
Quote(forgot girl on my neck; wanted old man)

:lol:
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Caliga

#8
April 27, 2009, 06:52:17 AM
 :lol: Holy crap... I was thinking he looked like somebody, but y'all are right on with Tiger Woods.
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Josquius

#9
April 27, 2009, 09:00:49 AM
The army sure aint what it used to be....
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Siege

#10
April 28, 2009, 10:29:11 PM
Quote from: Phillip V on April 26, 2009, 11:54:47 PM
Quote from: Siege on April 26, 2009, 11:49:11 PM
I think I know you, dude.

What's your MOS? Are you in a SBCT?
Doubt it.

25B (Signal). No.
I am a weekend warrior (for now).

You are Tiger Woods!!!!!1111



"All men are created equal, then some become infantry."

"Those who beat their swords into plowshares will plow for those who don't."

"Laissez faire et laissez passer, le monde va de lui même!"

FunkMonk

#11
April 28, 2009, 10:59:17 PM
I never get to do anything fun like that.  :cry:
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Viking

#12
April 28, 2009, 11:01:50 PM
Damn, you're almost the identical twin of an east timorese colleague of mine in australia.
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Second Maxim - "Be willing to exchange a bad idea for a good one."
Second Corollary - "You can only be wrong or agree with me."

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#13
April 29, 2009, 01:55:14 AM
QuoteI came back today after a pleasant weekend in Newport, RI. Believe it or not, the Army has "relationship training", and I was paid to spend three days of active duty in Newport; accommodation at the Mariott Hotel, a rental vehicle, meals, gas, etc. were also covered.

What's it suppose to do?
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#14
April 29, 2009, 02:10:53 AM
So who's the chick trying to kiss you there?
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