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Started by Caliga, August 06, 2009, 11:12:34 AM

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Drakken

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Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:05:49 AM
Quote from: Drakken on August 07, 2009, 09:51:48 AM
It's much more than that. It's so easy getting rejected by women, there is no challenge into that. You'd learn nothing even if you got rejected by 100 women in one night (makes a decent challenge between friends, though).

Remember who the target audience is, guys who have NO CLUE on how to be confident approaching women and talk to them: How to approach a woman without putting pressure on her, how to talk to her, how to control your body language, how to tease and flirt, and so on. For them it takes practice.

Well, I guess I was never one of those guys. For most guys (or at least for me), the big, scary barrier is the fear of rejection, exacerbated by all of the societal paranoia about male violence/offensiveness. Get over that and you are more or less home free (at least, to get women more or less as hot as yourself). Thus, forcing yourself to get over rejection would be a useful exercise.

But before thinking of having a fulfilling relationship, one must start by actually have relationships.

Most young men (or at least, those who aspire to become PUAs or an ego boost by shagging as many women as possible) don't want to get in women who are 6-7s only, they want also to get in the panties of the 9-10s. They don't want to content themselves with someone more or less good-looking, but the most good-looking ones. Which is fine, at first, when your start to become sexually active. But it does remains rather... shallow.

For those seeking to settle down and find a more fulfilling relationship based on much more than just how fucking awesome-looking the woman is, however, you are totally right.

Malthus

Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:11:36 AM
Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:05:49 AM
exacerbated by all of the societal paranoia about male violence/offensiveness.

This one was a HUGE hang up for me.  I had enormous guilt about having the irrepresible urge to bang chicks hard all day and night.  I remember my first week at college there was this big presentation about rape and how awful we men are.  Thanks for destroying my college experience assholes.

Fortunately my urge to bang chicks wasn't going to be put off for long by a little thing like that.  ;)
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane—Marcus Aurelius

Drakken

Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:18:56 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:11:36 AM
Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:05:49 AM
exacerbated by all of the societal paranoia about male violence/offensiveness.

This one was a HUGE hang up for me.  I had enormous guilt about having the irrepresible urge to bang chicks hard all day and night.  I remember my first week at college there was this big presentation about rape and how awful we men are.  Thanks for destroying my college experience assholes.

Fortunately my urge to bang chicks wasn't going to be put off for long by a little thing like that.  ;)

You should have raised your hand and asked "well, don't women fantasize and actually want to be raped anyway?"

Valmy

Quote from: Drakken on August 07, 2009, 10:20:21 AM
You should have raised your hand and asked "well, don't women fantasize and actually want to be raped anyway?"

One girl said that men cannot help it, they all would rape if they were drunk and had a drunk woman at their disposal.  I was like "what?  That is fucking bullshit."  And then after getting my balls busted for a bit I decided it wasn't worth the effort.

I should have had more fun with it but I took things too seriously at 18.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Valmy

Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:18:56 AM
Fortunately my urge to bang chicks wasn't going to be put off for long by a little thing like that.  ;)

Oh I tried but the guilt always had me trying to pretend I wasn't trying to get sex...which sorta undermined all my efforts.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

DisturbedPervert

Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:47:42 AM
One girl said that men cannot help it, they all would rape if they were drunk and had a drunk woman at their disposal.  I was like "what?  That is fucking bullshit."  And then after getting my balls busted for a bit I decided it wasn't worth the effort.

I should have had more fun with it but I took things too seriously at 18.

You should have offered her a drink.

jimmy olsen

Quote from: Drakken on August 07, 2009, 10:20:21 AM
Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:18:56 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:11:36 AM
Quote from: Malthus on August 07, 2009, 10:05:49 AM
exacerbated by all of the societal paranoia about male violence/offensiveness.

This one was a HUGE hang up for me.  I had enormous guilt about having the irrepresible urge to bang chicks hard all day and night.  I remember my first week at college there was this big presentation about rape and how awful we men are.  Thanks for destroying my college experience assholes.

Fortunately my urge to bang chicks wasn't going to be put off for long by a little thing like that.  ;)

You should have raised your hand and asked "well, don't women fantasize and actually want to be raped anyway?"

Have you ever read one of those harlequin romance novels that women read? Packed with semi-consensual sex in which the heroine's body betrays her and causes her to fall in love with the main guy... or at least that's what I hear. :ph34r:
It is far better for the truth to tear my flesh to pieces, then for my soul to wander through darkness in eternal damnation.

Jet: So what kind of woman is she? What's Julia like?
Faye: Ordinary. The kind of beautiful, dangerous ordinary that you just can't leave alone.
Jet: I see.
Faye: Like an angel from the underworld. Or a devil from Paradise.
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1 Karma Chameleon point

Valmy

Quote from: jimmy olsen on August 07, 2009, 10:54:09 AM
Have you ever read one of those harlequin romance novels that women read? Back with semi-consensual sex in which the heroine's body betrays her and causes her to fall in love with the main guy... or at least that's what I hear. :ph34r:

Girls are total pervs.  They don't teach you that as a young guy.

There is no sick perversion some woman has not written a wank fest story about in the internet somewhere.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Malthus

Quote from: DisturbedPervert on August 07, 2009, 10:52:45 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:47:42 AM
One girl said that men cannot help it, they all would rape if they were drunk and had a drunk woman at their disposal.  I was like "what?  That is fucking bullshit."  And then after getting my balls busted for a bit I decided it wasn't worth the effort.

I should have had more fun with it but I took things too seriously at 18.

You should have offered her a drink.

:lmfao:
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane—Marcus Aurelius

Drakken

Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:55:36 AM
Quote from: jimmy olsen on August 07, 2009, 10:54:09 AM
Have you ever read one of those harlequin romance novels that women read? Back with semi-consensual sex in which the heroine's body betrays her and causes her to fall in love with the main guy... or at least that's what I hear. :ph34r:

Girls are total pervs.  They don't teach you that as a young guy.

There is no sick perversion some woman has not written a wank fest story about in the internet somewhere.

I've never read a woman's writing on hot, rough, nasty sex over a wargaming map of the War of the Pacific yet. :perv:

Valmy

Quote from: DisturbedPervert on August 07, 2009, 10:52:45 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:47:42 AM
One girl said that men cannot help it, they all would rape if they were drunk and had a drunk woman at their disposal.  I was like "what?  That is fucking bullshit."  And then after getting my balls busted for a bit I decided it wasn't worth the effort.

I should have had more fun with it but I took things too seriously at 18.

You should have offered her a drink.

:thumbsup:
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

Malthus

Quote from: jimmy olsen on August 07, 2009, 10:54:09 AM
Have you ever read one of those harlequin romance novels that women read? Packed with semi-consensual sex in which the heroine's body betrays her and causes her to fall in love with the main guy... or at least that's what I hear. :ph34r:

Lots of women are into rape fantasy. There is of course a world of difference between rape fantasy and actual rape.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane—Marcus Aurelius

jimmy olsen

Quote from: DisturbedPervert on August 07, 2009, 10:52:45 AM
Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 10:47:42 AM
One girl said that men cannot help it, they all would rape if they were drunk and had a drunk woman at their disposal.  I was like "what?  That is fucking bullshit."  And then after getting my balls busted for a bit I decided it wasn't worth the effort.

I should have had more fun with it but I took things too seriously at 18.

You should have offered her a drink.
:lmfao: POTM
It is far better for the truth to tear my flesh to pieces, then for my soul to wander through darkness in eternal damnation.

Jet: So what kind of woman is she? What's Julia like?
Faye: Ordinary. The kind of beautiful, dangerous ordinary that you just can't leave alone.
Jet: I see.
Faye: Like an angel from the underworld. Or a devil from Paradise.
--------------------------------------------
1 Karma Chameleon point

Valmy

Quote from: Drakken on August 07, 2009, 10:57:32 AM
I've never read a woman's writing on hot, rough, nasty sex over a wargaming map of the War of the Pacific yet. :perv:

I would google that but I fear what I might find.
Quote"This is a Russian warship. I propose you lay down arms and surrender to avoid bloodshed & unnecessary victims. Otherwise, you'll be bombed."

Zmiinyi defenders: "Russian warship, go fuck yourself."

jimmy olsen

Quote from: Valmy on August 07, 2009, 11:02:28 AM
Quote from: Drakken on August 07, 2009, 10:57:32 AM
I've never read a woman's writing on hot, rough, nasty sex over a wargaming map of the War of the Pacific yet. :perv:

I would google that but I fear what I might find.

You know you want to.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/
It is far better for the truth to tear my flesh to pieces, then for my soul to wander through darkness in eternal damnation.

Jet: So what kind of woman is she? What's Julia like?
Faye: Ordinary. The kind of beautiful, dangerous ordinary that you just can't leave alone.
Jet: I see.
Faye: Like an angel from the underworld. Or a devil from Paradise.
--------------------------------------------
1 Karma Chameleon point