Rape Obsessed Polish Lawyer Banned From Forum - why don't "Liberals" complain?

[Ed Anger]

We need a Sulla.

Is that Emma Watson in an SS uniform? 

Yes.

[Razgovory]

She looks kinda like she drowned in it.

[The Minsky Moment]

His job is legit.  I mean, the law firm has a photo of him on their web page. 

"radca prawny"
I think it means he prepares crustaceans for other lawyers.

[Jacob]

His job is legit.  I mean, the law firm has a photo of him on their web page. 

"radca prawny"
I think it means he prepares crustaceans for other lawyers.

Surely it means he's a radical prawn?

[OttoVonBismarck]

I view kind and sensitive person as a pretty good modern day insult, I think it's a catch all term for any Social Justice Warrior betamale, the kind who would come home and catch his wife pulling a train and wring his hands while he "supported her sexual liberation."

My understanding of the historical use of the term cuckold is it's any man whose wife cheats on him, that act "cuckolds" him. The idea that it's someone who gets off on watching his wife get fucked by other dudes is, I think, 100% a porn thing.

I think cuckold traditionally was seen as very negative--and even applied to men who were unawarepf the infidelity (but others knew of it.)

[OttoVonBismarck]

I am actually really intrigued by the idea that this is a real thing. I find odd fetishes kind of fascinating.

Is it just part of the typical American puritanism that results in fascination with "wrong" expressions of sexuality? Or is there a shame/humiliation thing to it? Always, sometimes?

There are a lot of kinks out there, and plenty of them I think "That is weird, but I can understand the appeal". Then there are those that are "That is weird, and I really do not understand that at all".

This definitely falls into the latter. But apparently it is actually a real thing...?

Sometimes I wonder if fetish's like this are more a matter of people wanting it to be a thing - ie, people find kind and sensitive person porn exciting, even if there really aren't many people who are truly into the fetish itself.

There's a shit ton of rape porn, and it's thing women and men are both into. I don't think essentially any woman wants to actually be raped and I still have enough faith in humanity that I think the immense majority of men have no genuine desire to rape someone. Sexual fantasies don't necessarily have to map to what you'd really like at all.

[Berkut]

I am actually really intrigued by the idea that this is a real thing. I find odd fetishes kind of fascinating.

Is it just part of the typical American puritanism that results in fascination with "wrong" expressions of sexuality? Or is there a shame/humiliation thing to it? Always, sometimes?

There are a lot of kinks out there, and plenty of them I think "That is weird, but I can understand the appeal". Then there are those that are "That is weird, and I really do not understand that at all".

This definitely falls into the latter. But apparently it is actually a real thing...?

Sometimes I wonder if fetish's like this are more a matter of people wanting it to be a thing - ie, people find kind and sensitive person porn exciting, even if there really aren't many people who are truly into the fetish itself.

There's a shit ton of rape porn, and it's thing women and men are both into. I don't think essentially any woman wants to actually be raped and I still have enough faith in humanity that I think the immense majority of men have no genuine desire to rape someone. Sexual fantasies don't necessarily have to map to what you'd really like at all.

Yep, I very much agree - incest porn is a thing as well, and I sure as hell hope that is just because the porn part of it is exciting to people, not because there are really people out there who want to nail their sister.

I think it all comes to down the attraction of the forbidden.

[fromtia]

I am actually really intrigued by the idea that this is a real thing. I find odd fetishes kind of fascinating.

oh it's totally a thing. It belongs in the realm of swinging, but it's a very specific fetish. It is an interesting one , because this is an outcome that heterosexual men are supposed to dread and fear but , ingenious humans we can sexualize just about anything! 

Apparently the source of the fetish can be sexualizing and eroticizing the feared event, and also ( and I like this explanation) can stem from a conviction that ones (female) partner conceals the full extent of their libidinous abandon from their mate and said abandon can only be discovered by witnessing it from the perspective of an observer.

Because Yanks are weird, they seem to have developed an entire sub genre of cuckolding porn (and apparently practice) that involves race, and theres an ocean of race themed cuckold porn. Fascinating. 

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[quote author=OttoVonBismarck link=topic=14062.msg991973#msg991973 date=1467157533

My understanding of the historical use of the term cuckold is it's any man whose wife cheats on him, that act "cuckolds" him.
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Yeah, that's what the word actually means;  as you mentioned, it doesn't matter if a man knows that his wife cheating on him or not, it's her infidelity in and of itself that makes him a cuckold.  I wasn't really aware of the porn fetish usage of the term.  Seems like a strange choice for an insult term either way--the word is pretty archaic as far as its original usage is concerned, rather esoteric as far as the fetish usage.  It would be more confusing than insulting to most people, I think--you'd probably know that you'd been insulted from the context, but not be sure exactly what the insult meant.  Until Marti posted the term here, I'd never seen or heard of "kind and sensitive person" as a shortened form of cuckold;  at first I thought he meant "cock" and had made a typo.

[Jaron]

We want Martinus reinstated! Unban him!

[garbon]

We want Martinus reinstated! Unban him!

Nah, we're chill.

[Jaron]

We want Martinus reinstated! Unban him!

Nah, we're chill.

Sir, you can file your minority report elsewhere. The rest of us want him back on this forum.

[Ed Anger]

Meh.

[Monoriu]

Are we going to decide this by referendum? 

[Ed Anger]

Trial by combat.