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General Category => Off the Record => Topic started by: Razgovory on December 12, 2012, 08:39:47 PM

Poll
Question: Which is the proper response?
Option 1: Confront them and get them away from my drive way votes: 4
Option 2: Get in the car and wait passivly agressively till they leave. votes: 3
Option 3: Just stand there and glare at them. votes: 0
Option 4: Hide in the house till they leave and come back and drive away votes: 0
Option 5: Ignore them and back out of the driveway anyway. votes: 5
Title: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Razgovory on December 12, 2012, 08:39:47 PM
A few hours ago I had to drive to the store and pick up a few things.  Unfortunately there was a hitch.  When I came outside I found two people standing in the middle of the street and in front of the driveway chatting.  They apparently were walking dogs, as they both had a dog on a leash.  I suppose it's also possible they were dog thieves and had stolen the dogs or the dogs were the ones running show and they were walking the people.  It was dark and kinda hard to see, but it was my impression that they had been walking the dogs and decided to stop and talk.  I imagine they probably lived in the neighborhood but, I don't know any of the neighbors.  Anyway, the point is I was blocked in the drive way and couldn't leave.  I wasn't sure what to do in such a position, and of course didn't have time to ask Languish.  So I'll ask now and find out if my response was appropriate.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Admiral Yi on December 12, 2012, 08:44:22 PM
A light tap on the horn.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Tonitrus on December 12, 2012, 08:48:34 PM
Start backing/driving out slowly until you are noticed...most people, if they're of decent character, will take note that they are being a impedance, and politely move out of the way.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Ed Anger on December 12, 2012, 08:50:20 PM
Pull out my 9 and open fire.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Grey Fox on December 12, 2012, 08:51:07 PM
Shotgun blast to the face of the furthest one away. Next move is either blasting the other or a dog, it's up to you.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Razgovory on December 12, 2012, 08:53:56 PM
Well I have been trying broaden my response patterns beyond "Fight or Flight".  My social worker told me that hiding from the mail man is not a productive use of my time.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Josquius on December 12, 2012, 08:57:58 PM
Give them a few seconds and try indicating them and the driveway with just your eyes. If they don't get the point that the car stopped right by them wants to park then open the window and say excuse me. No big deal.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Caliga on December 12, 2012, 08:59:58 PM
Quote from: Ed Anger on December 12, 2012, 08:50:20 PM
Pull out my 9 and open fire.
Also known as "the American response". :showoff:
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: DGuller on December 12, 2012, 09:09:06 PM
The answer depends on what kind of car you have.  Not every car can effortlessly roll over a body.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Sheilbh on December 12, 2012, 09:24:41 PM
Hover by the car until they move. If they don't then say something like 'sorry, but do you mind if I just reverse out'. If that doesn't work: panic.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: PDH on December 12, 2012, 09:48:15 PM
Get in the car and back slowly toward them.  If they refuse to move, use the horn.  If they still refuse to move try the "Star Spangled Banner" on the horn.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Razgovory on December 12, 2012, 10:41:56 PM
For some reason I keep thinking that Shelf's avatar is a chicken.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: CountDeMoney on December 12, 2012, 10:44:19 PM
Well?  What did you do? Or are you still in the car, waiting for them?
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: HVC on December 12, 2012, 11:16:36 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on December 12, 2012, 10:44:19 PM
Well?  What did you do? Or are you still in the car, waiting for them?
he walked home :P
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: MadImmortalMan on December 12, 2012, 11:53:24 PM
They probably just moved as soon as they noticed he was preparing to leave. A confrontation of some type would be funnier though.  :P
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: Razgovory on December 13, 2012, 12:15:11 AM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on December 12, 2012, 10:44:19 PM
Well?  What did you do? Or are you still in the car, waiting for them?

Oh I went with glaring.  This seemed to work despite it being dark.  It did occur to me that this might fall under the "Weird and creepy" category which I'm suppose to be avoiding.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: CountDeMoney on December 13, 2012, 07:26:38 AM
Quote from: HVC on December 12, 2012, 11:16:36 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on December 12, 2012, 10:44:19 PM
Well?  What did you do? Or are you still in the car, waiting for them?
he walked home :P

:lol:
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: mongers on December 13, 2012, 07:33:20 AM
As your walk to car "Hi, there" in a friendly tone or "excuse me" as you open the car door.
But then I don't mind addressing strangers, and can appreciate others might have issues over this.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: CountDeMoney on December 13, 2012, 07:40:05 AM
Quote from: mongers on December 13, 2012, 07:33:20 AM
As your walk to car "Hi, there" in a friendly tone or "excuse me" as you open the car door.
But then I don't mind addressing strangers, and can appreciate others might have issues over this.

You don't live in America, man.  You just don't do that shit.

"Hi, there!"
"Muthafucka, you don't know me!"


*gunshots*
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: mongers on December 13, 2012, 07:57:16 AM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on December 13, 2012, 07:40:05 AM
Quote from: mongers on December 13, 2012, 07:33:20 AM
As your walk to car "Hi, there" in a friendly tone or "excuse me" as you open the car door.
But then I don't mind addressing strangers, and can appreciate others might have issues over this.

You don't live in America, man.  You just don't do that shit.

"Hi, there!"
"Muthafucka, you don't know me!"


*gunshots*

Yeah, sometimes that scene from National Lampoons European Vacation with the guy apologising for being run over by the car is nearer the truth over here, than that.
Title: Re: Adventures in Social Etiquette!
Post by: garbon on December 13, 2012, 09:32:36 AM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on December 13, 2012, 07:40:05 AM
Quote from: mongers on December 13, 2012, 07:33:20 AM
As your walk to car "Hi, there" in a friendly tone or "excuse me" as you open the car door.
But then I don't mind addressing strangers, and can appreciate others might have issues over this.

You don't live in America, man.  You just don't do that shit.

"Hi, there!"
"Muthafucka, you don't know me!"


*gunshots*

:hmm: