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Title: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: The Larch on December 15, 2011, 08:42:40 AM
QuoteNUS: Students turning to prostitution to fund studies

Greater numbers of students in England are turning to prostitution to fund their education, the National Union of Students (NUS) claims.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522)


QuoteNearly 20% of women in the US are raped, study reveals

Nearly 20% of women in the US are raped or suffer attempted rape at some point in their lives, a US study says.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192494 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192494)
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: CountDeMoney on December 15, 2011, 08:44:00 AM
At least there's no butter shortage.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Ideologue on December 15, 2011, 08:51:51 AM
QuoteNUS: Students turning to prostitution to fund studies

    Greater numbers of students in England are turning to prostitution to fund their education, the National Union of Students (NUS) claims.

What's so sad?  There's something to be said for developing real skills in a growth industry.  And with paid training!
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Ed Anger on December 15, 2011, 08:52:59 AM
Why buy an English bird when there are those skinny Eastern Euro chicks around?

Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Syt on December 15, 2011, 08:56:54 AM
Quote from: Ed Anger on December 15, 2011, 08:52:59 AM
Why buy an English bird when there are those skinny Eastern Euro chicks around?

Don't have to be English nationals, could be Eastern European exchange students.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Gups on December 15, 2011, 09:13:54 AM
Quote from: The Larch on December 15, 2011, 08:42:40 AM
QuoteNUS: Students turning to prostitution to fund studies

Greater numbers of students in England are turning to prostitution to fund their education, the National Union of Students (NUS) claims.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522)


Seems to be based solely on calls from students to some fringe organisation doubling from ? to 2x?

Dooesn't depress me much.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Josquius on December 15, 2011, 09:15:46 AM
Number 1 isn't necessarily sad. Are they street walking or just escorting?
We really should adopt the Dutch system there (and in other things). Stupid government.

Number 2 of course is a different league.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 09:38:45 AM
I thought students were supposed to become strippers to fund their studies?  They go hardcore in the UK.

I guess it depends on how you classify rape.  If we are talking about getting involuntarily felt up or something like that as attempted rape then I guess that number is lower than I would have expected perhaps things are getting better.  If we are talking like violent rape, or drugings and that sort of thing, then that is a very depressing stat.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: HVC on December 15, 2011, 09:48:11 AM
Quote from: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 09:38:45 AM
I thought students were supposed to become strippers to fund their studies?  They go hardcore in the UK.
trend is increasing in Ontario too. Which is ironic because it's the government that forced them into it. Our strippers are now licensed and tracked (and often hassled) so no more incognito co-ed strippers.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: 11B4V on December 15, 2011, 10:14:28 AM
Quote from: The Larch on December 15, 2011, 08:42:40 AM
QuoteNUS: Students turning to prostitution to fund studies

Greater numbers of students in England are turning to prostitution to fund their education, the National Union of Students (NUS) claims.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-16157522)


QuoteNearly 20% of women in the US are raped, study reveals

Nearly 20% of women in the US are raped or suffer attempted rape at some point in their lives, a US study says.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192494 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192494)

I'd say one depressing story.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Jacob on December 15, 2011, 10:17:20 AM
Quote from: Ideologue on December 15, 2011, 08:51:51 AM
QuoteNUS: Students turning to prostitution to fund studies

    Greater numbers of students in England are turning to prostitution to fund their education, the National Union of Students (NUS) claims.

What's so sad?  There's something to be said for developing real skills in a growth industry.  And with paid training!

I guess you have a backup plan when this whole law thing fails to pan out for you.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Admiral Yi on December 15, 2011, 10:21:35 AM
I'm always deeply skeptical of these "huge numbers of women raped" stories.  A while back they were pushing the line that 1/3 of college women had been sexually assaulted.  Turns out they included "unwelcome sexual advances" in that category.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: The Larch on December 15, 2011, 10:26:26 AM
Quote from: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 09:38:45 AM
I thought students were supposed to become strippers to fund their studies?  They go hardcore in the UK.

They also do that in the UK, it seems:

QuoteThe NUS also told BBC 5 live Breakfast it estimated about 20% of women working in lap dancing clubs were students.

Anyway, I agree a bit with Gups regarding how beliveable it is, as there's no hard data. Some of the info quoted on the article is from a previous one about a study done by some professor, though, and there's some data on the issue:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/8568723.stm (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/8568723.stm)

Quote from: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 09:38:45 AMI guess it depends on how you classify rape.  If we are talking about getting involuntarily felt up or something like that as attempted rape then I guess that number is lower than I would have expected perhaps things are getting better.  If we are talking like violent rape, or drugings and that sort of thing, then that is a very depressing stat.

This is what I could find in their report:

QuoteRape is defined as any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal (for women), oral, or anal penetration through the use of physical force (such as being pinned or held down, or by the use of violence) or threats to physically harm and includes times when the victim was drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent. Rape is separated into three types, completed forced penetration, attempted forced penetration, and completed alcohol or drug facilitated penetration.
- -Among women, rape includes vaginal, oral, or anal penetration by a male using his penis. It also includes vaginal or anal penetration by a male or female using their fingers or an object.
- -Among men, rape includes oral or anal penetration by a male using his penis. It also includes anal penetration by a male or female using their fingers or an object.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:28:47 AM
Ah that is a very specific definition of rape.  That is really bad news it is still so high then.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Ideologue on December 15, 2011, 10:38:15 AM
Dislike wording of the definition.  I find it unclear.

Is it:

QuoteRape is defined as any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal (for women), oral, or anal penetration through the use of physical force (such as being pinned or held down, or by the use of violence) or threats to physically harm, including times when the above conditions are satisfied and when the victim was drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent.

Which is fine.  Vulnerability does not make a person an acceptable target of predation.

Or is it:

QuoteRape is defined as any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal (for women), oral, or anal penetration through the use of physical force (such as being pinned or held down, or by the use of violence) or threats to physically harm, as well as times when Rape is also inferred when the victim was unable to consent due to being drunk, high, drugged, or passed out.

Because then you're casting a very broad net.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:40:53 AM
Quote from: Admiral Yi on December 15, 2011, 10:21:35 AM
I'm always deeply skeptical of these "huge numbers of women raped" stories.  A while back they were pushing the line that 1/3 of college women had been sexually assaulted.  Turns out they included "unwelcome sexual advances" in that category.

Yes that is why I wanted to be clear on the definition.  If they only include actual acts of penetration then I can get on board.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Martinus on December 15, 2011, 10:42:27 AM
Quote from: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:40:53 AM
Yes that is why I wanted to be clear on the definition.  If they only include actual acts of penetration then I can get on board.

Wow. Just wow.  :huh:
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Ideologue on December 15, 2011, 10:44:15 AM
Anyway, has anyone ever seen Tape?  It's a great movie.  One-scene film.  Richard Linklater adapting a stage play, iirc.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:45:32 AM
Quote from: Martinus on December 15, 2011, 10:42:27 AM
Wow. Just wow.  :huh:

Ok what are you getting all hyperbolic and insane about now?  I just want a clear definition of what we are talking about when giving out stats like that.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Martinus on December 15, 2011, 10:47:52 AM
Quote from: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:45:32 AM
Quote from: Martinus on December 15, 2011, 10:42:27 AM
Wow. Just wow.  :huh:

Ok what are you getting all hyperbolic and insane about now?  I just want a clear definition of what we are talking about when giving out stats like that.

I find it disgusting that you would get on board with forcible penetration. I thought you had higher moral standards.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 10:49:25 AM
Quote from: Martinus on December 15, 2011, 10:47:52 AM
I find it disgusting that you would get on board with forcible penetration. I thought you had higher moral standards.

:lol:

Oh I meant onboard with accepting the stats on rape not onboard with forcible penetration. :blush:
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Richard Hakluyt on December 15, 2011, 10:51:06 AM
They are just asking for it unless they rig boarding-netting  :pirate
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Admiral Yi on December 15, 2011, 10:52:25 AM
If that 20% includes women who had sex while they were drunk or stoned that's not a real shocker.  Well, maybe a shocker that it's not much higher.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Richard Hakluyt on December 15, 2011, 10:53:51 AM
I assume it must mean incapably drunk, otherwise just about every adult in Britain has been raped at some time or another  :hmm:
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Ideologue on December 15, 2011, 10:56:25 AM
Quote from: Richard Hakluyt on December 15, 2011, 10:51:06 AM
There are just asking for it unless they rig boarding-netting  :pirate

The Implication.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ar9spNzOFPk (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ar9spNzOFPk)

:)
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: DGuller on December 15, 2011, 11:41:29 AM
What if a woman is so smitten by you that she's essentially unable to think clearly, and give informed consent?  Is it still rape?  :unsure:
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Valmy on December 15, 2011, 11:43:10 AM
Quote from: DGuller on December 15, 2011, 11:41:29 AM
What if a woman is so smitten by you that she's essentially unable to think clearly, and give informed consent?  Is it still rape?  :unsure:

I didn't mean to have sex!  I was uinder the influence of sexual arrousal!

I like it.
Title: Re: Two depressing sex related news from the UK and US
Post by: Eddie Teach on December 15, 2011, 11:56:05 AM
Quote from: DGuller on December 15, 2011, 11:41:29 AM
What if a woman is so smitten by you that she's essentially unable to think clearly, and give informed consent?  Is it still rape?  :unsure:

Stop worrying about things that are never gonna happen.  :P