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Title: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: garbon on April 24, 2011, 11:05:50 AM
I think this person is spending too much time thinking about sex and not enough time doing it. :lol:

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=7769528

QuoteI'm a 23-year-old male who is bi-curious/pan-curious/post-gender-curious. I have recently found myself attracted to penises, but I don't feel like I'm attracted to any specific men. If you showed me a cropped shot of a hard cock, I'd get aroused. If you showed me a picture of the whole guy, no arousal. Many of my friends are very into the post-gender/post-modern cultural-studies mind-set. In college, a time in my life when I felt no arousal looking at male genitalia, they mocked me for considering myself straight. I'm wondering if the disconnect of attraction toward the male sex organ but not men is the product of simply training myself to break down the assumed straightness I've spent most of my life living. I am fairly picky, but I meet many women I am attracted to. I really like the general idea of having sex with a guy, just not any specific one. Am I just trying to be a sexual tourist? Am I valuing queerness for the sake of it? Maybe my trepidation toward sex with a man is from the general societal constraints put on male-on-male loving?

Cock Observer Laments Disconnect

Quote from: DanOr maybe you're straight.

Lots of straight men like to look at cock, COLD, which is why there's so much cock on display in porn created by and for heterosexual men. Straight men can identify with those hard cocks and live vicariously through them. But very few straight guys—no truly straight guys, many straight guys would argue—make the leap from admiring and/or being vicariously aroused by cock to actually sitting on one and/or finding other men attractive.

Accept that you're straight, COLD, pursue the women you're attracted to, and stay the hell away from heterophobic post-gender/post-modern/pan-sexual cultural-studies majors whose immaturity, self-loathing, and anger all manifest in a refusal to accept that a good guy can also be a straight guy.

The start of Dan's response also strikes me as odd.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: The Brain on April 24, 2011, 11:09:05 AM
He's gay.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: LaCroix on April 24, 2011, 11:12:11 AM
Quote from: The Brain on April 24, 2011, 11:09:05 AM
He's gay.

maybe you're gay because you don't like to look at cock :hmm:
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: The Brain on April 24, 2011, 11:17:23 AM
You are gay.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Slargos on April 24, 2011, 11:22:53 AM
We are all gay.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: LaCroix on April 24, 2011, 11:24:58 AM
in the eyes of brain apparently :(
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: The Brain on April 24, 2011, 11:27:07 AM
Quote from: LaCroix on April 24, 2011, 11:24:58 AM
in the eyes of brain apparently :(

:console:
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Eddie Teach on April 24, 2011, 11:59:41 AM
Quote from: garbon on April 24, 2011, 11:05:50 AM
If you showed me a cropped shot of a hard cock, I'd get aroused.
Quote from: DanOr maybe you're straight.

He has an... interesting notion of what it means to be straight.  :hmm:
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Josephus on April 24, 2011, 12:10:43 PM
There is a lot of cock in porn. Too much cock.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: sbr on April 24, 2011, 12:20:56 PM
Quote from: Josephus on April 24, 2011, 12:10:43 PM
There is a lot of cock in porn. Too much cock.

:yes:
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: LaCroix on April 24, 2011, 12:23:33 PM
i haven't watched porn in years
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Siege on April 24, 2011, 02:27:30 PM
Quote from: Slargos on April 24, 2011, 11:22:53 AM
We are all gay.

I'm not gay.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Siege on April 24, 2011, 02:29:25 PM
Quote from: LaCroix on April 24, 2011, 11:24:58 AM
in the eyes of brain apparently :(

I have come to the conclussion that The Brain have no brain.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: C.C.R. on April 26, 2011, 05:54:26 PM
I like lesbian porn, and my favorite of all time was Women Who Love Themselves.  But I loaned it to somebody & never got it back...

:(
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Ideologue on April 26, 2011, 06:03:10 PM
I like cock in my porn.  That semen's not gonna shoot itself.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: CountDeMoney on April 26, 2011, 08:53:25 PM
The only cock I want to see in a porn better be a petroleum-based product and in a fucking strap-on harness.
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Ideologue on April 27, 2011, 12:59:44 AM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on April 26, 2011, 08:53:25 PM
The only cock I want to see in a porn better be a petroleum-based product and in a fucking strap-on harness.
Personally, I'm not that into pegging, but to each his own. :hmm:
Title: Re: Post-Gender-Curious
Post by: Caliga on April 27, 2011, 07:21:26 AM
Quote from: Ideologue on April 26, 2011, 06:03:10 PM
I like cock in my porn.  That semen's not gonna shoot itself.
:yes: