Post-Gender-Curious

[garbon]

I think this person is spending too much time thinking about sex and not enough time doing it.

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=7769528

I'm a 23-year-old male who is bi-curious/pan-curious/post-gender-curious. I have recently found myself attracted to penises, but I don't feel like I'm attracted to any specific men. If you showed me a cropped shot of a hard cock, I'd get aroused. If you showed me a picture of the whole guy, no arousal. Many of my friends are very into the post-gender/post-modern cultural-studies mind-set. In college, a time in my life when I felt no arousal looking at male genitalia, they mocked me for considering myself straight. I'm wondering if the disconnect of attraction toward the male sex organ but not men is the product of simply training myself to break down the assumed straightness I've spent most of my life living. I am fairly picky, but I meet many women I am attracted to. I really like the general idea of having sex with a guy, just not any specific one. Am I just trying to be a sexual tourist? Am I valuing queerness for the sake of it? Maybe my trepidation toward sex with a man is from the general societal constraints put on male-on-male loving?

Cock Observer Laments Disconnect

Or maybe you're straight.

Lots of straight men like to look at cock, COLD, which is why there's so much cock on display in porn created by and for heterosexual men. Straight men can identify with those hard cocks and live vicariously through them. But very few straight guys—no truly straight guys, many straight guys would argue—make the leap from admiring and/or being vicariously aroused by cock to actually sitting on one and/or finding other men attractive.

Accept that you're straight, COLD, pursue the women you're attracted to, and stay the hell away from heterophobic post-gender/post-modern/pan-sexual cultural-studies majors whose immaturity, self-loathing, and anger all manifest in a refusal to accept that a good guy can also be a straight guy.

The start of Dan's response also strikes me as odd.

[The Brain]

He's gay.

[LaCroix]

He's gay.

maybe you're gay because you don't like to look at cock

[The Brain]

You are gay.

[Slargos]

We are all gay.

[LaCroix]

in the eyes of brain apparently

[The Brain]

in the eyes of brain apparently

[Eddie Teach]

If you showed me a cropped shot of a hard cock, I'd get aroused.

Or maybe you're straight.

He has an... interesting notion of what it means to be straight. 

[Josephus]

There is a lot of cock in porn. Too much cock.

[sbr]

There is a lot of cock in porn. Too much cock.

[LaCroix]

i haven't watched porn in years

[Siege]

We are all gay.

I'm not gay.

[Siege]

in the eyes of brain apparently

I have come to the conclussion that The Brain have no brain.

[C.C.R.]

I like lesbian porn, and my favorite of all time was Women Who Love Themselves.  But I loaned it to somebody & never got it back...

[Ideologue]

I like cock in my porn.  That semen's not gonna shoot itself.