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Title: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 09, 2015, 02:04:12 AM
QuoteFrance is sending a gay ambassador to Vatican City

The Holy See is to receive its first ever openly gay ambassador in the form of France's Laurent Stefanini and not everybody's sure they're too thrilled about that

The smallest country in Europe and its only remaining absolute monarchy is about to get its first ever openly gay ambassador from another country.

Vatican City, home of the Holy See and headquarters of the global Catholic Church, is only 44 hectares (110 acres), and with a population of 842 is the smallest internationally recognized independent state in the world by both area and population.

Many countries which have large numbers of Catholics have diplomatic relations with it and to facilitate that they send ambassadors to the Vatican City State like they would any other country and France needs to fill a vacancy at it's Villa Bonaparte embassy in the Vatican.

France's Council of Ministers approved openly gay Laurent Stefanini to take over the role on 5 January but the position has been vacant since the departure of his predecessor Bruno Jouvert on 1 March leading many to wonder whether the hold up might be disapproval of Stefanini's appointment from the Vatican itself.

The Archbishop of Paris, Cardinal André Vingt-Trois and the former president of the Bishops' Conference of France have sent a letter to Pope Francis to support the French Government's choice of ambassador.

However according to a report by Swiss based BlastingNews.com, some members of the Roman Curia believe Stefanini's appointment is a provocation by the French Government and the president of French anti-gay marriage group Manif Por Tous, Ludovine LaRochere, has contacted the Apostolic Nuncio in Paris to object to his appointment.

A gay man in Vatican? Unthinkable!
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 07:46:45 AM
Yes but is he a catholic?
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:28:42 PM
Quote from: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 07:46:45 AM
Yes but is he a catholic?
Quote from: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 07:46:45 AM
Yes but is he a catholic?
Yes, but he is not confirmed as ambassador, despite being #2 there for a few years:
French text (http://www.lemonde.fr/religions/article/2015/04/09/le-pape-bloque-la-nomination-d-un-ambassadeur-de-france-gay_4612443_1653130.html)

Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: alfred russel on April 09, 2015, 03:39:27 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.

I suppose it is like being one of the other 99% of catholics that violate all sorts of rules on a regular basis, and then skip confession.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 03:41:00 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.

Not unlike a straight practicing catholic in France.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Caliga on April 09, 2015, 03:41:13 PM
Grouping gays, Catholics, and the French in with the Singularity is really going to piss Siege off, you know. :ph34r:
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 03:41:33 PM
Quote from: alfred russel on April 09, 2015, 03:39:27 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.

I suppose it is like being one of the other 99% of catholics that violate all sorts of rules on a regular basis, and then skip confession.

Yep. I mean this country was using birth control long before it was cool.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 03:41:47 PM
Quote from: Caliga on April 09, 2015, 03:41:13 PM
Grouping gays, Catholics, and the French in with the Singularity is really going to piss Siege off, you know. :ph34r:

:lol:
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 03:42:41 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:28:42 PM

Yes, but he is not confirmed as ambassador, despite being #2 there for a few years:

Well then I don't see why the Vatican is complaining then.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Siege on April 09, 2015, 07:38:11 PM
What the fuck is going on here!!!

Didn't we agree to accurately name threads to save fuckin time?
What the fuck has a Gay, a French, and a Catholic have in commun with the fuckin Singularity?

Fuck man, I fuckin promised myself that I was going to fuckin stop cursin in Languish, and look at the clusterfuck I have found.
Please name threads properly.
And stop using the fuckin singularity for EVERYTHING.
Fuck man, educate yourself in what the Singularity is.
Its not that fuckin hard!
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 08:05:07 PM
Quote from: alfred russel on April 09, 2015, 03:39:27 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.

I suppose it is like being one of the other 99% of catholics that violate all sorts of rules on a regular basis, and then skip confession.
I'm used to Quebec were most people don't practice their religion.  I guess it's different elsewhere.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Ed Anger on April 09, 2015, 08:33:59 PM
Quote from: Siege on April 09, 2015, 07:38:11 PM
What the fuck is going on here!!!

Didn't we agree to accurately name threads to save fuckin time?
What the fuck has a Gay, a French, and a Catholic have in commun with the fuckin Singularity?

Fuck man, I fuckin promised myself that I was going to fuckin stop cursin in Languish, and look at the clusterfuck I have found.
Please name threads properly.
And stop using the fuckin singularity for EVERYTHING.
Fuck man, educate yourself in what the Singularity is.
Its not that fuckin hard!

Lighten up Francis
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: 11B4V on April 09, 2015, 08:51:10 PM
Quote from: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 03:41:47 PM
Quote from: Caliga on April 09, 2015, 03:41:13 PM
Grouping gays, Catholics, and the French in with the Singularity is really going to piss Siege off, you know. :ph34r:

:lol:

Well I knew Siege was not Catholic or French. Didn't know he was gay. Learn something new everyday.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: 11B4V on April 09, 2015, 09:03:15 PM
Quote from: Siege on April 09, 2015, 07:38:11 PM
What the fuck is going on here!!!

Didn't we agree to accurately name threads to save fuckin time?
What the fuck has a Gay, a French, and a Catholic have in commun with the fuckin Singularity?

Fuck man, I fuckin promised myself that I was going to fuckin stop cursin in Languish, and look at the clusterfuck I have found.
Please name threads properly.
And stop using the fuckin singularity for EVERYTHING.
Fuck man, educate yourself in what the Singularity is.
Its not that fuckin hard!

Are you mad that they lumped you in with the Catholics and French?
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Eddie Teach on April 10, 2015, 04:55:07 AM
Quote from: Siege on April 09, 2015, 07:38:11 PM
And stop using the fuckin singularity for EVERYTHING.
Fuck man, educate yourself in what the Singularity is.
Its not that fuckin hard!

The Singularity is everything. Much like God, or the Universe.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 07:31:42 AM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 08:05:07 PM
I'm used to Quebec were most people don't practice their religion.  I guess it's different elsewhere.

No I am pretty sure the entire rest of the world is exactly like Quebec.

But you don't have any Catholics in name only in Quebec?
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:10:29 AM
I am wondering what the difference between "Catholics in name only" and "people who do not practice their own religion" is, by the way.

Incidentally, a situation like this is even more pronounced in countries like Poland, Italy or Ireland than in the US - since so many people are raised Catholic and participate in all "rite of passage" rituals in the Catholic church (birth = baptism; puberty = first communion; adulthood = confirmation; marriage; funeral) it is fairly common for someone to go to church and consider themselves Catholic while not following any of the tenets.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 08:13:28 AM
You have to ask Viper. I was just joking around about him being Catholic as a Frenchmen. Since so many of them go through the motions for cultural reasons. Then Viper started bringing up theological and ethical questions as if the overwhelming majority of French Catholics worry about that shit. Nobody in Quebec does this it seems.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Eddie Teach on April 10, 2015, 08:19:33 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:10:29 AM
Incidentally, a situation like this is even more pronounced in countries like Poland, Italy or Ireland than in the US - since so many people are raised Catholic and participate in all "rite of passage" rituals in the Catholic church (birth = baptism; puberty = first communion; adulthood = confirmation; marriage; funeral) it is fairly common for someone to go to church and consider themselves Catholic while not following any of the tenets.

There are plenty of Protestants who don't agree with the tenets of their church as well. The ones who stop considering themselves Christian generally stop going to church.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 08:26:34 AM
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on April 10, 2015, 08:19:33 AM
There are plenty of Protestants who don't agree with the tenets of their church as well.

Yep. And they justify themselves loudly on my Facebook. Man how annoying.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:33:40 AM
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on April 10, 2015, 08:19:33 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:10:29 AM
Incidentally, a situation like this is even more pronounced in countries like Poland, Italy or Ireland than in the US - since so many people are raised Catholic and participate in all "rite of passage" rituals in the Catholic church (birth = baptism; puberty = first communion; adulthood = confirmation; marriage; funeral) it is fairly common for someone to go to church and consider themselves Catholic while not following any of the tenets.

There are plenty of Protestants who don't agree with the tenets of their church as well. The ones who stop considering themselves Christian generally stop going to church.

Yeah and this is the difference I am talking about - in countries like Poland people continue going to the church and later bitch about stupid priests. Even more secular ones, who do not go to church each Sunday, tend to go on more important holidays (in addition to the said weddings, funerals, baptisms etc.).

In bigger cities, people also tend to practice "churching", i.e. attending the mass not in the church of their own parish, but in some nearby church where masses are more to their liking (e.g. because the priest is more liberal, or the mass is in Latin or whatnot).

I also assume that in the US people who feel more strongly about their spirituality but disagree with the denomination of their "birth" are more likely to convert to another Christian denomination - something like this is virtually unheard of in Poland.

Edit: Sorry, I misread your post. On the other hand there are also a lot of people in Poland who consider themselves Catholic but only go to Church like 3-4 times a year.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:39:40 AM
Catholicism in Poland is also more "invasive" - i.e. it tends to show up in your life even if you do not go to church.

For example, at least once a year (usually during the post-Christmas period) priests go on a tour of all homes in their parish (mainly to collect some donations). During that time they bless the house, say a prayer, give pictures of saints to kids etc. Again, this is more loose in big cities (you have to sign up each year in advance to have a priest come with a visit) but in smaller towns and villages priests have full data bases of all parishers and they show up whether invited or not and sometimes even set "minimum donations" for the "church roof" and the like. :P

Another example are religion lessons which are compulsory at school and are taught very frequently by a priest or a nun - you can instead opt out to have "ethics" lessons but this brands you as a heretic/atheist/infidel (and in some smaller schools the lessons are taught by the same priest/nun as the religion lessons :P). Poland actually lost a ECHR case because of this some time ago.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 08:43:56 AM
Woah ok that would be funny if they tried that in France. Well they probably do for some of the regions.

The family I stayed with in 1997 was very Catholic. Prayers before meals, no meat on Fridays, Saints days recognized and all that shit. I found it curious until I saw they their family was from the Vendee and they had all this stuff romanticizing the Catholic and Royal Army their ancestors fought in. Raz would have liked them.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:54:01 AM
Yeah, I wish we had the same approach to religion as France.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:55:45 AM
Speaking of which, I signed up for a course at Institute Francais and tomorrow I am starting my French lessons (haven't actively studied French for 20 years). Wish me luck. :frog:

The course is intermediate by the way (it was decided in a test - I was surprised how much of French I remembered after all these years).
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 08:56:53 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:55:45 AM
Speaking of which, I signed up for a course at Institute Francais and tomorrow I am starting my French lessons (haven't actively studied French for 20 years). Wish me luck. :frog:

Bon courage mon ami! :hug:
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:57:40 AM
Also, I graduated from high school 20 years ago. I'm old.  :(
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 08:58:40 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:57:40 AM
Also, I graduated from high school 20 years ago. I'm old.  :(

Me to!

And...me to :weep: I am noticing myself working out with extra effort these days. Like I am thinking this is my last chance to look youngish and hottish :blush:

Stupid midlife crisis.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:59:41 AM
I need to start taking hormones soon, so I don't grow old too fast.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: derspiess on April 10, 2015, 09:30:37 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:59:41 AM
I need to start taking hormones soon, so I don't grow old too fast.

Just don't take the wrong ones.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Valmy on April 10, 2015, 09:33:11 AM
Quote from: derspiess on April 10, 2015, 09:30:37 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:59:41 AM
I need to start taking hormones soon, so I don't grow old too fast.

Just don't take the wrong ones.

Homer! That medicine's not for you!

C'mon, Marge!  Maybe I'm not getting enough...[reads the label] estrogen.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: alfred russel on April 10, 2015, 01:57:34 PM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:33:40 AM

Yeah and this is the difference I am talking about - in countries like Poland people continue going to the church and later bitch about stupid priests. Even more secular ones, who do not go to church each Sunday, tend to go on more important holidays (in addition to the said weddings, funerals, baptisms etc.).

In bigger cities, people also tend to practice "churching", i.e. attending the mass not in the church of their own parish, but in some nearby church where masses are more to their liking (e.g. because the priest is more liberal, or the mass is in Latin or whatnot).

I also assume that in the US people who feel more strongly about their spirituality but disagree with the denomination of their "birth" are more likely to convert to another Christian denomination - something like this is virtually unheard of in Poland.

Edit: Sorry, I misread your post. On the other hand there are also a lot of people in Poland who consider themselves Catholic but only go to Church like 3-4 times a year.

A big difference is that being Catholic is tied into being Polish. There isn't the same dynamic in the US.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Sheilbh on April 10, 2015, 08:30:08 PM
Quote from: Martinus on April 10, 2015, 08:39:40 AM
Another example are religion lessons which are compulsory at school and are taught very frequently by a priest or a nun - you can instead opt out to have "ethics" lessons but this brands you as a heretic/atheist/infidel (and in some smaller schools the lessons are taught by the same priest/nun as the religion lessons :P). Poland actually lost a ECHR case because of this some time ago.
In my school in Scotland the local Minister from the Kirk used to come to do the odd religious education lesson or assembly. It always seemed like Batman as if a crucifix-light was turned on above the school because every time, a couple of minutes late the local Priest would arrive and remove the Catholic children for an appropriately Catholic lesson/assembly :lol:

We also had a small community of nuns. They would descend upon the hospital whenever a new Catholic was born. Once safely out of the maternity ward and at home, away from the more explicitly gynaecological, the priest would visit. I shamed my family when my little brother was born by mentioning that I liked Billy Connolly (a rather sweary Glaswegian comedian) and this withered 90 something Irish nun fixed me in her gaze and said 'now he's just vul-gar!'

QuoteIncidentally, a situation like this is even more pronounced in countries like Poland, Italy or Ireland than in the US - since so many people are raised Catholic and participate in all "rite of passage" rituals in the Catholic church (birth = baptism; puberty = first communion; adulthood = confirmation; marriage; funeral) it is fairly common for someone to go to church and consider themselves Catholic while not following any of the tenets.
I think that was dying out when I was growing up. I know church attendance was already down massively by that point so maybe my communities were strange but there were definitely people who'd grown up in the church and just continued going even after, say, their divorce and remarriage. And I still go from time to time.

And I think there was a slightly ethnic identity to Catholicism in the UK and probably the US which is different than exists in Poland or Italy or Ireland, but that the Catholic Church is part of what marks you out as Polish/Irish/Italian-American/British. When we moved to England from Scotland my family wouldn't go to the local Church because it had a big English flag which we found offensive so we'd go out of town. As it turns out that was because that priest had been appointed as someone who was particularly English, as the previous priest had routinely said memorial masses for Bobby Sands and other IRA hunger strikers :lol:

I also think the Church is onto a winner by having those rites of passage. For a start it makes parents go and not let their kids stop going until they've been confirmed at least (communion if they're liberal). But you have those formative experiences that kind of capture you when you're young and however far your beliefs move are still there. You remember dressing in a white shirt with a sash, or as a little bride for your First Holy Communion - or agonising over your confirmation name (even getting to choose another name was kind of cool). It gets the claws in you the way I imagine, say, a Bar Mitzvah does.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: dps on April 10, 2015, 11:33:38 PM
Quote from: viper37 on April 09, 2015, 03:29:48 PM
I do wonder how it is being a practicing catholic and gay.  Having sex with another man is a sin, so he either refrains from sex or he seeks confession on a regulard basis.  Or he is untrue to his Faith.

A gay friend of ours had a bit of a problem over this recently while at a restaurant.  He was praying before eating, and 2 of the restaurant employees, who apparently knew him well enough to know that he was gay, but hadn't known that he was Catholic, started criticizing him in front of other customers, telling him that he wasn't "allowed" be both Catholic and gay.  Interestingly, apparently they didn't have a problem with him being either of those, just with him being both.  He filed a complaint with the management;  I'm not sure what actions were taken against the employees, but the management did apologize to him about the incident.

He told my wife that he'd heard the same thing before, but it had been from both more conservative-type Catholics, and from other, more militant gays, but this was the first time he' heard it from people who were neither Catholic nor gay.

Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 11, 2015, 12:47:24 AM
Well, that's bizarre from the customer service perspective, but objectively I do agree that being gay and Catholic (especially devout enough to pray before a meal in a restaurant - something like this would be seen as extremely bizarre in Poland, for example) is not compatible (or at least would make me think less of a person like this).

As Sheilbh said, religious upbringing puts these hooks in you - and I think if there is one positive thing about being gay, it is the fact that it offers you a unique opportunity to disentangle yourself from these hooks (since after confirmation you essentially have no common ground with the church until you die). To try to get back and insist on being a part of a club that doesn't want you as a member is not just stupid but also demeaning.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: The Brain on April 11, 2015, 02:36:49 AM
Being gay is certainly better than being Catholic.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 11, 2015, 05:11:57 AM
Quote from: The Brain on April 11, 2015, 02:36:49 AM
Being gay is certainly better than being Catholic.

I don't know about better but definitely more fun. Especially if you are the Pope.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Caliga on April 11, 2015, 06:32:56 AM
I wonder if the current Pope is gay.  He seems less faggy than Benedict to me. :hmm:
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: grumbler on April 11, 2015, 08:35:54 AM
Quote from: Caliga on April 11, 2015, 06:32:56 AM
I wonder if the current Pope is gay.  He seems less faggy than Benedict to me. :hmm:

You put that so delicately.  I'm sure our gay members appreciate that.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Caliga on April 11, 2015, 10:09:33 AM
They know I love them all. :sleep:
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: grumbler on April 11, 2015, 01:32:31 PM
Quote from: Caliga on April 11, 2015, 10:09:33 AM
They know I love them all. :sleep:

TMI, butterfly.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Tonitrus on April 11, 2015, 02:20:57 PM
Quote from: Valmy on April 09, 2015, 07:46:45 AM
Yes but is he a catholic?

Why does an ambassador need to match the religion of the country they are sent to?
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: dps on April 11, 2015, 04:25:49 PM
Quote from: Caliga on April 11, 2015, 06:32:56 AM
I wonder if the current Pope is gay.  He seems less faggy than Benedict to me. :hmm:

Well, the current one's not Polish.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 02:00:20 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 11, 2015, 12:47:24 AM
being a part of a club that doesn't want you as a member is not just stupid but also demeaning.
they do want you.  Well, your money, first.  Yourself, if you avoid sin (sex outside of wedlock wich is only for procreation).  Or if you give tons of money, confess, swear you won't commit sin again.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 12, 2015, 02:49:34 AM
Quote from: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 02:00:20 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 11, 2015, 12:47:24 AM
being a part of a club that doesn't want you as a member is not just stupid but also demeaning.
they do want you.  Well, your money, first.  Yourself, if you avoid sin (sex outside of wedlock wich is only for procreation).  Or if you give tons of money, confess, swear you won't commit sin again.

Exactly. So no they don't want you. What I am talking about are gays who consider themselves Catholic and keep asking the church to stop considering gay sex a sin.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 05:15:04 PM
Quote from: Martinus on April 12, 2015, 02:49:34 AM
Quote from: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 02:00:20 AM
Quote from: Martinus on April 11, 2015, 12:47:24 AM
being a part of a club that doesn't want you as a member is not just stupid but also demeaning.
they do want you.  Well, your money, first.  Yourself, if you avoid sin (sex outside of wedlock wich is only for procreation).  Or if you give tons of money, confess, swear you won't commit sin again.

Exactly. So no they don't want you. What I am talking about are gays who consider themselves Catholic and keep asking the church to stop considering gay sex a sin.
of course I knew what you were referring to :)  I was joking.

Church not considering gay sex a sin will never happen.  Don't think they will stop considering sex outside of wedlock a sin either.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Razgovory on April 12, 2015, 05:23:07 PM
Of course not.  They won't stop considering masturbating a sin or usury or you know, being born.  Nearly everything you do is a sin, so it's not that big a deal.  You simply confess it.  The focus on homosexuality as a sin to the exclusion of all other sins (such as being a telemarketer), seems odd to me.  I think it has more to do with homophobia then theology.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Sheilbh on April 12, 2015, 06:12:15 PM
I think it's more to do with the media's interest in sexual morality and the American culture wars to be honest.

Francis is about to release the 'environmental' encyclical which is driving conservatives in the US mad and exciting the media. Benedict had already written extensively on the environment and been described as the first green Pope. Conservatives didn't care because they perceived him as 'one of them' and the media didn't for much the same reason.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: grumbler on April 12, 2015, 06:36:07 PM
Quote from: Sheilbh on April 12, 2015, 06:12:15 PM
I think it's more to do with the media's interest in sexual morality and the American culture wars to be honest.

Francis is about to release the 'environmental' encyclical which is driving conservatives in the US mad and exciting the media. Benedict had already written extensively on the environment and been described as the first green Pope. Conservatives didn't care because they perceived him as 'one of them' and the media didn't for much the same reason.

I didn't know conservatives in the US cared that much about papal pronouncements.  Maybe I'm just not as close to them as you are.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Sheilbh on April 12, 2015, 06:50:03 PM
Quote from: grumbler on April 12, 2015, 06:36:07 PM
I didn't know conservatives in the US cared that much about papal pronouncements.  Maybe I'm just not as close to them as you are.
They have. Though largely the Catholic ones which I didn't realise - I had no idea Rush Limbaugh was even a nominal Catholic :blink:

But the stuff by some of these guys does then tend to percolate among wider 'movement conservative' comments. The most controversial aspect has been his attack on western capitalism. I suspect if his encyclical on the environment is similarly strident we'll get another bout then. It's a peculiarly American thing because nowhere else in the world have so many Catholics embraced the sort of Republican view on the economy. You look at Catholic critiques from other countries and it's largely restricted to the traditionalists.

Douthat's good on the types of criticism Francis:
QuoteWho Are Pope Francis's Critics?
MARCH 12, 2015 4:56 PM March 12, 2015 4:56 pm 85 Comments

The latest cover of the new New Republic features Elizabeth Stoker Bruenig taking on conservative anxieties about Pope Francis's possible "radicalism." The essay isn't just about the pope; it offers a larger critique of the way that conservatives, Catholic and otherwise, relate to and interpret the human/Western/Christian past. I have a few disagreements with this depiction, and a few critical generalizations I'd make about the liberal tendency in Catholic thinking and debate right now. But I'll save those for another post; for now I think it would be helpful for the discussion of Catholicism in the Francis era to spend some time distinguishing between the different groups who have doubts, or flirt with having doubts, about this pontificate, because in Bruenig's account they run together a bit and I think the distinctions are actually enormously important.

A preliminary point to make is that Francis's genuinely strident critics — as opposed to skeptics or fretters or unsettled observers — are quite few in number. "The differences in opinion between Francis and the movement collectively known as the 'American right' appear especially numerous," Bruenig writes, "and unusually bitter." She has examples — I'm one of them — and they do add up to a current (or currents) of criticism, but not all of them/us are obviously "bitter," the American right is a lot bigger than a few pundits and bloggers, and it's worth noting that the divide she sees opening up is largely invisible in public polling. In the latest Pew survey, for instance, the pope is just as popular (and he is very popular) among Catholics who vote Republican as among Catholics who vote Democratic, and he has slightly higher net favorables among self-described "conservative" Catholics than among self-described "moderates" and "liberals." To the extent that the anxieties Bruenig identifies are visible in polling at all, they may show up in the somewhat elevated number of conservative Catholics who say their views of Francis are "mostly favorable" rather than "very favorable," or the pope's slightly higher net-unfavorables among Catholic Republicans — but that "higher" means a net of 10 percent, compared to 7 percent for Catholic Democrats, which is hardly the stuff of deep, bitter divides. (Pew's old polling on Benedict XVI didn't break things down by party or ideology, but I'd lay odds that his unfavorable numbers among Catholics who self-identify as liberal were much higher than than Francis's currently are among any definition of the American Catholic right.)

So what we're talking about here, what Bruenig is analyzing, is for now more a tendency within the intelligentsia (and the world of comment threads, but perhaps I repeat myself) than a large-scale phenomenon. And its various elements don't all fit easily under a single label or description. Instead, I would divide them into three groups:

1. Traditionalists. These are Catholics defined by their preference/zeal for the Tridentine Rite Mass and their rejection of (or at least doubts about) various reforms of the Second Vatican Council. Some attend mainstream parishes that offer the mass in Latin, others are affiliated with orders specifically organized around the old rite, others are connected to parishes run by the (arguably; it's a long argument) schismatic Society of Saint Pius X. There's lots of variation within traditionalist ranks (my friend Michael Brendan Dougherty, cited by Bruenig, is a "trad" of a different sort than, say, this fellow), but the important things to emphasize are first, that their numbers (in the American context and otherwise) are quite small; second, that their concerns are not usually the same as those of the typical John Paul II-admiring conservative Catholic (traditionalists were often not admirers of the Polish pope); and third, that their skepticism of Pope Francis was probably inevitable and pretty clearly mutual.

For instance, Bruenig notes that Rorate Caeli, a traditionalist site, greeted Jorge Bergoglio's election by describing him as "a sworn enemy of the traditional Mass." But what she doesn't mention is that as Francis, he has often vindicated those fears: He has demoted the traditional mass's most prominent champion within the Vatican, cracked down on a prominent traditionalist order, and frequently singled out traditionalist tendencies and practices for criticism in his remarks. Traditionalism has, it's fair to say, a paranoid streak and then some, but even paranoids have enemies, and since the Tridentine mass was essentially suppressed in much of the church for a generation and more, Francis's moves have not exactly been calculated to reassure Catholics of this persuasion about their place within the church.

This doesn't mean traditionalists are "right" and the pope is "wrong." (If you want to understand where Francis might be coming from, consider that the SSPX seminary in Argentina during his years as archbishop of Buenos Aires was run by this charmer.) But it means that the conflict here has very specific contours, and the stakes involved are distinctive and not particularly influenced by, say, Francis's social and economic vision (which some traditionalists find entirely congenial; see this Rorate Caeli post for an example). Which makes it very different from my second case study ...

2. Catholics who are economic conservatives or libertarians. These are Catholic writers and personalities who have publicly disagreed with the pope's statements on the economy, capitalism and (pre-emptively, regarding his looming encyclical) the environment; in its crudest form, their criticism proceeds from the same premises as the (not-at-all Catholic) Rush Limbaugh's famous suggestion that Francis is "preaching Marxism" when he critiques the global economy's rapacious side. But it's noteworthy, I think, that the loudest voices here are not usually figures particularly known for their Catholicism. Bruenig quotes Stephen Moore of Heritage, for instance, whose religious affiliation I was unaware of before he invoked it while criticizing the pontiff on green issues, and Sean Hannity of Fox, who's more publicly pious but is also perfectly comfortable playing the cafeteria Catholic on ... well, watch this clip. And her other examples of conservative writers who have gone hard after Francis's forthcoming green encyclical are (meaning no disrespect) relatively obscure. Figures of greater prominence have been much more circumspect (to my knowledge, Michael Novak and George Weigel aren't co-bylining essays denouncing the pontiff as a socialist), and the "Francis is too anti-capitalist" critique has no purchase whatsoever that I can see within the institutional American church.

Instead, on a range of what get labeled social justice or "seamless garment" issues (the death penalty, immigration, etc.) it's hard to find much daylight between what the press considers the conservative flank of the U.S. episcopate (an Archbishop Charles Chaput, say) and the pope. And examples like the recent joint editorial on the death penalty by an ideologically-diverse group of Catholic periodicals suggest that among lay Catholics, too, there isn't all that much pro- or anti-papal polarization going on around social justice issues.

Which is not to say that there isn't a lively debate about the church's social teaching (I have my own doubts about that death penalty editorial, and you don't have to look hard to find critiques), or that Francis hasn't influenced that debate. But it's still mostly a new version of a very old discussion among American Catholics — one that goes back to the Eisenhower-era controversy surrounding William F. Buckley Jr.'s criticisms of the encylical "Mater et Magistra" and extends through Reagan-era arguments about economic policy — about how to apply Catholic social teaching in the American context, and whether that teaching can or should be reconciled with what you might call Anglo-Saxon capitalism.

Under John Paul the balance in that debate (arguably; it's a long argument) tipped a little bit more in democratic capitalism's favor than had previously been the case; under Benedict the papal perspective arguably tipped back in a more explicitly social democratic direction (to some overt criticism from neoconservatives in the United States); under Francis it has taken on a more developing-world, Latin-American flavor, which has tipped things leftward in certain ways and also put a new complexion on the discussion. So too have various non-papal developments: For instance, cultural trends in the United States have encouraged a modest revival of skepticism among self-consciously orthodox Catholic thinkers about the faith's compatibility with both political and economic liberalism ... though at the same time, those same trends have complicated Catholic support for and cooperation with social programs and provided grist for Catholic skeptics of the welfare state.

Where the debate will go I'm not sure, but for now I would stand by what I've written on the subject, both soon after Francis's accession and then a little over a year ago: These discussions are healthy, it's good for conservative Catholics in the U.S. to be challenged to do some hard thinking on these issues, there's nothing threatening to church unity about that challenge, and to the extent that "movement conservatism" as a whole turns explicitly anti-papal over Francis's economic pronouncements (and I don't expect it will) so much the worse for the movement. Which differs dramatically from my read on the pope and ...

3. Doctrinal conservatives. These are conservative American Catholics whose Francis-era anxieties center around the issues raised during last fall's synod on the family, and particularly around Cardinal Walter Kasper's proposal to admit Catholics in second marriages (which the church does not recognize as marriages at all) to communion — an issue I may have written about from time to time. Many of them are also economic conservatives and likely Republican voters, but not all, and notwithstanding that overlap they mostly regard the stakes in the Kasper/divorce debates as much more theologically significant than the stakes in, say, the pope's forthcoming environmental encyclical. As with the economic debate, the more prominent the commentator, the more circumspect they tend to be in directly criticizing Francis on these issues: The tendency, instead, is almost always to separate the pope from the Kasper faction, critiquing that faction vigorously while reassuring readers that no doctrinal change is in the offing. (My own approach here is distinctive, and perhaps imprudent.) But at the same time, the pattern in which the debate has proceeded, I think, leaves little doubt that if Francis were to adopt Kasper's proposals or others like them there would necessarily be much more open opposition from this group.

And crucially from the perspective of church politics, the doctrinal-conservative view of the stakes in the synod debates is shared by many Catholics around the world who are not at all American-style conservatives, and who have no real problem with and may even be enthusiastic about Francis on economic or ecological issues. (As is the case, for instance, for some of the African and European cardinals on the doctrinal-conservative side in the synod clashes.). Which is why analyzing this debate mostly through the lens of American movement conservatism (I'm pretty sure Limbaugh would be fine with the Kasper proposal!) and American politics, or conjoining the two the way Bruenig's essay sometimes does, misses the bigger picture for this pontificate and the future of the Catholic Church.

That picture — coming around to the point of this rambling taxonomy — is simply this. A future in which Francis's "radicalism" (a term that would require yet another post to unpack, so I won't) is defined by his approach to the social gospel, globalization and the poor is one in which the tension with traditionalists will remain intense but not high-profile, in which the tension with free-marketeers and libertarians will percolate in interesting ways, and in which conservative doubts about this pontificate will remain a particularly American phenomenon and a mostly elite-level tendency overall. And it's a future, at this point, that I would welcome, since I'd be very happy to spend more time arguing with Bruenig about the church's historical relationship to the welfare state and less time arguing about German cardinals and divorce.

But a future in which this pope's "radicalism" extends to moves that look like an implicit change of doctrine around communion and/or marriage ... in which it's not just Hannity but the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith that's in conflict with the throne of Peter ... well, in that future the economic issues would become a sideshow, and the pope's existing conflict with traditionalists would become the template for a doctrinal conflict that's wider, global, and essentially unknowable in its results. And it's that future, for reasons that I believe are more Christian than "conservative", that I'd very much prefer the Catholic faith be spared.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 11:29:27 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on April 12, 2015, 05:23:07 PM
Of course not.  They won't stop considering masturbating a sin or usury or you know, being born.  Nearly everything you do is a sin, so it's not that big a deal.  You simply confess it.  The focus on homosexuality as a sin to the exclusion of all other sins (such as being a telemarketer), seems odd to me.  I think it has more to do with homophobia then theology.
That's because you are expected to repent and really mean it.
Confessing you had homosexual sex is one thing, confessing it and doing it again, repeatedly is another.

The official doctrine is that gays should not engage in sexual activity.  So long as they remain chaste or marry with women, gays are welcome to the Church.  Punish the sin, not the sinner, and all that.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Martinus on April 13, 2015, 01:09:19 AM
Yeah, it's like being divorced. It removes you from communion as your sin is continuous.

That being said, I suppose two people of the same sex living in a committed but sex less relationship should probably be fine from the Catholic perspective. So you would only have to confess your affairs, i.e. like normal people. :P
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: Razgovory on April 13, 2015, 08:51:25 AM
Quote from: viper37 on April 12, 2015, 11:29:27 PM
Quote from: Razgovory on April 12, 2015, 05:23:07 PM
Of course not.  They won't stop considering masturbating a sin or usury or you know, being born.  Nearly everything you do is a sin, so it's not that big a deal.  You simply confess it.  The focus on homosexuality as a sin to the exclusion of all other sins (such as being a telemarketer), seems odd to me.  I think it has more to do with homophobia then theology.
That's because you are expected to repent and really mean it.
Confessing you had homosexual sex is one thing, confessing it and doing it again, repeatedly is another.

The official doctrine is that gays should not engage in sexual activity.  So long as they remain chaste or marry with women, gays are welcome to the Church.  Punish the sin, not the sinner, and all that.

Yet there still are telemarketers ( a sin against man and God), yet doesn't get a lot of press.
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: viper37 on April 13, 2015, 12:59:41 PM
Quote from: Martinus on April 13, 2015, 01:09:19 AM
Yeah, it's like being divorced. It removes you from communion as your sin is continuous.
Yes.  Up 'til 50-60 years ago, divorcees could not receive communion in Church in Quebec.  Priests visited families to make sure the women were doing their conjugal duties, encouraging them to procreate.
nowadays, they had to adapt and bend the rules, otherwise, in some places, the churches would be empty.  Technically, you are still barred from communion, but it involves you and God, the priest does not ask questions nor pass judgement.

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That being said, I suppose two people of the same sex living in a committed but sex less relationship should probably be fine from the Catholic perspective. So you would only have to confess your affairs, i.e. like normal people. :P
Normal people don't confess unless they're caught ;)
Title: Re: Gay/French/Catholic singularity megathread
Post by: derspiess on April 13, 2015, 03:04:56 PM
Quote from: Sheilbh on April 12, 2015, 06:12:15 PM
Francis is about to release the 'environmental' encyclical which is driving conservatives in the US mad and exciting the media.

:ultra: