Funny thing I observed about my female friends

[Drakken]

Surely you can find some local Jap who dig gaijin-samas without shaming their families and ancestors. You're capable of being discreet, right? RIGHT?

You're forbidden fruit, and it pulls so better enjoy it.

[Josquius]

Oh yeah, sure, I hope so at least.
Lets not hijack the thread with my love like/lack thereof though. :p

[Admiral Yi]

I never got the impression that humping a gaijin was any real taboo in Japan.

[Ed Anger]

I want some Jap strange. 

[Tonitrus]

I want some Jap strange. 

Buy an "okiya" over there. 

[Jacob]

I never got the impression that humping a gaijin was any real taboo in Japan.

Yeah, I don't think it is. There's a big chunk of Japanese for whom foreigners are not interesting; then there's a sizeable group for whom foreigners are interesting. Try to hook up with girls in the second group. It's possible.

As for reputation, I'm pretty sure that as long as you're not some crazy horn dog trying to juggle five different girls at the same time or slobbering uncontrollably over girls who you shouldn't look at (like say your students or their mothers or high school girls or whatever), then you're fine. Try to date more or less one girl at her time and treat her decently and your reputation will be fine.

[CountDeMoney]

as long as you're not some crazy horn dog trying to juggle five different girls at the same time or slobbering uncontrollably over girls who you shouldn't look at (like say your students or their mothers or high school girls or whatever), then you're fine.

Well, shit.

[Jacob]

Well, shit.

Well, you can still do that - and some try - but people will consider you a disreputable foreigner. Not to your face, though.

[CountDeMoney]

We can't have that, then.
I would want to fit in like a Japanese businessman chain smoking in sunglasses at a titty bar.

[Josquius]

humping a foreigner- no tabboo.
humping somebody with whom you don't have a language in common-huge tabboo.

As for reputation, I'm pretty sure that as long as you're not some crazy horn dog trying to juggle five different girls at the same time or slobbering uncontrollably over girls who you shouldn't look at (like say your students or their mothers or high school girls or whatever), then you're fine. Try to date more or less one girl at her time and treat her decently and your reputation will be fine.

Hence my not giving in to the 30 plussers.
A bit of fun- sure, some of them are hot, they probally know their stuff. If I could sleep with them guarantied no strings and nobody finding out....then there are definitely more than a few I'd be willing to have a crack at.
For a girlfriend though? No, it can never go anywhere and  it ruins my potential for getting anywhere with  a girl  who is a viable  option.

[Queequeg]

I wanna be an Alpha!

Epsilon-plus on a good day.

He's too dysfunctional.  He's somewhere in New Mexico cutting himself.