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Started by Jacob, April 06, 2014, 09:36:24 AM

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How do you feel about your near extended family (parents, siblings, in-laws, uncles, aunts, cousins)?

I'm close to my family and I genuinely enjoy it.
21 (40.4%)
They're pretty good, in reasonable doses.
21 (40.4%)
I don't really care either way.
1 (1.9%)
The family is mostly a drag, but in spite of all the BS they're still family.
5 (9.6%)
Completely dysfunctional; the less I have to do with them the better.
2 (3.8%)
I don't have much of a family.
2 (3.8%)

Total Members Voted: 50

Jacob

Obviously the relationships will vary with the individuals, but in aggregate how do you feel about your family?

celedhring

My family is extremely dysfunctional yet at the same time very close-knit. Which either makes for a great sitcom or a lot of misery. Or both.

Josquius

Kept on the other side of the world they're OK. Back home they're overly close.
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mongers

Quote from: Tyr on April 06, 2014, 10:42:28 AM
Kept on the other side of the world they're OK. Back home they're overly close.

When you come back to Blighty, how will you afford to sent them to New Zealand ?
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CountDeMoney

Quote from: celedhring on April 06, 2014, 09:51:53 AM
My family is extremely dysfunctional yet at the same time very close-knit. Which either makes for a great sitcom or a lot of misery. Or both.

This.

I love my family and I can't wait to get away from them as quickly as possible.

ulmont

Quote from: Jacob on April 06, 2014, 09:36:24 AM
Obviously the relationships will vary with the individuals, but in aggregate how do you feel about your family?

Well, the answers are different for the sides of the family.  My father's side gets the "good in small doses" response; my mother's side gets the "fuck these guys" response.

Razgovory

I really don't see them much.
I've given it serious thought. I must scorn the ways of my family, and seek a Japanese woman to yield me my progeny. He shall live in the lands of the east, and be well tutored in his sacred trust to weave the best traditions of Japan and the Sacred South together, until such time as he (or, indeed his house, which will periodically require infusion of both Southern and Japanese bloodlines of note) can deliver to the South it's independence, either in this world or in space.  -Lettow April of 2011

Raz is right. -MadImmortalMan March of 2017

Capetan Mihali

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Quote from: celedhring on April 06, 2014, 09:51:53 AM
My family is extremely dysfunctional yet at the same time very close-knit. Which either makes for a great sitcom or a lot of misery. Or both.

Me too.  Mainly within my immediate family, though.  Once you get into uncles/aunts/cousins, it's more of a spread between totally estranged at the moment, pleasant from a distance, and quite close despite craziness/backbiting/etc.
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Capetan Mihali

And now to Sly Stone on the Hammond B3 with the story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNQpYz1ztx8
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Darth Wagtaros

Didn't really care for it. But Urkel did have his moments. I always wonder if the father was the same character in Die Hard.
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Scipio

Close to my family, except my sister. Whom, I would mourn, if she died in a fire.
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Ideologue

Quote from: Darth Wagtaros on April 06, 2014, 07:30:05 PM
Didn't really care for it. But Urkel did have his moments. I always wonder if the father was the same character in Die Hard.

I wanted to know what happened to the other daughter.  Leukemia?  Car accident?  Fire?  Hole in the ground?  WHY WON'T THEY SPEAK THEIR PAIN?
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Monoriu

Parents: dysfunctional. 

In-laws: reasonably ok.  We meet once every month or so.  For some weird reason they seem quite fond of me from the start, even though I honestly didn't do anything to win them over.  The person who really made an effort to win them over is their daughter-in-law.  It seems quite unfair to me that my parents-in-law like me more than her. 

PRC

Quote from: Monoriu on April 06, 2014, 09:14:29 PM
Parents: dysfunctional. 

In-laws: reasonably ok.  We meet once every month or so.  For some weird reason they seem quite fond of me from the start, even though I honestly didn't do anything to win them over.  The person who really made an effort to win them over is their daughter-in-law.  It seems quite unfair to me that my parents-in-law like me more than her. 

Isn't your Father-in-Law an epic Feng Shui master?  He must have some solid vibe from you to be so happy with you from the start, no?

Monoriu

Quote from: PRC on April 06, 2014, 09:30:13 PM


Isn't your Father-in-Law an epic Feng Shui master?  He must have some solid vibe from you to be so happy with you from the start, no?

Pretty sure he doesn't know me well enough the first time he met me to make any fung shui predictions.  Actually, the mother-in-law is the one who likes me most.