Acceptance of stripping in the USA

[grumbler]

It's like going to the beach when it's guaranteed to rain.

It's like rain on your wedding day.

It's a free ride when you've already paid.

Good advice that you just didnt take.

It's like a bearskin rug with the bear still in it.

[Caliga]

More like a traffic jam when you're already late.

[Josquius]

Well for one, it seemed like you did when you said:

Its like going to a club and guarantied striking out.

Nyet.
Go to a real club- you see hot girls and you hope to pull.
Go to a trip club- you see hot girls and you know there is no chance of anything more than paying large sums of money to be teased.
Assuming the place is reputable of course.

[Valmy]

Nyet.
Go to a real club- you see hot girls and you hope to pull.
Go to a trip club- you see hot girls and you know there is no chance of anything more than paying large sums of money to be teased.
Assuming the place is reputable of course.

Some people like being teased.  And nobody goes to strip clubs when what they want is to take somebody home for sex.  So yeah not really sure what your point is.

[CountDeMoney]

Only two words matter in a strip club, or you're just wasting your time:  Out. Call.

Bumped for fucking truth.

[Valmy]

Only two words matter in a strip club, or you're just wasting your time:  Out. Call.

Bumped for fucking truth.

Heh.  Well that to.

[Malthus]

So edumacate me.

Why, other than for sexual fun, do guys pay for "lap dances"?  Cultural appreciation, perhaps? 

When i've gone with friends it has been the custom of buying lap dances for them, not yourself and vice versa.

And no boners were ever had by any during this procedure?

Call me crazy, but if I had a hott chick grinding her crotch into mine, paid for by a friend or otherwise, I'd sora expect one. 

[Jaron]

Pardon my naivete but what does Out. Call. mean?

[CountDeMoney]

Pardon my naivete but what does Out. Call. mean?

Outcall. Translation: "After you get off at work at the club, how about you come over to my hotel room for some extra cash?"

[11B4V]

Pardon my naivete but what does Out. Call. mean?

[Admiral Yi]

And no boners were ever had by any during this procedure?

Call me crazy, but if I had a hott chick grinding her crotch into mine, paid for by a friend or otherwise, I'd sora expect one. 

Surprising as it may sound, the male and female body are not really designed to optimize crotch on crotch contact while the male is in the seated position.

[Malthus]

And no boners were ever had by any during this procedure?

Call me crazy, but if I had a hott chick grinding her crotch into mine, paid for by a friend or otherwise, I'd sora expect one. 

Surprising as it may sound, the male and female body are not really designed to optimize crotch on crotch contact while the male is in the seated position.

I've had sex in this position ...   

But I take it that you guys are claiming that lap-dances do not, in fact, result in any sexual arousal for the person receiving them?

I find that "hard" to believe. 

[Valmy]

Not me

[Admiral Yi]

I've had sex in this position ...   

But I take it that you guys are claiming that lap-dances do not, in fact, result in any sexual arousal for the person receiving them?

I find that "hard" to believe. 

Not zero.  This Eye-talian American chick humped my leg in Atlantic City and I got some serious wood.

But generally the lap dance is not a very effective means of sexual release.

[Malthus]

I've had sex in this position ...   

But I take it that you guys are claiming that lap-dances do not, in fact, result in any sexual arousal for the person receiving them?

I find that "hard" to believe. 

Not zero.  This Eye-talian American chick humped my leg in Atlantic City and I got some serious wood.

But generally the lap dance is not a very effective means of sexual release.

Well yeah, I'm not claiming that guys regularly shoot their wad while being "danced".  I was just taking issue with being called out for claiming guys who get lap dances are likely looking to get turned on.

Other than some sort of male bonding social ritual, what other point could paying a woman to dry-hump you have?