I was looking for an old friend of mine on Facebook, but he is not there apparently (he is an old friend from school - we were good friends until we both went to college, then we went opposite ways). However, I found him on google, in a profile of his company, listing his job position and job e-mail address.
Would it be stalkerish/weird if I sent him an e-mail to that address, saying hi and whether he would like to go out for a coffee?
I feel like it would be, but maybe I'm over-sensitive.
Not at all!
I'd go for it, worst thing he might ignore you <_<
Not to his office.
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Quote from: Martinus on September 23, 2011, 04:15:26 PM
Would it be stalkerish/weird if I sent him an e-mail to that address, saying hi and whether he would like to go out for a coffee?
If you sent emails with the same frequency you have started threads lately then yes certainly.
Sounds OK to me.
if he defriended you then you can send a FACEBOOK message asking to renew the contact. If there has been no defriending or other breach of contact sending an email is suitable. However, if he declines to reply you have to leave well enough alone.
Quote from: Viking on September 23, 2011, 06:44:17 PM
if he defriended you then you can send a FACEBOOK message asking to renew the contact. If there has been no defriending or other breach of contact sending an email is suitable. However, if he declines to reply you have to leave well enough alone.
Quote from: Martinus on September 23, 2011, 04:15:26 PM
I was looking for an old friend of mine on Facebook, but he is not there apparently
:huh:
Mart: I think it'd be ok.
People need to work at work, not get personal e-mails from stalkers.
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It's OK.
Not stalkerish at all, but, as viking says, just keep it to the single email.
Marty: the dude put his address on his fucking Facebook page. He's not hiding it under a rock. Drop him a line.
He does not have a facebook page - I thought I said so. The address is on his company's page, right next to his picture and name (so I know it's him).
Oh. Takes backs.
Why would sending an old friend an e-mail be stalkerish?
Great, another thread on more Martinus I'm-horny-should-I-or-shouldn't-I bullshit. Super.
Quote from: Martinus on September 24, 2011, 06:09:35 AM
He does not have a facebook page - I thought I said so. The address is on his company's page, right next to his picture and name (so I know it's him).
Russianbeef.com?
Melody certainly thought so. :(
So we went out to grab a couple of beers. He is not exactly my type/hot (so we didn't end up having sex tonight but I do not exclude that in future especially as he also has a foot fetish), but is still fun and I invited him to go out with my gay pack to a club this weekend. He is between boyfriends now so has free time. We spent 2 hours discussing guys from high school we wanted to fuck (surprisingly similar taste in men). :P
:yuk:
Quote from: Zanza on September 24, 2011, 08:52:53 AM
Why would sending an old friend an e-mail be stalkerish?
The thread was started by Marti.
Quote from: Martinus on September 24, 2011, 06:09:35 AM
He does not have a facebook page - I thought I said so. The address is on his company's page, right next to his picture and name (so I know it's him).
Oh, he's got one. It's just not searchable.
He told me he does not have one as he is boycotting Facebook for some reason.
I guess you contacted him then!
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 28, 2011, 07:16:36 AM
I guess you contacted him then!
How did you guess? Perhaps a post on how I went out with him for a beer implied that!
Quote from: Martinus on September 28, 2011, 07:29:43 AM
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 28, 2011, 07:16:36 AM
I guess you contacted him then!
How did you guess? Perhaps a post on how I went out with him for a beer implied that!
:lol: No. I missed that post. :blush:
Quote from: Martinus on September 28, 2011, 07:29:43 AM
Quote from: Grey Fox on September 28, 2011, 07:16:36 AM
I guess you contacted him then!
How did you guess? Perhaps a post on how I went out with him for a beer implied that!
We mostly don't listen to what you say, to be honest.
Quote from: Martinus on September 27, 2011, 02:59:41 PM
So we went out to grab a couple of beers. He is not exactly my type/hot (so we didn't end up having sex tonight but I do not exclude that in future especially as he also has a foot fetish), but is still fun and I invited him to go out with my gay pack to a club this weekend. He is between boyfriends now so has free time. We spent 2 hours discussing guys from high school we wanted to fuck (surprisingly similar taste in men). :P
Well, I'm glad it turned out so well. :)