Somehow I'm not surprised. :hmm:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44220736/ns/health-behavior/
QuoteAmericans fall in love slower than Europeans, study finds
Also, those in U.S. say friendship is key aspect, while Eastern Europeans don't feel that way
By Remy Melina, LiveScience Staff Writer
updated 8/21/2011 3:38:46 PM ET 2011-08-21T19:38:46
Americans take longer to fall in love than their Eastern European counterparts, according to a new study. The findings also showed that Americans frequently cited friendship as a key part of romantic love, while Russians and Lithuanians rarely mentioned it.
The study found that about 90 percent of Lithuanians reported falling in love within a month of meeting one another, with 39 percent falling in love within a matter of days. By comparison, 58 percent of American participants indicated they fell in love within two months to a year.
To see how different cultures view and practice romantic love, the researchers surveyed 1,157 adults from the United States, Russia and Lithuania. Participants were given a 14-item questionnaire meant to gauge how they perceived romantic love, and also asked to write a freelist answering the question, "What do you associate with romantic love?" Group interviews were also conducted.
The list responses showed that most of the Eastern European participants viewed romantic love as fleeting, but this was not the case for Americans. [See top 10 lists from all three cultures ]
"The idea that romantic love was temporary and inconsequential was frequently cited by Lithuanian and Russian informants, but not by U.S. informants," the researchers write in the journal Cross-Cultural Research. The Eastern Europe participants also referred to romantic love as "a stage," "unreal" and a "fairytale."
Furthermore, while Americans frequently cited "friendship" and "comfort/love" as requirements for romantic love, other participants either seldom or never mentioned these requirements. In fact, the word "friendship" is absent from the more than 500 terms elicited from the Eastern European samples.
"Friendship speaks of a real and substantive relationship; friends are not temporary," the researchers write. "Thus it seems to reason that with friendship come other qualities that are missing or infrequently cited in the Eastern European sample, but are frequently cited in the U.S. sample — 'honesty,' 'content' and 'comfort.'"
There were some similarities among the American, Russian and Lithuanian responses. All three groups rated "being together," "sexual passion" and "a state of emotional arousal-happiness/joy" as features of romantic love. "Equality" and "sex" were also two main features mentioned by the groups.
The study was carried out by scientists at the State University of New York at New Paltz and Russia's Moscow State University for the Humanities.
You can follow LiveScience writer Remy Melina on Twitter@remymelina.
Czechs and Slovaks make fantastic porn.
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 21, 2011, 09:16:12 PM
Czechs and Slovaks make fantastic porn.
Indeed. I need to learn one of them Slavik languages and pick up some of the hungry cuties.
Lithuanians I`ve met have tended towards being rather meh actually.
Estonians on the other hand...:perv:
Yet another reason to love Eastern Europeans. :perv:
Quote from: Tyr on August 21, 2011, 09:42:37 PM
Lithuanians I`ve met have tended towards being rather meh actually.
Estonians on the other hand...:perv:
Estonians are like Finns right? Pass.
Quote from: Razgovory on August 21, 2011, 11:33:25 PM
Quote from: Tyr on August 21, 2011, 09:42:37 PM
Lithuanians I`ve met have tended towards being rather meh actually.
Estonians on the other hand...:perv:
Estonians are like Finns right? Pass.
How many Finns have you met?
raz is a deeply racist individual.
WTF with the thread title, from the cancer tard?
Success! ^_^
Because if you fall in "love" with every hairy-dicked Tom that comes your way, that makes you a slut. :hmm:
:hmm:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2027947/Americans-far-longer-fall-love-Eastern-Europeans.html#ixzz1VjpW9WoQ
QuoteAnother possible explanation for the difference is that those from Eastern Europe have different standards.
As one 27-year-old Lithuanian woman told the researchers: 'For me a man should be a little bit more handsome than a monkey, but not much.
'But first of all I am fascinated by a man's masculinity.'
Quote from: Peter Wiggin on August 22, 2011, 01:42:03 AM
Because if you fall in "love" with every hairy-dicked Tom that comes your way, that makes you a slut. :hmm:
Actually, isn't that the opposite? I mean if you really believe you have fallen in love with each person - isn't that less slutty than the person who keeps sleeping with different people without being in love?
Quote from: Slargos on August 22, 2011, 01:01:32 AM
raz is a deeply racist individual.
I'm not sure why you think I would care what you think or say.
Quote from: Razgovory on August 26, 2011, 12:17:10 AM
Quote from: Slargos on August 22, 2011, 01:01:32 AM
raz is a deeply racist individual.
I'm not sure why you think I would care what you think or say.
and i'm not quite sure why you'd think that i would think that. :hmm:
I'm not sure either of you think. :P
Quote from: CountDeMoney on August 21, 2011, 09:16:12 PM
Czechs and Slovaks make fantastic porn.
Yes. And they are actually good-looking.
Now if you want bad porn, just find some Russian MILF porn.