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Decision making - head or heart?

Started by merithyn, May 14, 2013, 03:47:20 PM

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The most important life decisions are best made with ______ ?

100% Head
1 (4.3%)
75/25% Head/Heart
10 (43.5%)
50%/50% Head/Heart
6 (26.1%)
25/75% Head/Heart
1 (4.3%)
100% Heart
2 (8.7%)
Spleen (Jaron option)
3 (13%)

Total Members Voted: 23

fhdz

Quote from: DGuller on May 14, 2013, 06:32:50 PM
I instinctively think rationally, so I don't know where that puts me.  :huh:

Delusion Land.
and the horse you rode in on

Admiral Yi

I can see it.  The dude eats, sleeps, and breathes probabilities.

Josquius

I try to make it 100% head, heart of course often creeps in and in practice takes up 25% or occasionally 50%, which is a grave error.
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Razgovory

I was advised by my doctor to not think at all.  So I try to avoid all thinking.
I've given it serious thought. I must scorn the ways of my family, and seek a Japanese woman to yield me my progeny. He shall live in the lands of the east, and be well tutored in his sacred trust to weave the best traditions of Japan and the Sacred South together, until such time as he (or, indeed his house, which will periodically require infusion of both Southern and Japanese bloodlines of note) can deliver to the South it's independence, either in this world or in space.  -Lettow April of 2011

Raz is right. -MadImmortalMan March of 2017

fhdz

Quote from: Admiral Yi on May 14, 2013, 06:46:03 PM
I can see it.  The dude eats, sleeps, and breathes probabilities.

He just thinks he's applying all those probabilities in the same way a computer of equivalent processing power might.

He isn't, though :)
and the horse you rode in on

Phillip V

#35
My experience is that people have very poor long-term planning/projection, so they need to focus on their head rather than their usually destructive impulses ("heart").

On the flipside, many people (specifically women) are socialized ("head") to ignore or accommodate warning/danger signs/actions of future violence (or failure or accident or  bankruptcy, etc.). They go along with the situation or freeze when they should instead have followed the animal instinct of fight or flight (or scream/report to authorities). Doing nothing much more likely leads to rape and/or death; or stagnation/indecisiveness/cycle of failure in other areas such as career, relationships, choice of restaurant/clothes, etc.

Sheilbh

Quote from: Admiral Yi on May 14, 2013, 04:35:36 PM
I'm not sure I can think of many times when the two have been in conflict for me. :hmm:
Yep. We're not rational creatures, we're rationalising.
Let's bomb Russia!

Tonitrus

Quote from: CountDeMoney on May 14, 2013, 05:51:07 PM
My decision-making processes are predicated solely upon the application of logic, reason and the scientific method.

And kittens.

Eddie Teach

Quote from: Razgovory on May 14, 2013, 06:50:46 PM
I was advised by my doctor to not think at all.  So I try to avoid all thinking.

Wise man.
To sleep, perchance to dream. But in that sleep of death, what dreams may come?

CountDeMoney

Quote from: Tonitrus on May 14, 2013, 07:16:26 PM
Quote from: CountDeMoney on May 14, 2013, 05:51:07 PM
My decision-making processes are predicated solely upon the application of logic, reason and the scientific method.

And kittens.

And kittens.

derspiess

Quote from: Razgovory on May 14, 2013, 06:50:46 PM
I was advised by my doctor to not think at all.  So I try to avoid all thinking.

We don't pay you to think :contract:
"If you can play a guitar and harmonica at the same time, like Bob Dylan or Neil Young, you're a genius. But make that extra bit of effort and strap some cymbals to your knees, suddenly people want to get the hell away from you."  --Rich Hall

PDH

I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
-Umberto Eco

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"I'm pretty sure my level of depression has nothing to do with how much of a fucking asshole you are."

-CdM

MadImmortalMan

Quote from: PDH on May 14, 2013, 08:10:31 PM
I don't decide anything.  Ever.


You still have made a choice.   :punk:
"Stability is destabilizing." --Hyman Minsky

"Complacency can be a self-denying prophecy."
"We have nothing to fear but lack of fear itself." --Larry Summers

DontSayBanana

Spleen's the closest option to where the real decisions are made. :P
Experience bij!

DGuller

Quote from: Admiral Yi on May 14, 2013, 06:46:03 PM
I can see it.  The dude eats, sleeps, and breathes probabilities.
As a matter of fact, right now I am eating steak, drinking lots of wine, and submitting statistical model runs from my brand new remote connection to work computer.  :Embarrass:  I love my job, and I know I'm very lucky in that way, but why couldn't I love being someone in a far less geekier profession?  :(