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Started by Josquius, April 19, 2009, 10:30:49 AM

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charliebear


Eddie Teach

Quote from: charliebear on April 20, 2009, 11:30:28 AM
Quote from: Caliga on April 20, 2009, 11:16:51 AM
I liked the part where Debra Winger died. :thumbsup:

I havn't seen Titanic, either.  Don't tell me how it ends.   :P

Boat sinks.
To sleep, perchance to dream. But in that sleep of death, what dreams may come?

dps

Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 11:54:02 AM
I would never use a term of endearment with someone I knew casually, or not at all.

Indeed.  What the heck is the point, other than implying a false familiarity?

Eochaid

It's been a while

Malthus

I guess I better stop calling everyone I meet casually "assmonkey".  :(
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane—Marcus Aurelius

dps

Quote from: mongers on April 20, 2009, 05:27:14 PM
Quote from: dps on April 20, 2009, 01:20:05 PM
Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 11:54:02 AM
I would never use a term of endearment with someone I knew casually, or not at all.

Indeed.  What the heck is the point, other than implying a false familiarity?

I'm not sure this is wholely the case, especially when used by women in a traditional market setting; certainly its more sincere than the automata "have a nice day".

Yeah, but traditionally, those women are man-hungry spinsters, and I always figured them calling their male customers "honey" and the like was wishful thinking on their part.

garbon

All kinds of people call me honey and dear. I think it is because they think I'm a child. :(
"I've never been quite sure what the point of a eunuch is, if truth be told. It seems to me they're only men with the useful bits cut off."
I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damned things have learned to swim.

Neil

Quote from: garbon on April 20, 2009, 05:58:15 PM
All kinds of people call me honey and dear. I think it is because they think I'm a child. :(
Why the frown?  Isn't that what you want?
I do not hate you, nor do I love you, but you are made out of atoms which I can use for something else.

garbon

Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:06:33 PM
Why the frown?  Isn't that what you want?

To be a child? No, I don't want to be a child.
"I've never been quite sure what the point of a eunuch is, if truth be told. It seems to me they're only men with the useful bits cut off."
I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damned things have learned to swim.

Neil

Quote from: garbon on April 20, 2009, 06:08:01 PM
Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:06:33 PM
Why the frown?  Isn't that what you want?

To be a child? No, I don't want to be a child.
You've been given a gift that the vast majority of gays would kill for.  To appear youthful, while maintaining an attitude that tells everyone around you still have that junior-high mentality.  You people love that sort of thing.
I do not hate you, nor do I love you, but you are made out of atoms which I can use for something else.

garbon

Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:12:29 PM
You've been given a gift that the vast majority of gays would kill for.  To appear youthful, while maintaining an attitude that tells everyone around you still have that junior-high mentality.  You people love that sort of thing.

That's the problem right there. Gay isn't my only identity.  Also, I disliked junior-high.
"I've never been quite sure what the point of a eunuch is, if truth be told. It seems to me they're only men with the useful bits cut off."
I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damned things have learned to swim.

Neil

Quote from: garbon on April 20, 2009, 06:16:29 PM
That's the problem right there. Gay isn't my only identity.  Also, I disliked junior-high.
It's enough of you.

You might have disliked junior high, but you never got past it.
I do not hate you, nor do I love you, but you are made out of atoms which I can use for something else.

garbon

Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:19:52 PM
You might have disliked junior high, but you never got past it.

Actually I did. Very little in my life is similar to my life in junior high.  Although, I do still play computer games. :)
"I've never been quite sure what the point of a eunuch is, if truth be told. It seems to me they're only men with the useful bits cut off."
I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damned things have learned to swim.

Neil

Quote from: garbon on April 20, 2009, 06:21:08 PM
Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:19:52 PM
You might have disliked junior high, but you never got past it.

Actually I did. Very little in my life is similar to my life in junior high.  Although, I do still play computer games. :)
You post like you're in junior high.  Also, you're gay.
I do not hate you, nor do I love you, but you are made out of atoms which I can use for something else.

garbon

Quote from: Neil on April 20, 2009, 06:23:13 PM
Also, you're gay.

Well it is true that people in junior high often use "gay" as a pejorative. :lol:
"I've never been quite sure what the point of a eunuch is, if truth be told. It seems to me they're only men with the useful bits cut off."
I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damned things have learned to swim.