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Porn induced erectile dysfunction

Started by crazy canuck, November 21, 2014, 02:46:03 PM

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CountDeMoney

Quote from: Martinus on November 22, 2014, 02:03:57 AM
In general, I tend to agree with Quentin Crisp that sex is just a poor substitute for masturbation. :P

Amen to that.

The Brain

Quote from: Martinus on November 22, 2014, 02:03:57 AM

In general, I tend to agree with Quentin Crisp that sex is just a poor substitute for masturbation. :P

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Neil

I thank Jacob for teaching me interesting new things, like about incels and red pills.

That said, isn't the relationship between actual sex and media sex pretty well established.  The media will set the tone, just like it did with blowjobs.  Those were becoming mainstream when the internet was a sparkle in Al Gore mind.
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Grey Fox

Reading Ide's views of sex is so depressing. He even makes Squeeze views look optimistic.
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MadImmortalMan

Quote from: Neil on November 22, 2014, 08:25:50 PM
I thank Jacob for teaching me interesting new things, like about incels and red pills.

That said, isn't the relationship between actual sex and media sex pretty well established.  The media will set the tone, just like it did with blowjobs.  Those were becoming mainstream when the internet was a sparkle in Al Gore mind.


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Ideologue

Quote from: Grey Fox on November 22, 2014, 09:11:08 PM
Reading Ide's views of sex is so depressing. He even makes Squeeze views look optimistic.

:unsure:
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garbon

Quote from: CountDeMoney on November 22, 2014, 09:38:57 AM
Quote from: Martinus on November 22, 2014, 02:03:57 AM
In general, I tend to agree with Quentin Crisp that sex is just a poor substitute for masturbation. :P

Amen to that.

Now, now. You too need to stop cribbing Grallon.
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mongers

For some reason I can't get my self work-up about this thread topic.  :hmm:
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Jacob

Quote from: Neil on November 22, 2014, 08:25:50 PM
I thank Jacob for teaching me interesting new things, like about incels and red pills.

Enjoy! :)

QuoteThat said, isn't the relationship between actual sex and media sex pretty well established.  The media will set the tone, just like it did with blowjobs.  Those were becoming mainstream when the internet was a sparkle in Al Gore mind.

I think it is, yeah.

Malthus

The thing that is most unrealistic and problematic about porn is not the particular acts depicted (outside of obvious non-starters like non-consent and violent porn), but the very mechanics of it - in the vast majority of porn, people take off clothes (or are already unclothed) and simply start fucking.

This simply isn't how people actually fuck in real life (or at least, speaking of hetero people: I know nothing of gay sex). If a guy actually tried that in real life with most women, it would not work well.

Granted, porn is supposed to be visually stimulating, and apparently most people find visual depictions of foreplay boring - but the fact is that if people are taking porn for their sex manuals, the role of foreplay would be very badly underplayed, leading to unsatisfying sex.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane—Marcus Aurelius

crazy canuck

Its probably why porn leads to erectile dysfunction.  Guys begin to think that is all there is to sex.

Grey Fox

Quote from: Ideologue on November 23, 2014, 12:27:42 AM
Quote from: Grey Fox on November 22, 2014, 09:11:08 PM
Reading Ide's views of sex is so depressing. He even makes Squeeze views look optimistic.

:unsure:

It's humiliation & going thru the motions.

:snooze:
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Ideologue

Malthus also would like characters in action movies to have to use the bathroom, I guess.

Also, depends on your definition of foreplay. It's compressed in time thru editing, like the sex itself, but is often (perhaps even typically?) present in ordinary girl boy scenes.

GF, yoy have no idea how I fuck, so I'd prefer if you didn't make assumptions.
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